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I have very thick, long blonde hair. Everyone says it's lovely, but I'm useless at styping it. The only thing I can really do with it is put it in a ponytail or wear it down. I want some cute, funky up-do's that are easy to do, could you people please point me in the direction of a website that give step-by-step instructions for this kind of style or does anyone know any? Please help I've had no luck so far! (link)
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this is a really cute do.
I divide my hair from ear to ear, like i'm doing it half up-half down. I divide the front half down the middle from front to back. I put each one into a separate pony tail holder. I pull both of those and the rest of the hair into a ponytail. Flip the hanging hair up and secure with another elastic. Arrange the loose hairs so they don't stick up.
Wearing a headband with a pony-tail is also very cute.
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Are big heads unattractive on girls? Mine is kinda big, and I don't fit into many hats. I'm really self concious about it. (link)
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Well, it depends how "big" your head is. If it's really big, then people are probably going to notice it. If it's just a little over-sized, no one will really even take a glance at it.
There's not much you can do about a big head. If you are self-concious about it, then wear really nice clothes & accessories to take the attention off of your face.
Just remember that everyone comes in different shapes and sizes, and you can't do much about it. If anyone makes fun of you because of it then just don't even bother with them because they're not worth it.
If you need any more help, just ask. :)
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okay so limewire wont install on my computer. so.. what are otehr programs like it? thanks guys. (link)
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If all else fails try searching for something on www.softpedia.com remember that you can be traced and sued for stealing music. They were cracking down in the area that I live in. I'm talking millions had to be paid back to artist.
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I'm worried that my daughter, who's just turned 16, is talking to strangers online. Against my better judgement, I accessed her computer while she was at school. I didn't find much other than a short instant message from a male with whom she was just speaking to like she would a close friend but some of the things he said were fishy and he had asked her a lot of strange, personal questions in the conversation (like who she lived with, what her friends' names were, what the name of her school was, etc).
What are signs that I can look for that my daughter is in trouble? If I continue to access her computer and find more instant messages, what can I look for to determine for sure that this person means my daughter harm?
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Well, you have so many young girls answering I thought it was time for the big girls. lol. I'm 16, a former webmaster, a computer know-most-it-all, and I live on the computer. In adition to that, I'm the MOST paranoid person. I think that you should talk to your daughter about not giving out identifiable information on the internet. This includes FULL name, phone numbers, addresses, and anything else that you find a threat. This should be done on a friendly basis, though. Make it light and non-lecture like. This will just make your daughter rebel agains what you wanted. I personally dislike IMing strangers because we have nothing to talk about, but if talking to strangers is her thing, she should never meet them!
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ok so here is my problem. i'm not so good at talking to guys. well, scratch that. SOME guys. most guys i can just talk to like normal and laugh with, like i'm having a coversation with my brother. but other guys, cute ones in particular, i really have no idea how to talk to and i always seem to blush or stutter when i try to talk to them. it's really annoying and i don't know why i can't talk to them. my crush is one of the people i can't talk to. any advice? (link)
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This really work for me. I made fiends with the guy. It was easier for me to talk to him eventually and we were really good friends. I sort of flirted with him and he flirted back. If this guy likes you too, he'll eventually ask you out.
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ok - ive been told a lot that at 15, you dont need a girl friend...but i feel that it will make things soo much more easier! ive asked numerous girls, ive even written poems, but they just dont seem so like me in that way...ive been told just as numerous times that im actually pretty good looking, but that doesnt help when it comes to asking someone out...could you give me advice on how to ask a girl out? im not too nervous about it, i just seem to be attracted to the girls that dont like me! what difference can i make in their lives that will get them to like me in that way, therefore allowing me to get them to approve when i ask them out?
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You need to make friends with these girls. Often a girl will start to like a boy after being friends with him. Things like this take time and pacience. The girls will come. Also, you need to re-evaluate your reason for wanting a girlfriend. If you want a girlfriend just to have one, then you aren't ready. If you want one because you really like a girl, there you go! I wish you the best of luck.
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is there a cirtain way to shave your armpits and leggs?? (link)
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When you shave your legs, you have to shave up so you don't get ingrown hairs.
For your arm pits, just do whatever feel comfortable.
