|
Ok, there's this guy that likes me. And he's the nicest person you would ever meet. He's so content with who he is. And i love that, and everything about him. But he's bisexual and it kinda creeps me out. I mean, im not homophobic and i love bisexuals and guy people. But i've never gone out with one, and i just think its kinda weird. Like i would kiss him, and realize that he's kissed boys before and stuff. I don't know. Is it bad that i don't wanna go out with him just cuz he's bi?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
i dont think its bad you want to go out w| him, buh you should bc you like him, just dont think about him kissing other guys before you. if you have any more questions put in in my inbox ! thanks x3 becca
]
no. alot of girls are uncomfortable kissing a guy who's already kissed other guys .. =/ just tell him that you wanna be close friends - but nothing more! hope i helped! =)
]
Is it "bad"? No, I don't think so.. not at all. I, myself, am the same way. I have NO pRoblem with homosexual and bisexual people, but I don't think I could eveR date a bisexual man!! It scaRes me.. I'll welcome theiR fRiendship, but I doubt I'll take it any fuRtheR than that!! And tRsut me, we'Re NOT the only people who feel this way!! Hope this helps! =D
]
No, I believe that's perfectly normal.Besides, if u really like him so much, u wouldn't care who he's been with, and just be happy he's ur's :-) He's still the same person and may be everything u've wanted. Take a chance!
Tell me wat happens!
*Mayya
]
It's not bad its ur opinion... if thats the way u feel than thats the way u feel... and u should never question ur feelings cuz u cant do much to change em... try to give this guy a chance... cuz if u dont u might be missing out on sumthing great...
]
I think it's normal to feel weird about any new situation; that's what people do. If you don't have experience in something which is suddenly a part of your life, it's scary.
I think if you genuinely like this guy, then it's only fair to yourself and to him to let him know about your thoughts. He's probably faced situations like this with boys/girls in the past, but I'm willing to bet he's been dumped rather than talked to. If I were him, I would think that you really cared about me if you were willing to be open with me.
I'd also be aware that most bisexual people are perfectly content to be monogamous - for them, sexuality is about falling in love with a person instead of genitalia. They're happy with a male or a female. But a small amount of bisexual people don't feel completely satisfied only with one person, and it's in your best interest to gently probe into this area.
Good luck.
]
I think it's natural to feel slightly nervous and confused about having any new sort of experience. Maybe you just need to address why the idea bugs you - hopefully thinking it out will make you realise that it is just fear of the unknown.
I do think that it would be healthy to talk to him about it before you enter into a relationship with him - be gentle with him (being accepting of his sexuality is extremely important if you do have a relationship with him) but tell him the experience is very novel for you and although your working on it, there may be times when you are a little overwhelmed by things. Good luck!
]
my ex gf was bi and i didnt mind at all. actually, it was quite interesting that we would both agree another girl was hot. but anyway, why would it matter if he's kissed other guys before? it's not like you're kissing those other guys while you're kissing him. theres no reason you should be freaked out about that. either way, he likes you, so he likes girls.
it is kinda bad that you don't wanna go out with him ONLY because he's bi.
it's your choice to make and it would be YOUR relationship, so do whatever is better and more comfortable for you.
]
It's not weird that you're recondsidering him because he's bi. It's natuaral to be freaked about something you've never done before, for instance..dating a bi guy. But if you do want to have a serious relationship with him...you will have to get over the fact that he's "kissed a guy" before. I've kissed a bi guy before. And it didn't really hit me. But then again, everyone's different. I was just leery on his actual sexuality. But if you're sure he's bi... and you like him. Focus on, not how many guys he's kissed, but what his eyes do when he wants to kiss you. Everyone's differet, and over time, it won't matter to you.
]
No its not bad at all. It would feel weird for a lot of people to go out with somone who is bi, and think about the things they have done with other guys. I would feel kina grossed out kissing him then thinking that he could have been giving some guy head lol. Good luck! -Jenny
]
More Questions: |