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hey its me again by the way my name is amanda lol but well my best friend still likes stephen and he doesn't like me i asked jack to ask him and yea i like him so much but i kinda think i'm getting over him i mean after i found out valeri liked him i guess i just tried to stop like him should i just let valeri have him? (link)
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*yeah just be the stronger person and let valeri have him! gettin over someone is hard but if u already kinda are then it will be pretty easy! ull find someone better in the long run
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ok i'm the same girl i'm sorry for asking for so much advice you have better things to do then help out some 14 year old freshman but about stephen i told everyone i don't like him and i think he found that out and now hes talking to me but other things have gone wronge my best friend jack told me today he was all so whats this about u and cameron i was like o u heard he goes yea then why would u make out with him i go idk and now he is being a big as*hole to me and stephen ppl say he always looks at me when i get up in class or something is that good? (link)
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hey! its ok that you keep asking me questions thats what im here for and im glad that i can be able to help u! yes stephen looking at you is a good thing! he prolly does like you , just isnt good at showing it cause a lot of guys are like that! if you like him dont tell people you dont because thats just gonna end up confusing him! you just need to talk to stephen one on one and see what is up! and so what if you made out with cameron that doesnt concern anyone so if they start giving you crap just say mind your own buisness..i know that sounds mean but ive been in this position before but eventually people will leave it alone because they will realize you dont care and plus they really dont need to be in your buisness! hope i helped! =) write back if ya need more help
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ok i'm the same girl that asked u about the care bear thing and about stephen well i like stephen alot and all my friends used to always like eww amanda and stuff well yesterday was ballinger's first football game and there was a gay dance at the end well all that happend and we all stayed at my friend cassie's house and my friend valeri was like i feel bad the whole night then we made her tell us cassie was like is it about me she goes no i go is it about me she goes yea i was like omg what could she say about me she goes i like stephen i was so pissed she knows how much i like stephen i've liked him since 7th grade now we are freshmen and i was so pissed i was like no i'm not mad but i really was and i know if he finds out that she likes him he will go out with her and for some reason stephen don't even want to talk to me we sit by eachother in a class and he still don't talk to me yea he knows i like him but for some reason he doesn't care now valeri is going to go out with him and she supposed to be my best friend what a great best friend and my other best friend jack he told me to just forget him i can find beter and i told him its not that easy i've liked him forever and hes liked me in 7th gade b-4 and he liked me in 8th grade and the summer b-4 freshmen year bc we would all go to the pool and he would just like put his arm around me and stuff like that but after juan's he just don't like me what makes matters worse that guy that gave me the care bear is stephens friend and he likes me but i don't like him and i like stephen but he don't like me please help me about valeri i mean valeri can get another hot guy i want stephen valeri is the kind of girl that makes out with anyone she can and shes a slut i mean shes my best friend but she is pissing me off right now she used to say i was nasty for liking him and now look i can't beleive this pleas help me. (link)
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*First off Valeri is not your best friend! You need to talk to her and tell her that you like Stephen a lot and you dont want her to go out with him! And if she is your friend she will accept that and just be friends with him but if she does end up going out with him shes not even ur friend cause friends dont do that kinda stuff! Maybe you should talk to Stephen and tell him how you feel too and ask him why all of a sudden he stopped liking you and talking to you! And trust me i know its hard just to get over a guy! But all you can really do to get over him is just go out with your friends and have a good time! But if ur not ready to move on just yet then dont..And if the time comes that you need to it will take time, prolly a couple weeks or maybe even months! Just do the best that you can and eventually a guy that is much better will come and take your heart! I know you like him a lot but ur still young and everything else too! And about the guy thats stephens friend just tell him you dont like him like that and u just wanna be friends! Hope i helped! x0x0
