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Friends or not?
Ok so you answered my first question and now I have another for you. This friend has lied to me and I caught her. She told me she couldnt do something with me because she wasn't allowed out. I believed her and then I found out that she went to the mall with a bunch of girls from that group. I confronted her about it but she never apologized she just tried to justify what she did. Any other tips about this problem?
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Wow, umm I really doun't know what to say. She could be a back-stabbing bitch. But, maybe you mis-judged the situation. Maybe she already had plans with them, so that is the reason why she said she was busy. Or maybe when you asked her to hang out, she really couldn't, but 15 minutes later she found out she was free and then her other group of friends came along and she went to the mall with them because she was no longer busy.
You can't just jump the gun and say she ditched you for some other people. Because you never know.
I think your best bet is to sit her down and tell her how you feel. Tell her about how you felt when you found out she went to the mall with her other friends when you had already asked her to hang out.
If she doesn't bother to listen or acts like she could care less, tell her she's not worth it. If she wants to be a backstabbing loser to you then let her be. Find another group of friends. It's actually pretty simple.
But don't jump the gun until you know the full story. Remember the saying "Everyone's innocent until proven guilty." She may have had no intention to ditch you. You'll have to find that out on your own, without jumping to conclusions.
Best of luck,
Carmen
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