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I'm fifteen years old and completely in love with a twenty-one year old guy. We have both liked each other for about 2 years now. However, the guy I like has never acted upon his feelings because of my age. He respects me, which isn't a bad thing. But how can I make him see that I'm mature enough to be his girlfriend? How could I coax him to get into a relationship with me? (link)
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No sedution want help u.I think that u shouldn't be going out with him but if u want to then here tell him how u feel and if that don't work than act mature and explain to him how u feel and u don't care about what other people might say.But I still think u is a little to young to be going out with a 21 year old.
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What should I do, I thought I liked this guy but really I just liked him as a friend so now I like one of his friends and he says he likes me but the other guys really hurt and wont get off my back! I need advice (link)
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Well you should date someone your own age and not someone way older than u.By the way go for the second guy cause if he likes you and u like him then go for it no matter what.
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This is going to sound pretty freakin' stupid but last night I watched two of the Texas Chainsaw Massacres and I realized how much I want a boyfriend. Just someone to hold me while we watch horror movies and just someone I could share the warmth of being in a relationship with. I'm still young. I'm 14...but still...I can't help it. I know a lot of times being in a relationship at this age equals a lot of pain in sorrow in the end (most of the time). But at night I cry because I feel so alone and I get this feeling in the pit of my stomach and it really hurts...and my heart feels shaky and I think a boyfriend could heal that. I guess what I'm trying to say is I'm "depressed" a lot but I don't know...I have this boy in mind and he's just perfect in everyway. He's sweet and we only talk online because we go to different schools. (but we live in the same town) and wow...I just really like him and I just wish that he knew. I plan on telling him but I guess it would make everything weird and I just want to cry. I feel like such a fucking sap but I can't help it. I just want to scream out I like him but I have social anxiety disorder and I've asked some more questions before about this subject but it's just hard.
AND NO I CAN'T FREAKING CALL HIM ON THE PHONE...if anything I'm telling him online and even if I met up with him at the movies in person or something then I probably wouldn't even freaking talk to him because I'm so stupid and once again I let my social anxiety disorder conquer me...
Please help me...
This isn't some sappy kid love story...I just want him to know how I feel and I have NO CLUE how he will act and I'm scared of him rejecting me...
And I guess we tell each other a lot of things online...but I don't know...in my old school people made fun of me because of my S.A.D. which is why I tranferred. He understands me because I explained it to him and he was so sweet to me and it felt like he totally understood everything I had to say. I don't know what to do...he means a lot to me and he doesn't know it...
I told him so many things about my life and he told me quite a few things about his and if I tell him I like him and he doesn't feel the same way back to me I'm afraid everything will be gone between us. The nice talks online...and just...everything.
He is such a sweet boy like I said before and he just doesn't realize how much girls like him. I'm one of those girls...but it's different. I don't like him because of his cute face... (I havent even seen the "new" him) I haven't seen him in a year and people say he "got cute" and that kind of intimidates me...looks DO NOT matter to me but I just really fell in love with this boy's personality and he is so sweet and I know he would never do anythign mean to me I'm just afraid I'll embarrass him in front of his friends if I tell him I really like him. Of course if I ask him out he's going to tell them (because that's what friends do) and I'm afraid for some reason his friends (who are realloy nice...but) I'm just afraid that they will kind of try to persuade him out of ever talking to me again (and I know that sounds weird) but...I don't know... I just have a problem with always feeling like I'm holding peopkle back. I can't help that...I feel like I'm always putting people on the spot and that I should come second rather than first in anything in their life. I hate feeling liek I hold people back which is another reason why I don;t want to tell him.
But...I just don't know what to do...
I'm SO SORRY for this long question I'm just desperate and I really like him. I think about him all the time and I just want a chance with him...I'm really sorry if I took up any of your time...just please help me...
Thanks. (link)
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OK well I didn't read the whole thing I read the important parts but from what I read take this advice when your at that age yes there is pain and sorrow but don't let that stop u from probly finding someone that might love u.Yes it hurts to get burned cause I know what you have to do is keep trying to find a guy that is going to be truthful,honest,and loyal to u.By they way if u want a friend here's my e-mail address ok.
little_baby372000@hotmail.com
write there and tell me what's going on ok bye.
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I like this guy (we'll call him X). I met him on a Friday a few weeks ago, hung out with him for about 6 hours straight a few days later, and he tells me that he really likes me. I started talking on the phone and developing strong feelings for him. We hung out again and he talks about how much he likes me + also about trying to make a relationship work with the two of us. This friday, he cancells plans with me and says he's intimidated by relationships/commitment, even after everything he had previously said. Now, on Friday he says he's going to think it through and we're going to hang out on Sunday instead, so he asks me to clear my schedule. I do, and now he's not home, nor has he bothered to call me or sign online all day. How am I supposed to be reacting to this? Should I give him any more chances or is it not worth it? (link)
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I think he is playing with your heart and u need to tell him it's not worth it.But tell him you like him and u don't want to loose him but if u wanna act childish then you and him just need to be friends or something.But don't let him run on u and hurt u.
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There*z this kid who ive gotten really close to when my best friend broke up with..but im afraid to ask him out because if i do and he says yes my friend will be mad at me but if he says no then i will be upset..but i cant just let him go becuase i really love him and i cant keep my mind off him..HELP!
13,Female (link)
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I think u need to explain to your friend that you have mad feelings for him and u don't want to hurt her but u can't stop thinking of him and u wanna ask him out.But if she still got mad at u for that then she's not really a friend.If he reject you then mabe it wasn't made to be.But either way u will live and be stronger.
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Okay this guy is 17 and im 13 going to be 14..well hes soo afraid of what his friends will think if we go out but hes up for the friends with benfits behind closed door thing and i dont know if i like that but friday night i went to this show with my friend and the 17 yr old showed up the night b4 this he had told me just to move on because he would hurt me and i need to find a guy that cares about me an such well i have this really good friend named Josh and i was sittin on him at the show because there were no other chairs and my other friend was sittin on her boyfriend well gabe (17yr old) walked in and he looked at me and he got really upset and walked outside i ran after him and as soon as i got outside he walked back in later that night we got into a big fight infront of everyone and now hes tellin me how he likes me and all this but doesnt know what to think ne more.. im really confused and dont kno if i should just be friends with benfits or just be done with him im soo lost sk8tergurl294 please help me b4 i go insane over this boi (link)
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well I think u should tell him that it would be nice to have a relationship with him and if he says he would rather be friends with benfits then just be done with him and find someone eles.
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well like i said before about the guy...well his ex dumped her girlfriend n all n has been around him a lot....n like i duno he looks at me like he wants to talk to me but he doesnt n i wanna talk to him but i feel used. n now i like see him everywhere i go in school...aaahh i want him! ggrr HELP!!! IM me bac thanks ALOT! crazy lil mege! (link)
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I think that u should get over your fear and ask him out and if he denies then he tried to use u.
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