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ok well my birthday is coming up and well this guy i used to like alot likes me now and i don't like him at all i like this guy named stephen i've always liked stephen well anyway the guy that likes me he got me a birthday present it was the new usher cd and one of them big care bears thats about 50 bucks right there my friends say never take and expencive gift from a guy bc he would want something in return how do i get this guy away from me i'm to scared to tell him so what do i do thanks
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ok next question i like stephen right well he doesn't like me he used to like me and i liked him and we were at my friend juan's house and everyone was making out so me and stephen did rigt well the next day i liked him alot and everyone said he liked me i was soo happy well its been like 3 4 weeks right we went to juan's house again and everyone was making out but stephen don't like me i was pissed well i started makin out wit a guy named joe for about 4 min and a guy named cameron for about 10 and a guy named juan for about 2 lol i feel like a slut and i really like stephen and stephen walked in on me and cameron and i didn't want stephen to know
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about the guy that bought you the care bear and usher cd...all you can really do is tell him how you feel! tell him you dont like him like that anymore but you do want to be friends! dont be scared to tell him how you feel because it will only hurt him more by you not telling him and him thinking that you do like him! and about stephen..just call him or go up to him when you see him and talk to him! tell him you really like him and your sorry that it happened! you cant really make him like you again though, all you can do is talk to him and get to know him better and even hang out with him and maybe that will help make him have feelings for you , but other then that you cant really make him like you because it just kinda happens! explain to him everything that you feel and things like that! but dont feel like a slut or anything about it either because your not! its not like you were doing anything big and making out isnt that big of a deal and its not like you had a boyfriend either..you were just being a teenager and having fun so dont worry about that! i hope i helped! good luck!!!
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hey...ok i really need good advice....
im dating one my best frends ex boyfrendz...and i really have alot of feelings for him...i've noticed shez been odd around me and then the other day wen i was chillin wit her cuz she told me that my frend still had feelings for him and i go well she should speak up...i mean at the beginning of our relationship i asked my frend if she had a problem wit me dating him and she said no so i just went on wit our relationship and and now me and her r growing sooo far apart and itz hard...wat should i do
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well if you think you and your best friend are growing apart then maybe you should talk to her heart to heart! more then likely she does care that your going out with her ex boyfriend or she wouldnt be acting this way, she prolly said she wouldnt mind because she didnt want you to be mad! but going out with a friends ex boyfriend always bothers them because they arent completely over them and they will get jelous! if you guys are growing apart so much id say to break up with him because wouldnt you rather have a best friend that will always be there for you then a guy that wont be there that long? i know you really like the guy and everything but hes not gonna be there for you forever! hope i helped!!!! xOxO
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I'm from St.Louis too!! Yay go us!! lol well my columnist is born2baPrincess so yea xOxO*Shannon (link)
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haha thats cool! yeah go us! lol!
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what do you do when you like three guys?? one likes you the other likes you but the one you like the most is your best friend. the firt two prolly just wanna get in my pants and my best friend has a dream girl he liked me but i didn't like him and i also like the other two how do i choose?!?!? (link)
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Well if you think two of the guys are using you just to get in your pants then theres really no point in that, but if your not sure about it just get to know each of them better! And if you bestfriend likes you then id say go for him because you guys already know eachother prolly really well! Just tell him how you feel about everything and let it all out! But the only fall is that if you guys break up you might lose the bond you guys had before so you might wanna talk to him about that too before you guys go out, if you do! Hope i helped! =)
