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Question Posted Sunday July 4 2004, 9:32 pm

ok my friend stayed over last night we have been friends since 1st grade since i moved here and now we are going to be freshmen and go to high school and everything right well me and her had a heart to heart convo and she told me shes had sex when she was only 11 with a guy i call a really good friend and then she told me that 2 of her cousions have touched her and one of them touched her when i was staying over she asked me if i ever had sex b-4 i said no but what do i do?
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well this guy who is going to be a 11th grader likes me and me and my friend(same friend)are going to his house on tuesday and we are going to watch movies just us in the house and i'm kinda freaked out because hes tried things b-4 at my house and i don't mind cuddling and holding hads but what if he goes further what do i do please help me as quick as u can thank u.....


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xOLiLcHeErBeAr4u answered Sunday July 4 2004, 11:44 pm:
ok babe..well 1st off maybe you should have her tell someone because she was a little young when it happened..if it bothers her maybe she should talk to her parents or talk to a councelor..her cousin touching her is not right either that is incest..she needs to tell him to stop and leave her alone because she is still young and she still needs to grow up..and dont change your self just because shes done stuff..wait for someone thats special to come and take ur heart bc it will make it so much more special..trust me..and about the guys house your going to yes be careful..if he touches u in anyway that is unwanted tell him to stop bc that is not right..dont let him do n e thing to u that u dont want..tell him his limits and be straight up with him..hes older so hes going to think he can take advantage of you and dont let that happen! if he starts doing stuff just tell him NO and if he keeps going then get up and move away from him! if this guy really likes u and doesnt just want something when u tell him no he will understand and he will listen..if he keeps going then hes not worth it, hes only in it for something..i know it may be hard if u kinda like him but u will only get hurt more if u stay with him if he does unwanted things! i hope everything goes good with u and i wish u the best of luck! xOxO *MuAh*

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