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Well, me and this guy blaine have been best friends since the seventh grade. I mean best friends, i know everything about him, and he knows everything about me. I also have this best friend named Tanisha and she was the first person i told when i started having feelings for blaine. I never said anything to blaine, but in the eighth grade Tanisha told me she liked blaine. Blaine said that he only likes her for her body, and now they're together. I still like him, but i feel like neither of them cares about me any more. Everyone keeps saying just find sum1 else but its not that easy. What should i do?
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Hopfuly you have learned a lesson. If you like somebody, take action, otherwise somebody else is going to move in. Your friend waited a year for you, and you did nothing. So she took her chance. You can't be too pissed at her for it.
But if they are no longer treating you like a friend, then it's time to find some new friends. Going into high school people change quite a bit and you begin to find new friends that share your new priorites.
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You can't help who you like/love and even though it seems like your best friend shouldn't have done that, what would you have done in her shoes. If this guy is really worth it, trust me you'll get your chance to be together with him.
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Well, at least Tanisha had told you first. And I know how hard it is to get over someone you love. I would tell him how you feel. If he does feel the same way, then Tanisha shouldn't be mad about it, considering she knew you liked him first. But then again, if he dates someone for their body alone, it doesn't say much about him now, does it?
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Girl, you gotta give up Blaine. He is a perv and a user- not worth your attention. You'll need some time to get over him, but eventually you will. As for Tanisha...don't bother too much with her. She backstabbed you! And also, no offense, but she must be pretty deperate to go out with a jerk like Blaine. Good luck!
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Well if you all are best friends tell them weather it is hard or not they may be confused or a maybe a bit mad but if you are willing to except that for a bit then go fo it. But also let them know you cant help you like its not like you can go O HEY! I THINK I AM GOING TO LIKE THAT BOY! no you cant do that. so just let them know that and if you had a choice to not like him you wouldnt because you dont want to hurt there relationship at all. good luck-trix
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IF you really like them as much as you say you do, then you will hope that things work out and that he will get to know her better. Hopefully he will end up liking her for more than just her body. If things don't work out with them, then ask her if she would mind if you stepped in. If she doesn't care, than go for it. If she does, than ask her why. Good luck!
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It really does suck when you have 2 best friends and they end up together, especially if you liked the one guy. All i can tell you is that you have to put your feelings aside, and be happy for your friends. It is hard when you really like someone and you can't have them, but you seem young, and you shouldn't spend your life waitng around for this guy. You're friends are kinda of right when they say to find someone new. You don't have to just yet though. But you should work on egtting over this guy. Good Luck!
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I think you should talk to each of them about how you feel. Because best friends shouldn't do that to each other. I had the same problem and I did find someone else, but just talk to them each so they know how you feel.
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