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ok let me try to make this as short as i can...there is this guy i met about 3 months ago at youth group hes not that kind of guy who is in to like god and everything hes the bad kind of mexican well i started to like him right my friend monica the one that introduced us to each other well she already knew him so she always talked about him and she would always talk to him about me well i saw him at school like after athletics because he would always be in the high school locker room so i would have to walk by there to go to the jh lockers one day he invited me to a party and i was going to say yes but i knew i should say no so i said no then i asked my best friend to find out stuff about him and he said he does drungs and when he gets drunk he can't control himself well i just talked to him sometimes in the hall but then i was at monica's house and she invited him over and we talked a lil then cuddled a lil then i thought oh i better stop so i left then my youth group went to six flags so me and him rode like every ride together and we got to know each other i liked him alot that day then like 2 weeks later i had to go to camp so the day before camp i was at monica's house because i was going to the same camp as her and everything her parents werent there so it was just me and her so we called my other best friend over chris we all hung out for a while by that time i've been talkin to that guy so i called him and asked him to come over so chris me and monica drover over to go get Adam(thats the guys name) on the way to monicas i told chris to stop by alsups so get me somethin to drink so adam went in there and he took forever so i went in there to go get him but the girl workin there was my brother-in-law's mom and she knows me good i was like ooo shit what and i going to do i was like hey shela and being really nice i was scared to death lol well we went to go get a movie and then we all went to monica's the movie was really borin so we put in The lion king lol then i was cuddlin with adam and then chris i was like get away from him the whole night so i was w/e chris and went to a diff couch and he told me in his ear he liked me i was like dude chris we are friends only friends good friends so i got mad and went to go to sleep i put music on and went to sleep in monica's sister's room then chris and adam came in and chris said he was leaving i was like alright later then Adam came in and we fell asleep in monica's sisters room he was holding me and everything and i felt safe and nothing happend we didn't even kiss i promise he left likeat 7:30 in the morning he woke me up to tell me he was leaving and like around 7:40 my sister called and was like so were did u go last night i was no were she goes really i go yea she told me that shela saw me at alsups and she asked me who i was with i go Adam and she goes yea i know i'm going to tell mom she asked why i was with him and i told her that monica's cousin gave him a cd so we were takin him home i did not tell her chris was driving bc chris is in her grade a senior and i would be in bigger trouble we hung up and i was like o shit i have to get ready for camp so i woke up monica and we got ready in like 10 min. and drove to angelo
(30 min.away) so during camp i talked to adam on the phone from like 11 to 5 in the morning i had an hour of sleep every day bc we had to get up at 6 i had to call my mom and she told me to stay away from adam because hes a bad guy and i don't need to get involed with a druggy so i tried to no like him but we talked to each other on the phone every night for 6 hours he told me that he knew bout everything about me bc he would listen to what i had to say and that when we were in shcool he knew every class i was in and everything and i was in junior high and he was in high school he asked me out about 10 time in that week and everytime i said no but that cd and my blanket would remind me of him bc the cd we heard when we fell asleep and my blanket smelt like him and he said he would stop doing drugs and eveything he works with my brother-in-law and he told him to hook us up and he was like hell no and adam is scared of my sister bc she would kick his ass and everything i like him and all but i know my family hates him and i know i wouldn't be able to trust him bc of the way he is but i like him my mom and dad hate him but what should i do? sorry it was soo long but i needed to get it out i couldn't talk to anyone else. (link)
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well it seems like you really like this guy and i know its pretty hard to keep a relationship with someone when ur parents hate them! all you really can do is talk to your parents and tell them how you feel about him and tell him hes not that bad of a guy! maybe some day you should just have him over and you guys could be around your parents for the whole day and they could see hes not that bad of a guy! yeah a lot of guys do drugs and everything but that doesnt mean that they are bad guys! tell your parents he makes you happy and everything and hopefully that will help them understand! now if they forbid u to see him you cant really do anything about it because they are your parents..yeah i know it sucks but theres nothing you really can do except convince them hes a great guy! if you really like him u might just have to sneak out and be able to be with him and that might be hard so if ur parents wont let u just maybe try to stay away from him, i know its hard but your parents make the rules! gOoD lUcK!!
