Im 16 and hAve never had a b/f before i think it cause im afraid like ill get asked out and ill sey yes but then a dya or two later ill get scared and break up ive even tried becoming really good friends with them first so i get to know them better but i still break up what should i do
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Leigh answered Saturday August 14 2004, 4:13 pm: I think you might get scared that since you are good friends beforehand you could get even closer to that person when you are a couple. If you really want a b/f then stay together you should try it out. Don't be scared and end up breaking up with him give him a chance and get to know him you know you might even have a long term relationship with this guy. Just remember even when you are a couple he's just as nervous around you as you are too.
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liddylflirtx3 answered Thursday August 12 2004, 5:08 pm: i think you're just scared of a commitment. just get yourself really comfortable with a guy first. and then if he asks you out and you really like him, say yes - and then don't get scared, just think of it as a time where you 2 can get closer and show affection for each other .. lol i hope i helped you =) [ liddylflirtx3's advice column | Ask liddylflirtx3 A Question ]
LaLa34lismchle answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 10:52 pm: try to figure out why your breaking up with them. Are u afraid of making a commitment? Are u afraid of them breaking your heart? Are u not really in like with that person? Are they too *fill in blank * for u? I understand u prolli are lookin for a longer relationship but that will comein time im sure ......but thats a gay answer to this question so try to get to kno them and look at the things u like and dont like of them soon enough ull figure out what u want in a guy and find the guy that meets what u want and u might stay with him awhile......or dont break up with themm but u are prolli breaking up with them cuz u stop liking them....usually the best part of a relationship is the beginning just getting to kno the person being madly in love and wanting to talk to them everyday so maybe not getting to kno them too much at first would be better that way wen u go out u can find new stuff about them everi day and it will be more interesting to keep u interested in them.....hope i helped! good luCk! [ LaLa34lismchle's advice column | Ask LaLa34lismchle A Question ]
Dont_Fall_Twice answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 9:30 pm: Well getting into, and getting out of relationships is part of growing. Yes, it is a little scary... But you need to go through it sometime. We all do. So I wouldn't worry, And keep your eyes open for a guy that you'll work with. But no one is rushing you... REmember that. Take your time, and find someone who is right for you! Best wishes :) -Britty- [ Dont_Fall_Twice's advice column | Ask Dont_Fall_Twice A Question ]
AdviceMistress answered Wednesday August 11 2004, 9:29 pm: give the relationship a chance!! trust ur heart and if that person u feel is a good trusting bf then just stick 2 him!! no regrets!! :)
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