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uggh so confused!
okay i really need help on this...me n mah boyfriend have been together for a year n 3 months since sunday...but it seems like all we do is fight...but i know deep down in my heart we r meant to be....but we fight over the most dumbest things...like tonight...we was at the fair n i didnt wanna ride this one ride...n he got all pist n shit...n we fought n like always..he ended up cryin n i told him i was tired of fightin wit him n that things was gonna havet to change n he asked me if i was gonna break up wif him..n i said no...of course...cuz i love him way to much...but sometimes i feel like i should just to see what else is out there...but i cant bring myself to it...its like god is tellin me not to...like we r meant to be and just stick wit it..and also he claims that he dont know why he acts the way he does...(in yellin and cryin all the time bout stupid shit)...and i dont know what to do or what to believe or anythin else...someone plz help me!
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i dont know what you should do, buh good luck w|the relationship.if you have any more questions put it in my inbox ! thanks x3 becca
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Instead of fighting about it maybe you and him shouyuld apend some time off, dont go and c other people just take time off and when you do get bak together maybe you and him...if u got in a fight again could settle it somehow there is always a way AROUND these things!
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personally i think u should take a break from each other it might help the fighting alot ...u may feel that u love him bcuz ur with him but if u break u and still need him n want him and he does the same for u then ull kno it wa smore meant to be ......it sorta soinds like ur in love with the idea of being in love and trying to make it work wen its simple not meant to be
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maybe you and your boyfriend should take a break. you DO need to go out and see what other types of guys are in the world. he shouldn't be crying .. and he seems very tense and angry to get mad over a ride @ the fair. tell him you want to take a break for now - and just leave it @ that. you don't even have to hear what he wants to say -
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a lotta guys are like that... and a lotta couples fight... i think u guys need a break tho... just to see what its like without eachother... and than'll you'll both realize if u really wanna be with eachother or are better off without eachother...
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Chances are there are better guys out there that wont yell at you and you wont have this problem with. If him yelling and crying and fighing with you is a big problem and your not happy with the relationship bcuz it seems like thats all you do, then it is not worth it. I would have a big talk with him about why he gets so mad. That is a really stupid reason for him to get mad at you. Just bcuz you wouldnt go on a ride? wtf? Find out why he got so mad about that. If you arent happy with him, you arent ment to be. You might feel like you really love him bcuz you he was either your first kiss or you lost your virginity to him, ect. But i know for a fact there are other guys who wont yell at you, and you would probably be happier with. GOOD LUCk! I hope i helped! xox Jenny
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I could help you...but I can't. It all depends on the situation. I have a friend in your position. He's in love with his girfriend (I mean...serioulsy in love...he's 17) and all they do is bicker and argue, constantly. And I personally want him to break up with her (because I like him) But I can't do that. He loves her ALOT, regardless if they bicker. He knows it'll be okay in the end. And he loves her. So my suggestion to you is find out if you REALLY want to be with this guy. Is he worth it? Because if he isn't...then yeah...it's time to find something that is. Ask yourself questions. Alot. Ask him questions. Question everything. And if you still can't decide take a month break from each other, and then fate will step in. If you like it better...then just break up with him...and move on. But if you realize that you really do want to be with him, fate will step in. :D
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