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ok well me and a couple of friends go to this place called the square its like where kids just go and get drunk and everything right well its in a small town and theres no cops well i'm going in to hight school and its no bigie bc i know everyone in high school bc i party with them well last night i got drunk and i was with this guy and he said we did some stuff and i don't remember anything the only thing i remember is smokin a cigarette and then talkin to my friend named ashley and she sayin hey were bout to leave so get in the car and the next morning i was home with a big ass hangover but i'm still a virgin and i really don't want to lose it with a guy whos 19 please help (link)
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well maybe you should ask the guy what you guys did that way you arent totally clueless..yeah i understand its fun to go out and party and everything but ur still young so be careful cause if you do stuff you might get a bad reputation and u dont want that! but if u dont wanna lose ur virginity to him then dont! save it for someone special! gOoD LuCk
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ok my friend stayed over last night we have been friends since 1st grade since i moved here and now we are going to be freshmen and go to high school and everything right well me and her had a heart to heart convo and she told me shes had sex when she was only 11 with a guy i call a really good friend and then she told me that 2 of her cousions have touched her and one of them touched her when i was staying over she asked me if i ever had sex b-4 i said no but what do i do?
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well this guy who is going to be a 11th grader likes me and me and my friend(same friend)are going to his house on tuesday and we are going to watch movies just us in the house and i'm kinda freaked out because hes tried things b-4 at my house and i don't mind cuddling and holding hads but what if he goes further what do i do please help me as quick as u can thank u..... (link)
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ok babe..well 1st off maybe you should have her tell someone because she was a little young when it happened..if it bothers her maybe she should talk to her parents or talk to a councelor..her cousin touching her is not right either that is incest..she needs to tell him to stop and leave her alone because she is still young and she still needs to grow up..and dont change your self just because shes done stuff..wait for someone thats special to come and take ur heart bc it will make it so much more special..trust me..and about the guys house your going to yes be careful..if he touches u in anyway that is unwanted tell him to stop bc that is not right..dont let him do n e thing to u that u dont want..tell him his limits and be straight up with him..hes older so hes going to think he can take advantage of you and dont let that happen! if he starts doing stuff just tell him NO and if he keeps going then get up and move away from him! if this guy really likes u and doesnt just want something when u tell him no he will understand and he will listen..if he keeps going then hes not worth it, hes only in it for something..i know it may be hard if u kinda like him but u will only get hurt more if u stay with him if he does unwanted things! i hope everything goes good with u and i wish u the best of luck! xOxO *MuAh*
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I met this guy, see Im 18 and he's 22 and we both starting liking each other, then things started getting serious. We hang out with each other everyday all day long. Then the subject of sex is brought up, and I change the subject, only because I've heard and hes admitted that hes been with 65 girls (not joking). I wanna know if its wrong if I ask him to get tested before we eventually have sex? Cause I mean I dont know the girls he's been with and I dont want to end up with something cause of what he's done. (link)
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babe no its not wrong if you ask him to get tested! your just trying to protect your self that way nothing happens to you! yeah he may not like the idea of it all but if he really cares about you he will do it for you! i mean if hes been with that many girls then yeah id want him to get tested too because i wouldnt want anything to happen to my self..just whenever you end up talking about sex just casually be like please dont get mad or anything because i do care about you but i would like you to get tested before we have sex that way i know its safe! and maybe if he doesnt know that you know about him being with that many girls be honest with him and tell him! and tell him how you feel about it all..he may not like it all but hes gotta accept how you feel! well i hope i helped!! if you need anymore help you can im me or write again!!! good luck!
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ok well i like this boy i have his number and all but idk wether i should call him cuz ive only talked to him once and it was over the computer a part of me wants to but im afraid hell think im a stalker or something and i really like him and i would like to get to kno him more and let him get to kno me..what should i do ? (link)
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yeah i think you should call him! and just talk to him and get to know him! dont be afraid! more then likely he wont think ur a stalker he will just figure ull wanna talk..if ur scared to call him maybe talk to him a little bit more on the computer and just see what happens..and maybe ask him if u can give him a call sometime! dont be afraid though! if you like the guy tell him, dont hide it because u never know he could like you 2! but u never know, guys dont always come out and tell u how they feel because they r scared as well..but i think you really should call him even if u r scared..trust me ive had this feeling before..and after u call and start talking to them its really not that bad, and he prolly wont even think anything bad of u calling! i hope i helped!! best of luck! *muah*
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i'm 14 and this older guy likes me he's 16 and i've known him for like forever but now he wants me to be his girlfriend and it's weird because of parents and friends so i'm not sure if i should go out with him or just still be friends (link)
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you guys seem like your prolly pretty close..if you like the guy then yeah go out with him..or if its weird for you just maybe get to know him more and see where it takes you..the age isnt a big difference though and thats fine! cause its just a number! but if you dont like him or you would prefer to be friends tell him that..or just give it a shot and if things dont seem to be working tell him that you would rather be friends! but i think if you like the guy give it a try and see what happens!
