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advucenators suck dick. i see all these fags in here. like this one guy said he was sucking his bro's dick is that normal it isn't. all you people are pothetic
if u got any comments press answer the question and put your comments down fuckin fags (link)
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I have friends who are gay. I also know a lot of great scientific minds and celebrities who are/were too. What they do is discusting, but I'm not one to pass judgment. People can't help the way they feel. Why are you such a homophobe? I'm guessing it's upbringing. It's commom for trailer park white trash to be so hateful to cover up there discusting life style. Let me guess, your father hates jews, african americans, homosexuals, and belittles women and people who are different. My advice is that you get out of the trailer every once in a while, the world has changed since your great, great grandfather imprinted his beliefs on his son, and so on.
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hello, i am 13 years old, female, my name is Kayla I feel like I cause trouble for every one that I know. I don't like it. And I don't mean to. But I guess I do and i'm sitting here crying because I do and i'm tired of it! Can you help me? (link)
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Can you post certain situations that you feel you cause trouble in? I'd be able to help if I knew more.
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Hi. im shelly. i found out that one of my best friends likes me (brian*), not just like me, but like is in love with me. ne ways he is also best friends with the guy that i like (adam*). the other night i found out that adam* likes me and wants to be more that friends with me. i do too, but i dont want to break brian's* heart and then all of us not be friends anymore. adam* and brian* are the best friends anyone could ask for and i really dont want to mess up our relationship. but then i also dont want to just sit there and not be nothing with adam*. what do you think i should do? email me at : richardvmf@stic.net your answers will be greatly apreciated. thanx
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There's only one logical way out of this. Date the guy you like. If you don't, you're going to be miserable. If brian is anything like me, he'll be near you in any way he can, even if it means just being a friend. I've been in similar situations where I really like this girl whose a friend, then she starts dating one of my best friends. So I just continued to be her friend, despite my feelings for her. If he really is your friend and isn't just seeing you to try to date you, then he'll understand and won't let it get in the way of your friendship.
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Are the showers in Middle school sanitary?? (link)
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When it comes to my MS it was kind of sanitary. I wasn't afraid of them like I am my high school ones. In high school, they were this small, dark room full of cigarette buds and other things That I couldn't identify. However, the girls locker room was nice and clean, with individual stalls for showering.
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I've always been really bad at finding things to say to people when they're upset. I mean, I know that usually what they need is just for their friend to be there for them, but I can't just stand there while they cry...for instance, one of my friends has been having a lot of problems lately: she fights with her mother often and recently her grandfather was taken to the hospital and they think he might have cancer. She gets upset often and i never know what to say or do! I feel horrible...i need some advice on what to say when she's going through hard times or crying on the phone or whatever because I always feel that I'll sound stupid and not good enough of a friend. when someone has cancer you can;'t tell the person 'oh, it'll be okay' because it won't! so please, if you have any advice i'd be glad to hear it (link)
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I think a lot of the time she just needs someone to listen. Give her a hug when you talk to her in person. I would just try to be a good listener and not say much at all.
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i have been sitting in my house eversince summer break started from school and i haven't realyl done anything fun the whole summer break and we have been out for like two weeks and like i tend to find my self calling like everyone i know to find something to do and i noticed the other day i let me friend say some shit about me and normaly i was have been pissed off i just took it
and another thing is i keep lookin at all my pictures of my friends just wishing how much i had a g/f and just the other day i called my x /gf and told her i liked her? i dunno why? i don't i just miss it so much cause when we were goin out she was always there for me some times to much so can someone please tell me if i am depressed? or what the hell is wrong with me cause i am seemin to feel really sad and it seems like NOTHING is going right for me at all! (link)
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It's EXACTLY what I went through when I was your age, well maybe a little younger. I pissed off a few people. What I did was found things to take up my time so I didn't feel so sad. Last year I started a movie script, started a band, worked on artwork, Got a job, etc. You just got to keep yourself busy in some way, it doesn't matter how.
