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ok let me try to make this as short as i can...there is this guy i met about 3 months ago at youth group hes not that kind of guy who is in to like god and everything hes the bad kind of mexican well i started to like him right my friend monica the one that introduced us to each other well she already knew him so she always talked about him and she would always talk to him about me well i saw him at school like after athletics because he would always be in the high school locker room so i would have to walk by there to go to the jh lockers one day he invited me to a party and i was going to say yes but i knew i should say no so i said no then i asked my best friend to find out stuff about him and he said he does drungs and when he gets drunk he can't control himself well i just talked to him sometimes in the hall but then i was at monica's house and she invited him over and we talked a lil then cuddled a lil then i thought oh i better stop so i left then my youth group went to six flags so me and him rode like every ride together and we got to know each other i liked him alot that day then like 2 weeks later i had to go to camp so the day before camp i was at monica's house because i was going to the same camp as her and everything her parents werent there so it was just me and her so we called my other best friend over chris we all hung out for a while by that time i've been talkin to that guy so i called him and asked him to come over so chris me and monica drover over to go get Adam(thats the guys name) on the way to monicas i told chris to stop by alsups so get me somethin to drink so adam went in there and he took forever so i went in there to go get him but the girl workin there was my brother-in-law's mom and she knows me good i was like ooo shit what and i going to do i was like hey shela and being really nice i was scared to death lol well we went to go get a movie and then we all went to monica's the movie was really borin so we put in The lion king lol then i was cuddlin with adam and then chris i was like get away from him the whole night so i was w/e chris and went to a diff couch and he told me in his ear he liked me i was like dude chris we are friends only friends good friends so i got mad and went to go to sleep i put music on and went to sleep in monica's sister's room then chris and adam came in and chris said he was leaving i was like alright later then Adam came in and we fell asleep in monica's sisters room he was holding me and everything and i felt safe and nothing happend we didn't even kiss i promise he left likeat 7:30 in the morning he woke me up to tell me he was leaving and like around 7:40 my sister called and was like so were did u go last night i was no were she goes really i go yea she told me that shela saw me at alsups and she asked me who i was with i go Adam and she goes yea i know i'm going to tell mom she asked why i was with him and i told her that monica's cousin gave him a cd so we were takin him home i did not tell her chris was driving bc chris is in her grade a senior and i would be in bigger trouble we hung up and i was like o shit i have to get ready for camp so i woke up monica and we got ready in like 10 min. and drove to angelo
(30 min.away) so during camp i talked to adam on the phone from like 11 to 5 in the morning i had an hour of sleep every day bc we had to get up at 6 i had to call my mom and she told me to stay away from adam because hes a bad guy and i don't need to get involed with a druggy so i tried to no like him but we talked to each other on the phone every night for 6 hours he told me that he knew bout everything about me bc he would listen to what i had to say and that when we were in shcool he knew every class i was in and everything and i was in junior high and he was in high school he asked me out about 10 time in that week and everytime i said no but that cd and my blanket would remind me of him bc the cd we heard when we fell asleep and my blanket smelt like him and he said he would stop doing drugs and eveything he works with my brother-in-law and he told him to hook us up and he was like hell no and adam is scared of my sister bc she would kick his ass and everything i like him and all but i know my family hates him and i know i wouldn't be able to trust him bc of the way he is but i like him my mom and dad hate him but what should i do? sorry it was soo long but i needed to get it out i couldn't talk to anyone else.
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well it seems like you really like this guy and i know its pretty hard to keep a relationship with someone when ur parents hate them! all you really can do is talk to your parents and tell them how you feel about him and tell him hes not that bad of a guy! maybe some day you should just have him over and you guys could be around your parents for the whole day and they could see hes not that bad of a guy! yeah a lot of guys do drugs and everything but that doesnt mean that they are bad guys! tell your parents he makes you happy and everything and hopefully that will help them understand! now if they forbid u to see him you cant really do anything about it because they are your parents..yeah i know it sucks but theres nothing you really can do except convince them hes a great guy! if you really like him u might just have to sneak out and be able to be with him and that might be hard so if ur parents wont let u just maybe try to stay away from him, i know its hard but your parents make the rules! gOoD lUcK!! <3
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