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so confused
Okay this guy is 17 and im 13 going to be 14..well hes soo afraid of what his friends will think if we go out but hes up for the friends with benfits behind closed door thing and i dont know if i like that but friday night i went to this show with my friend and the 17 yr old showed up the night b4 this he had told me just to move on because he would hurt me and i need to find a guy that cares about me an such well i have this really good friend named Josh and i was sittin on him at the show because there were no other chairs and my other friend was sittin on her boyfriend well gabe (17yr old) walked in and he looked at me and he got really upset and walked outside i ran after him and as soon as i got outside he walked back in later that night we got into a big fight infront of everyone and now hes tellin me how he likes me and all this but doesnt know what to think ne more.. im really confused and dont kno if i should just be friends with benfits or just be done with him im soo lost sk8tergurl294 please help me b4 i go insane over this boi
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This guy needs help no offence he has to figure out what and who he wants mabe help him figure that out thats what i would do
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Well i can already tell he isnt worth it cuz if you are friends with benifits then that is like you are his play toy and thats not cool i would stick with josh cuz he seems nice although i know nothing about him lol but i would just stick with him cuz u r nobodys toy-trix
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NO NO NO to the friends with benefits! {lol} If this guy really likes you then he should have no problem in letting anyone know that,....despite of your age. If he starts talking about: well, im worried what my frends will think bull shit then say look, I'm not wanting to date your friends! I want to date you!! See where it goes from there. Good Luck
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Whatever you decide, you shouldn't be friends with benfits because he will hurt you that way if you have feelings for him. I suggest that you give it a try, but tell him that he can't just be your girlfriend when no one is around. If you have strong feelings for this boy, then don't just be done with him. Hope it all helps.
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ok well first off if the guy really likes you it shouldnt really matter what his friends think..if he likes you then he likes you, and they cant stop that..but there is a little bit of an age gap but thats not a big deal..but maybe you should just talk to him and tell him how you feel, tell him you want a relationship with him and you dont want to be friends with benefits, and just let it all out..yeah sometimes friends with benefits can be a good thing but it could also make your feelings grow stronger and make you wanna be with him more and then that could hurt..and he could also take that for advantage..if he doesnt want a relationship with you then id say just be friends..i would say prolly not to do the whole friends with benefits thing cause that could end up hurting you more then anything but that part is up to you! just see what'd he'd rather be and what hes more comfortable with..if he wants to be friends with you then yeah move on but dont let your friendship go but if he wants to have a relationship with you then thats awesome..hope i helped! good luck!!! =)
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well I think u should tell him that it would be nice to have a relationship with him and if he says he would rather be friends with benfits then just be done with him and find someone eles.
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the older one is probalby just trying to use you - he is attempting to play mind games with you as he feels you are easy prey and can be manipulated.
Move on.
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