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im in a love triangle with my two best friends (guys)
Hi. im shelly. i found out that one of my best friends likes me (brian*), not just like me, but like is in love with me. ne ways he is also best friends with the guy that i like (adam*). the other night i found out that adam* likes me and wants to be more that friends with me. i do too, but i dont want to break brian's* heart and then all of us not be friends anymore. adam* and brian* are the best friends anyone could ask for and i really dont want to mess up our relationship. but then i also dont want to just sit there and not be nothing with adam*. what do you think i should do? email me at : richardvmf@stic.net your answers will be greatly apreciated. thanx
shelly
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Well just tell brian how you feel and you cant help it and let adam know also maybe sit down with all 3 of you and TRY not to yell .. that could be a hard one but give it a try -trix
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talk to brian and ask if he would mind if u went out wiv adam. i think this is betta coz if u go straight out wiv adam brian may be upset go on talk to him
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I think if these guys are really as important to you as you say than you shouldn't be with either of them. If you have to make your heart make a choice than you aren't meant to be with either one. Boyfriends may not always stay around but friends always do. Don't ruin the good thing you already have. Good Luck! :)
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There's only one logical way out of this. Date the guy you like. If you don't, you're going to be miserable. If brian is anything like me, he'll be near you in any way he can, even if it means just being a friend. I've been in similar situations where I really like this girl whose a friend, then she starts dating one of my best friends. So I just continued to be her friend, despite my feelings for her. If he really is your friend and isn't just seeing you to try to date you, then he'll understand and won't let it get in the way of your friendship.
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Tell both the boy's how you feel about them. Remember, if they really are best friends, then they are forever. I hope you get your guy!
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Hello Shelly,
This is a very sticky situation and the best advice i can give you is to sit both of them down together and say something like, "guys, i recenlty found out that you both like me. I am sorry but I only like Adam as more than a friend, but I want all of us to stay friends." Simply explain that things wont be weird because you are flattered that your friends would like you. Let the boys figure it out themselves. Guys usually dont hate each other after this, only us girls do! Good luck and I hope it all works out!
Love, Blonde
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