Make sure you always use shaving cream! :)
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well you see i am soooooo guilty of what i have done i well... looked at porn all different kinds and i feel so guilty should i like bow down to my parents and like tell tem or shoul i live with it? I'm going on a trip in like a couple weeks and i dont think its going to be any fun being guilty. but i realized if i tell them i might not get to go on the trip!!!! HELP ME PLEASE!!! (link)
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Well, doun't tell your parents or you will get yourself into huge trouble. If your a part of the Christian faith, you could go to Confession and get cleared of sins. If you're not Christian you won't know what that is. Just pray to God and say you're really sorry for what you've done and you want to be forgived. Okay, if you need more ideas give me a hollar! k? Good luck. :)
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I have a question, and i don't know if it can be answered. But i will give it a shot.
Is there anyway possible to make yourself most creative? I like to write, but i find myself not being about to, it's like i can't come up with anything good. I try really hard, and nothing sounds right, it seems to be a bunch of just random thoughts put in one, with no thought. I really would like writing a lot better if i was more creative. How can i make myself be more open to new ideas that would help me be more creative, and more "neatly" with the way i write?
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Writing comes naturally. Just jot your ideas down on scrap paper and the words should just flow. Just really dedicate yourself on the topic your writing about it. You can't really make yourself more creative. :)
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Ok so you answered my first question and now I have another for you. This friend has lied to me and I caught her. She told me she couldnt do something with me because she wasn't allowed out. I believed her and then I found out that she went to the mall with a bunch of girls from that group. I confronted her about it but she never apologized she just tried to justify what she did. Any other tips about this problem? (link)
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Wow, umm I really doun't know what to say. She could be a back-stabbing bitch. But, maybe you mis-judged the situation. Maybe she already had plans with them, so that is the reason why she said she was busy. Or maybe when you asked her to hang out, she really couldn't, but 15 minutes later she found out she was free and then her other group of friends came along and she went to the mall with them because she was no longer busy.
You can't just jump the gun and say she ditched you for some other people. Because you never know.
I think your best bet is to sit her down and tell her how you feel. Tell her about how you felt when you found out she went to the mall with her other friends when you had already asked her to hang out.
If she doesn't bother to listen or acts like she could care less, tell her she's not worth it. If she wants to be a backstabbing loser to you then let her be. Find another group of friends. It's actually pretty simple.
But don't jump the gun until you know the full story. Remember the saying "Everyone's innocent until proven guilty." She may have had no intention to ditch you. You'll have to find that out on your own, without jumping to conclusions.
Best of luck,
Carmen
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Do you think it is ok to ask a guy if he likes you. I mean like like you? (link)
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Yeah it's perfectly okay!
But just a helpful hint:
If you're going to ask a guy if he likes you, do it personally and make sure no one is around because like if you ask him when people are walking by or something, he might get really uncomfortable and just say no, even if he does like you. I'm experienced. Haha.
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Ok so I've known this girl since like second grade and I feel like she wants to ditch me and hang out with a new group of friends. What should I do? I have other friends, but it seems like if she had the choice to pick them or me, shed pick them. I've tried to talk to her about it but all she says is that I ma her best friend and that they are her friends, sometimes I don't believe it, even though i want to. Please help because this situation has been happening for over two years now and I've just about had it! Will rate 5's if you help! (link)
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If she says your her best friend, she probably means it. If she didn't want to be your best friend anymore she would let you know without hurting your feelings. Just believe what she says until you have 100% proof that she's lying.
I've gone through the same thing. To cope with it, I just asked my friend to hang out all the time so that way I wouldn't feel insecure or left out.
Just invite her over a lot and that way you won't feel she has a new group of friends.
Any more questions? Feel free to ask.
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I'm really lonely and need a boyfriend (or girlfriend) VERY SOON!! Wut should I do? (link)
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Find someone you like and ask them out. It may seem hard, but if you gain up the courage, you'll be able to do it. :)
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Okay , Can you get pregant if you have sex on your period ? (link)
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oh my fuckin god NO
your period is the egg leaving your body, so even if the sperm fertalizes it, it will be out of your body in a few days. normally, it even takes about 2 days for the sperm to find the egg before it can even fertalize it.
everyone else is WRONG!
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Do you think it is ok to ask a guy if he likes you. I mean like like you? (link)
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well, if you do that, they might feel a little awkward, so what you should do is just ask them who they like, and if they like you, they'll say so, if they don't, then they'll say someone else, but it won't be awkward at all.