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Well, me and this guy blaine have been best friends since the seventh grade. I mean best friends, i know everything about him, and he knows everything about me. I also have this best friend named Tanisha and she was the first person i told when i started having feelings for blaine. I never said anything to blaine, but in the eighth grade Tanisha told me she liked blaine. Blaine said that he only likes her for her body, and now they're together. I still like him, but i feel like neither of them cares about me any more. Everyone keeps saying just find sum1 else but its not that easy. What should i do? (link)
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Well, at least Tanisha had told you first. And I know how hard it is to get over someone you love. I would tell him how you feel. If he does feel the same way, then Tanisha shouldn't be mad about it, considering she knew you liked him first. But then again, if he dates someone for their body alone, it doesn't say much about him now, does it?
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I like this guy (we'll call him X). I met him on a Friday a few weeks ago, hung out with him for about 6 hours straight a few days later, and he tells me that he really likes me. I started talking on the phone and developing strong feelings for him. We hung out again and he talks about how much he likes me + also about trying to make a relationship work with the two of us. This friday, he cancells plans with me and says he's intimidated by relationships/commitment, even after everything he had previously said. Now, on Friday he says he's going to think it through and we're going to hang out on Sunday instead, so he asks me to clear my schedule. I do, and now he's not home, nor has he bothered to call me or sign online all day. How am I supposed to be reacting to this? Should I give him any more chances or is it not worth it? (link)
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I would be pissed. He's not being considerate of you, so there's a good chance that he wouldn't be consideratein a relationship. I don't think he's worth it, but since you like him so much, maybe you should wait a little longer.
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There*z this kid who ive gotten really close to when my best friend broke up with..but im afraid to ask him out because if i do and he says yes my friend will be mad at me but if he says no then i will be upset..but i cant just let him go becuase i really love him and i cant keep my mind off him..HELP!
13,Female (link)
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Tell your friend how you feel. Tell her you won't you won't ask him if she doesn't want you to. If she says it's alright, then ask him. If he says yes, then great. If he says no, then you can start to get over him.
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I discovered a dimensional rift under my bed sometime last year. It was never a problem until just recently it began to suck in my left socks I left on the floor. In exchange for them, it deposits lady bugs in my room. The bills for my black cotton footwear are starting to add up and I can no longer stand the sight of lady bugs. Do you have a solution to my perils? Is there a way to mend this? (link)
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The only cure is to get out more. The rift is clearly caused by you being home too much. Staying home a lot will make things worse, and the rift bigger.
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This is going to sound pretty freakin' stupid but last night I watched two of the Texas Chainsaw Massacres and I realized how much I want a boyfriend. Just someone to hold me while we watch horror movies and just someone I could share the warmth of being in a relationship with. I'm still young. I'm 14...but still...I can't help it. I know a lot of times being in a relationship at this age equals a lot of pain in sorrow in the end (most of the time). But at night I cry because I feel so alone and I get this feeling in the pit of my stomach and it really hurts...and my heart feels shaky and I think a boyfriend could heal that. I guess what I'm trying to say is I'm "depressed" a lot but I don't know...I have this boy in mind and he's just perfect in everyway. He's sweet and we only talk online because we go to different schools. (but we live in the same town) and wow...I just really like him and I just wish that he knew. I plan on telling him but I guess it would make everything weird and I just want to cry. I feel like such a fucking sap but I can't help it. I just want to scream out I like him but I have social anxiety disorder and I've asked some more questions before about this subject but it's just hard.
AND NO I CAN'T FREAKING CALL HIM ON THE PHONE...if anything I'm telling him online and even if I met up with him at the movies in person or something then I probably wouldn't even freaking talk to him because I'm so stupid and once again I let my social anxiety disorder conquer me...
Please help me...
This isn't some sappy kid love story...I just want him to know how I feel and I have NO CLUE how he will act and I'm scared of him rejecting me...
And I guess we tell each other a lot of things online...but I don't know...in my old school people made fun of me because of my S.A.D. which is why I tranferred. He understands me because I explained it to him and he was so sweet to me and it felt like he totally understood everything I had to say. I don't know what to do...he means a lot to me and he doesn't know it...
I told him so many things about my life and he told me quite a few things about his and if I tell him I like him and he doesn't feel the same way back to me I'm afraid everything will be gone between us. The nice talks online...and just...everything.
