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Dont know what to do
There*z this kid who ive gotten really close to when my best friend broke up with..but im afraid to ask him out because if i do and he says yes my friend will be mad at me but if he says no then i will be upset..but i cant just let him go becuase i really love him and i cant keep my mind off him..HELP!
13,Female
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okay talk it over with the both of them, what his feelings are for u and tell ur friend that u like him, see how that goes e-mial iluvyou3784@yahoo.com
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She broke up with him.. go for it lol.. =)
Tell the boy how you feel and see if he feels the same way. Tell him you`re afraid of getting close and liking him incase he doesn't like you.
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I would ask your friend about it and see how she feels about it all and if she is over him and if not i would hang low for a bit cuz you wouldnt want to lose a friend let alone a best friend.trix
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As him out if you like him that much.. if he say's no, yes, it will hurt and eventually you will get over it and move on to someone better, but you never know he might say yes and look at all the happiness that's in store.
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Try talking to your friend about how you feel and see how she feels. If it being with this guy is going to ruin your friendship it is not worth it. A boyfriend may not be around forever but a friend will.
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Well ask yur friend and if it says its a-okay then ask him out.But if yur 2 lazy 2 ask her just ask him i mean its no longer yur best friends property and she is over him...SO ask him out.
HOPE I HELPED!!!
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okay.. first of all if you friend was really your friend then she'll understand if you go out with this boy. And shes the one who broke up with him, so she may have some feelings left and you should respect that, don't go after him right away, wait for a little while to let her get over him. I dont think that you should try to sneak around about it or try to keep this from her. Tell her after a little time has passed that you want to be more then friends with this guy. Hopefully she understands, but keep this in mind, this guy is just a guy and ur bestfriend is so much more & don't let anything, especially a guy come between you guys.
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maybe talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about him..if she says she doesnt want you to be with him then dont but if shes okay with it then maybe go for it..but even if she tells you that she doesnt mind inside it prolly is some what hurting her..so id really say just to let him go and be friends with him! if this girl is your best friend you wouldnt want to hurt her..babe your only 13 you dont know what love is yet..there are so many guys that are going to come in and out of your life but your friends are ALWAYS going to be the ones there for you! you may really like the guy but you dont wanna betray your friend and yeah it might hurt you if you let him go but wouldnt you rather have a best friend? shes always gonna be there for you and hes NOT!
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Try telling your friend all about the feelings for him. If she gets mad, then just remember - friends are forever!! Don't let this guy get away, you have the right to be happy :) Hope it helps.
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I think u need to explain to your friend that you have mad feelings for him and u don't want to hurt her but u can't stop thinking of him and u wanna ask him out.But if she still got mad at u for that then she's not really a friend.If he reject you then mabe it wasn't made to be.But either way u will live and be stronger.
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Tell your friend how you feel. Tell her you won't you won't ask him if she doesn't want you to. If she says it's alright, then ask him. If he says yes, then great. If he says no, then you can start to get over him.
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I'll tekk you want dont mess with this kid, your 13 doll you have no clue what love is ill tell you that right now..i believe you dont really ever know what love is in your life.. and if your friend means anything to you at all then you wont mess with this guy.. you'll get over him believe me its not love.. your friend will think you betray her and think that you liked him the whole time she was going out with him
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