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I'm taking my dog to get put down on Friday. She has cancer and is really sick. I've had her for 10 years and it's going to be really devastating. I don't know how I'm going to handle it. Has anyone else had a pet put down, how did you get over it? What's it going to feel like, no one close to me has ever died before! (link)
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well of course you're going to feel really really sad. I've experienced it twice, because my hamster and my uncle died, and we were really close.
there's not really a way to get over it, because you can never fully recover from it. You'll still feel a little sad everytime you think about her, but in time, you'll start to feel better, and you'll move on.
just don't spend too much time thinking about her, so that you don't get too sad. you have to move on and act happy.
i try not to think about my hamster and my uncle because everytime i do, i feel sad, but as you go on you'll start to feel less and less sad, so don't worry.
all you can do now is just try to stay positive and don't try and think about it, and i hope it works out!!
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one of my bff has been getting on my nerves recently. she is a c-cup and im an a-cup. i could really care a less about boob size tho. but shes always bragging about how big her boobs are and how skinny she is. like if a girl gets hit in the chest area it hurts no matter what, but if in gym or something i get hit there she'll be like "what boobs." and she always brags about her "perfect" figure. personally i dont think she has the perfect figure or good looks but why does she brag so much? i told her a million times that lifes not about boobs and when me and her hang out the boys are all over me not her. (link)
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Wow, she's a stuck up bit**. She probably brags so much because she's jealous of you but doesn't want to show it so she's trying to make you feel bad about yourself and wish you were her. I know it's confusing but that's what happened with me and my friend.
Just sit down with her and tell her what's on your mind. If she's really your friend she will stop with the bragging. Tell her you don't give a care if her boobs are big and she'll stop. If she doesn't, get rid of her and find another friend. People like that arn't worth it in the long run. :)
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my bf fingered me (barely)for the first time. he put two fingers in, but it was only like 1 inch. the following day i was bleeding, however i didn't feel any pain. is it still possible he popped my cherry? (link)
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Yeah, or it could just be your period. :)
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I`ve been abused by my dad sense I was little. He hasnt done it as much but he has been doing it still. Last night he hit my really bad with his fists nd choked me. I love my family so much but it hurts me so bad that I get hurt and I feel like im not worth anything. What should I do? I dont like living here but I wouldnt like living anywhere else! what should i do? My dad has been reported to the department of human services but they never do anything. Im 15 by the way. Im just tired of being hit and left with bruises and the emotional pain!
what should i do? (link)
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That's child abuse. I know it will be hard to leave your family, your friends and everything but think of the outcomes that will happen if you don't leave. You've been put through enough and one day your father might just snap and if he hits you hard enough in the head, you could die.
Google child abuse and find a number you can call. They will do something about it. I don't know who you've been calling, but if you told someone about what was going on and they didn't do anything, then they must be really f***** up.
You said you don't want to live anywhere else. Trust me you would. Wouldn't it be nicer to live with a nice family who cares about you and doesn't hit you? I'm sure you would. And when you get help, every once in a while they let you see your family. So you can see your family without the pain. Doesn't that sound better?
Call the police now. It's really your only choice. Child abuse is serious and the longer you wait, the more harm you are doing to yourself. You don't deserve to live like that.
Best of luck.
Carmen
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Hello, I just turned 24 years old 2 weeks ago. You think I would be happy but I am not. I have never had a boyfriend in my life. I have never recieved and gifts from a man or even been out on a date. I have never even kissed a man. i remember when i was 16 my friends would laugh and me because i had not done ane anything yet. I thought i was a loser back then but now that I am 24 I don't think i am in the loser catergory any more. could it be that no one pays attention to me because I am over weight? (size 16) If that is true then why do I see girls who are way bigger than me with a boyfriends. Is there something wrong with me? Or am I just a loser? (link)
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You're not a loser. But in my opinion I think your weight might have something to do with it. A lot of guys these days are cocky and all they care about is boobs, ass, and hottness. It's pretty sad but that's just how guys are. And usually if a guy doesn't think you're attractive, then he won't even bother dating you. Some guys arn't like that, but sometimes it's hard to find those kinds of guys.
I'm sure you have a really pretty face but the fact that your a size 16 may turn guys off. No offence. I think your best bet would be to lose weight.
Workout and go to the gym. Do crunches, situps, and maybe take a jog a few times a week. Be as active as you can and eat healthy! If you want to lose weight ask your doctor about a healthy diet for you.
But if you feel you can find a guy without losing weight, then go for it. Find a guy the same width as you and then there would be no reason for him to say no. Just listen to your heart and decide if you want to lose weight, or keep things like they are.
But in my opinion, if you're 24 and no one will go out with you, then in 2 years it might still be the same.
Best of luck and hopefully, Mr. Right will find you. Just keep praying to god that fate will bring you two together.
With all due respect,
Carmen.
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