He is such a sweet boy like I said before and he just doesn't realize how much girls like him. I'm one of those girls...but it's different. I don't like him because of his cute face... (I havent even seen the "new" him) I haven't seen him in a year and people say he "got cute" and that kind of intimidates me...looks DO NOT matter to me but I just really fell in love with this boy's personality and he is so sweet and I know he would never do anythign mean to me I'm just afraid I'll embarrass him in front of his friends if I tell him I really like him. Of course if I ask him out he's going to tell them (because that's what friends do) and I'm afraid for some reason his friends (who are realloy nice...but) I'm just afraid that they will kind of try to persuade him out of ever talking to me again (and I know that sounds weird) but...I don't know... I just have a problem with always feeling like I'm holding peopkle back. I can't help that...I feel like I'm always putting people on the spot and that I should come second rather than first in anything in their life. I hate feeling liek I hold people back which is another reason why I don;t want to tell him.
But...I just don't know what to do...
I'm SO SORRY for this long question I'm just desperate and I really like him. I think about him all the time and I just want a chance with him...I'm really sorry if I took up any of your time...just please help me...
Thanks. (link)
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I totally understand how you can't tell him in person or by phone. Tell him online, I doubt that he'll stop talking to you if he doesn't feel the same way. It sounds like he likes talking to you, so something like this wouldn't end that. I know you can't help but feel like your holding people back, but I really doubt you are. And since you already feel terrible all the time, having him say he doesn't feel the same way can't be too scarring. Try to tell him online as soon as you muster up the courage. Good luck.
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Im a 15yr old girl and when I was younger my brother used to pull down my trousers and hold my bum , it seems a bit silly really but it used to terrify me, he did it a few times and when i tried to run away he grabbed me. The more i think about it the more wierd it is, can you tell me if this is sexual abuse or not and what to do about it please, thanks! (link)
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guys go through weird phases. I am not sure, it probably could be catagorized as sexual abuse, he shouldn't have done it. If he's changed since then, I wouldn't bring it up. Although if it still bother's you, it's always completely your choice.Maybe you should talk to your mother/father/gaurdian.
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Ok heres the story,
I lived with my dad untill i was 121/2 .... But know i live with my mom and i am 15 .... when i lived with my dad he used to give me a suit case and tell me to move in with my mom when he was drunk or mad and now my mom does it only she doesnt give me a suit case cause i have one in my room .... When i first moved in with her she used to allways takl to me and i could tell her any thing but over time we drifted and thats normal i know for going into teens and stuff but know she loves my step dad more then she loves me .... i know she does becuase if my step dad is off some where else for work then she cant stand not talking to him at least 3 times a day even if hes only gone for 2 days and when i go to visit my dad for a weekend or for a couple of weeks she doesnt call me or anything and when i come home shes like i missed you but then goes back to talking to her husband errrr
AND THEN my brother wont even talk tod me becuase him and my dad got into a fight and he doesnt want anything to do with someone who is related to my father ....... and my family (like aunts etc..) on my dads side hates me becuase i "left" my dad and moved to my moms
Sry for sounding like a complaining person but i wanted to know why does family treat me like this? it makes me really depressed (link)
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My family is disfunctional too. They're probably just as bad as yours. I think your mother is paraniod when her husband leaves, and reassures herself by calling him. Your brother probably hates himself, considering he's his father's son. Your family is just too self involved to notice what they are doing, and how bad it makes them look. A lot of people have disfunctional families. And you have every right to complain.
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Stupid question I know.. i am 5'3 and weigh 133 is that overweight though? Well its like during the summer i weigh 120 during the winter i gain more cuz im not out as much and ect. Summer i am more active and stuff. So is that overweight? (link)
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Nope
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Stupid question I know.. i am 5'3 and weigh 133 is that overweight though? (link)
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Your fine. I wouldn't worry about it.
