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hello, i am 13 years old, female, my name is Kayla I feel like I cause trouble for every one that I know. I don't like it. And I don't mean to. But I guess I do and i'm sitting here crying because I do and i'm tired of it! Can you help me?
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last year i had that problem too... i tried to just be me around ppl but i was annoying them.... first u should figure out if it really IS u causing problems (which half the time, uu wont be).....well wat u shuld do is act normal and when u see someone gettin annoyed (someone u know well i mean) get annoyed by u, ask them y theyre gettin annoyed (insist that they tell u or no progress is made) and then also ask them to tell u if ur causing a problem (like gettin them in trouble, not just ticking them off.... also DO NOT try to change urself or be someone ur not.... if u wanna tell me more bout it or ask any more questions just IM me at Mr_Toasty_745 (replace the _ with spaces)
hope i helped
Tommy
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Can you post certain situations that you feel you cause trouble in? I'd be able to help if I knew more.
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Hi im Shelly and im 14. i don't really know how to help but i will try my best. Have you spoken to any of your friends about it? They might be able to help you. Have you told anyone about it? If you haven't then do it will help and you won't have it locked up inside like a big secret. Be open with your friends and tell them how you are feeling and see what they think about the whole thing you never know they might feel the same way sometimes i know i do but i try and get on with life and tell myself that i have a great friends and family and that i hould be happy otherwise i will be stressed and worried my whole life. i hope i have helped in some way
Luv Shelly
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well,the quetion is ''IS IT UR FALT''& u don't gotta cry about it, instead take charge.
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Kayla,
I'd like to try and help you. What is it you do that makes you think you cause trouble for everyone? What's your situation? Can you give an example of what's happening? You can post an explaination at my column or email me privately. My email address is posted on my column page.
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