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ive been goin out /w this guy 2 weeks exactly. were kissed b 4, and weve held hands god nows how many times, and we went 2 the movies yesterday and he had his hand around me and i have my head on his shoulder. that basically shows you how close we are. i just got out of school for 3 months. i gave him my phone # in his yearbook. i still feel strange about calling him though. and i dont now why. do i call him or wait for him to call me?
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you guys seem really close and he seems to be affecionate towards you! so yeah call him! cause if u dont later in life you might regret that!dont be afraid! he may be scared to call you 2!so you make the 1st move, and guys like when girls do that! dont feel strange its not that bad! this has happened to me before too..just pick up the phone and call him and at first you might get nervous and get butterflies but after you start talking to him you realize its really not that bad! best of luck! *muah*
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What are some nice sweet romantic things guys can do to make there girlfriends just feel really really loved...........please help...thanks you all! (link)
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there are so many things you could do! you could take her out for dinner* send her flowers* write her a poem* open doors for her* call her when she leasts expects it* write her a letter* kiss her cheek* take her some where and lay down and hold her and look at the stars together and tell her how you feel* take her to the mall or something and offer her something to eat or drink before she asks* or if you live by the beach take her to the beach and just have a long walk at night! some of these things are little and some are big but all of it matters! girls love when guys do little things for them just to show they care about them and love them! =)
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hopefully i can make this as short as possible, so here we go (by the way i am a male and am 15 years old, going to be a sophmore next year); the person i like to portray myself to be is a really nice and caring guy who is what some people would call not as much a guy as guys are, but anyways, there is this girl who is really really nice, and really really fun and energetic, she is always "bouncing off the walls" and also has a great sense of humor and is really fun to be around, i really enjoy being around her. here is some more information: i didnt know how to let her know how i felt about her, because i look up to her as a rolemodel as the person i want to be like, funny, smart, and just plain fun and not perverted or anything, like she never curses or says sick jokes or anything like that, so anyways, one day after school i stopped her and told her that i thought she was really cool and she in turn said the same thing to me, and i told her that i never thought i would meet anyone else like her. to finish off the information- i am moving in about 3 weeks, leaving state going off to somewhere else because of parent complications and what not, and now i just want to get to know her better; she did give me her email, but knowing her she doesnt check it except every month or so, so that it does not get deleted, because it is a hotmail account, so if i am lucky she will see the email i sent to her asking her if she would want to go for a walk and talk sometime so we can get to know each other better, but i dont think that will work. so anyways, here is my question- i want to find a way to ask her to do something with me (and by the way she doesn't want to date anyone or get into a relationship, that is why i want to ask her on a walk), but i dont know what to ask her to do, i thought of asking her for i walk, so we can talk more, because i want to get to know her better, so i dont know what to ask her, and second of all i dont know how to contact her, so far i have just been waiting to see if she will reply to my email, but i dont think she will, so i want another way to ask her, and i am not so sure about calling her house or knocking on her door and asking her that way, i only have 3 weeks left before i am gone and will not be able to see her again, so i just want some advice (and by the way she doesnt use chats either), so i would really appreciate it if someone could send me some advice, thanks a whole bunch if you do! (link)
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aww thats so sweet! but you only have 3 weeks left! if you really like this girl and u wanna get to know her more then do something with her because if you dont later in life you'll regret it..trust me..it sucks that you'll be moving and prolly wont see her again but hopefully you guys could keep in contact..but dont be scared! if u think she wont read her email then just give her a call and talk to her for a while and ask her to maybe do something with you! and just tell her about your situation..maybe even tell her how you feel about her, you never know she could feel the same way..she could be the one for you so just give it a shot..dont be afraid! best of luck!