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Yeah see its like, she likes him alot, to the point she Loves him and would do anything with him, but then his cousin always gets online and talks to me telling her all this stuff like he is about to go out with his next door neighbor Liz. And I dont get it I have no clue how to help her out. Cuz its like he is frontin or something. But he told her he liked her but whats that mean if he hasnt asked her yet and she like cannot get ova him?
-Stephanie (link)
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If she can't get over him, she has to find out where he stands. Find out if he wants to date her. Otherwise she'll kick herself forever not knowing if he really did want to date. It sounds like his friend might be jealous. But you never know.
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i am going out with this lad, but i am in love with his best mate. what shalli do? (link)
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If you love someone more than the person you're dating, then you probably should break up with him. Dating his best friend might cause them to fight, and he may not want to date you because of this. It could end in a big mess, so decide if he's worth it. If he is, tell him how you feel.
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Well I broke up with my ex because I thought He didnt love me anymore and now I really want him back but when i ask him about us its always I dont know but he did tell me he still loves me, he thought i broke up with him for someone else so when he tells me he doesnt know is he hurt by us being over or does he not want me anymore? help plz!! (link)
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If he thinks you dumped him for another guy, he may be afraid that if you 2 date again, it would end the same way. He sounds hurt to me, try to get him to talk about what he thinks and wants. He did say he still loves you.
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Okay I really don't know how great of a question this is...or whatever...but I just really need help...
You see...I have social anxiety disorder...this thing is so hard to live with it's not even funny...that's just PART OF my problem...
I have been in love with someone named Orlando for about a year...but he doesn't know who I am and I'm completely sure it was/is love. Well, recently I found out he had a girlfriend and it broke my heart...
But...the thing is...I don't dwell on it as much as I thought I would...I still really like Orlando...more then I've ever liked any other guy before...but my LOVE for him is actually starting to slowly die down for him and I'm slowly starting to let him go...
Well...there is this boy...lets call him "EBO"...well... in 6th grade I knew Ebo and I never actually TALKED to him in person becuase of my social anxiety disorder...but i went to the movies with him adn some of my other friends often...well he was always really nice but I never really liked him or anything...
But...the summer AFTER 6th grade I tranferred schools and now Im going to high school in 3 months and I talked to Ebo a few times online and we had a long talk and we never opened up to each other that much and he said "I wish I could hug you" and "if you feel you need to say something I'm listening" and then about a month and a half later he just randomly said he missed me and about a month before he said he missed me is when I realized I really liked Ebo...I mean the boy is so sweet and caring.
When he said these kind of things (and they may not seem like a big deal) but it came as a shock to me and it made me get butterflies and it just came as a surprise because when I knew him he was never one to just come out and say things like that...and I really like him but as I was saying before I have social anxiety disorder...and I never spoke to him in personm before and I only talk to him online and I havent seen him for a year and supposedly he's changed a lot with his looks... (looks dont matter to mjeO but now a lot of girls want him and I'm just scared because he would probably think Im weird if I told him I liked him and I know he's not worth it if he thinks Im weird and he would never say anything mean to me (i know that for a fact) but Im just scared it would make things awkward and if I DID tell him we would never be able to go out with him because I probably wouldn't talk to him at all and I can't help that...and omg I really liek this kid what do I do??
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Try your best to spend more time with him. You know he likes you as a friend at least. Invite him to more social gatherings. The more time you spend with him the less nervous you'll get. And I think your right, he would never do anything to hurt you or be mean to you. You only open up to people you love, (At least like a friend). So try to spend time with him, and then tell him how you feel. i know it will be hard with SAD, so I wish you luck
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See, theres this kid, lets call him Jordan (not his real name). He goes to my Middle Skool and is in alot of my classes (well he was, its SUMMER) I even have his phone number on my class list!! Hes like almost a foot shorter than me, but hes really cute. I like him alot and miss him over summer. Im not really skinny either, so if I asked him out its like 96% chance of a refusal. He hardly knows wo I am. A girl told me he hates me. (he doesnt know me so thats prolly a lie) What should I do? How can I get him to like me? How can I see him over Summer?
-Christine, 13 (link)
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Is it only because you think he's cute? Because if it is, it's a crush and it will pass. If he's nice and you like who he is, muster up the courage to talk to him.
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