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There*z this kid who ive gotten really close to when my best friend broke up with..but im afraid to ask him out because if i do and he says yes my friend will be mad at me but if he says no then i will be upset..but i cant just let him go becuase i really love him and i cant keep my mind off him..HELP!
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maybe talk to your friend and tell her how you feel about him..if she says she doesnt want you to be with him then dont but if shes okay with it then maybe go for it..but even if she tells you that she doesnt mind inside it prolly is some what hurting her..so id really say just to let him go and be friends with him! if this girl is your best friend you wouldnt want to hurt her..babe your only 13 you dont know what love is yet..there are so many guys that are going to come in and out of your life but your friends are ALWAYS going to be the ones there for you! you may really like the guy but you dont wanna betray your friend and yeah it might hurt you if you let him go but wouldnt you rather have a best friend? shes always gonna be there for you and hes NOT!
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Okay this guy is 17 and im 13 going to be 14..well hes soo afraid of what his friends will think if we go out but hes up for the friends with benfits behind closed door thing and i dont know if i like that but friday night i went to this show with my friend and the 17 yr old showed up the night b4 this he had told me just to move on because he would hurt me and i need to find a guy that cares about me an such well i have this really good friend named Josh and i was sittin on him at the show because there were no other chairs and my other friend was sittin on her boyfriend well gabe (17yr old) walked in and he looked at me and he got really upset and walked outside i ran after him and as soon as i got outside he walked back in later that night we got into a big fight infront of everyone and now hes tellin me how he likes me and all this but doesnt know what to think ne more.. im really confused and dont kno if i should just be friends with benfits or just be done with him im soo lost sk8tergurl294 please help me b4 i go insane over this boi (link)
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ok well first off if the guy really likes you it shouldnt really matter what his friends think..if he likes you then he likes you, and they cant stop that..but there is a little bit of an age gap but thats not a big deal..but maybe you should just talk to him and tell him how you feel, tell him you want a relationship with him and you dont want to be friends with benefits, and just let it all out..yeah sometimes friends with benefits can be a good thing but it could also make your feelings grow stronger and make you wanna be with him more and then that could hurt..and he could also take that for advantage..if he doesnt want a relationship with you then id say just be friends..i would say prolly not to do the whole friends with benefits thing cause that could end up hurting you more then anything but that part is up to you! just see what'd he'd rather be and what hes more comfortable with..if he wants to be friends with you then yeah move on but dont let your friendship go but if he wants to have a relationship with you then thats awesome..hope i helped! good luck!!! =)
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i like this boy his name is Eric and hes so cute but most of my frends say hes ugly. he knows who i am but we never talk my one frend is really close to him tho how should i deal with this situation..My frend says i have a really good chance with him but i havnt been haivng much luck with boys lately signed - boy crazy (link)
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ok well maybe since your friend is close to him she could talk to him for you..she could just ask him questions like if he likes you and if hed be interested in getting to know you! or sometime you could just talk to him your self and get to know him better and he may end up liking you..before rushing anything though be friends with him 1st because its always better that way cause then you know things about eachother! just dont rush it and give it time..trust me!..but it doesnt matter if ur friends think hes ugly its your opinion that matters not theres..not everyone agrees that their friends bfs or guys they like are cute but that doesnt matter..personality is what really matters although sometimes we tend to base it on looks, but really its the inside that counts! hope i helped you!!
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how much beer can u drink untill u get a beer bellie and when u get one how do u get rid of it? (link)
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ughhh i really dont know how much u can drink! im a girl so i really dont know about this kinda stuff and i dont really like beer either, ive drank it but not really cause to me its gross but you might be better off asking a guy that! and to get rid of it im guessing you could go on a diet or exercise or something! sorry i couldnt help you out really!
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