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scared!!!


Question Posted Sunday July 4 2004, 9:32 pm

ok ive never been kissed before and all my friends have been kissed and i was at a party a while ago and we were play truth or dare but only truth cuz there wasnt any guyz or w/e but then like it came to me and they asked who my first kiss was w/ and i said ive never been kissed and they all laughed and i felt sooo stupid i just wanted to leave cuz i was so embarassed and i know im not pritty n stuff so i know i wont get my first kiss for a while but im just sooooo scared tho to i dont know its just like i was up north and this one guy ((ive known him for a while)) and we havent seen eachother for a while and we talked to catch up on stuff and he said he liked me again and then he started asking me about kissing and stuff and i kinda turned him down but now i totally regret that cuz i rilly like him to and its just every time some guy wants to kiss me im afraid i dont know why i am its just i feel stupid when ive never kissed a guy.. how can i not be afraid and just kiss the right guy? help pleeeeez!! thanx!

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bAhAmAmA0250 answered Wednesday July 7 2004, 1:27 am:
i would wait for the right guy to come around and if you friends laughed at you they arent very good friends and just saying your waiting and you want it to be speacial so you are waiting and maybe when you go back up north you can kiss that guy or something-trix

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BrunetteBarbie20 answered Monday July 5 2004, 6:35 pm:
Dont worrie about it! If u like this guy from up north so much go see him again... talk to him about it and when u guys become closer u can kiss him. once u kiss a guy for the first time is isnt bad at all after that. Just getting past the first kiss is kinda scary i guess. But just dont worrie about it the time will come and it wont be as scary as u think... and plus kissing comes naturally to people so u cant be that bad :) x0x0 Jenna x0x0

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Ashley answered Monday July 5 2004, 3:55 am:
Don't worry! You will meet the right person and kiss someone when the time is right. Don't rush!

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Siren_Cytherea answered Sunday July 4 2004, 11:18 pm:
You just have to swallow your fear and nerves and plunge, or in this case, kiss. Lol. If you don't like a guy, don't kiss him. If you do, go for it. I used to get major butterflies every time my old bf was about to kiss me. The butterflies stopped when I met my current guy. So just get rid of your nerves and dive in!
Good luck!
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xOCarrie answered Sunday July 4 2004, 10:50 pm:
Well, my first kiss was with someone i hardly even knew. I regret kissing him as my first so make sure your first kiss is with someone special and someone you can trust. Don`t rush into getting that first kiss because then when you finally get it, it wont seem as great as you thought. i`m sure your really pretty and the guy you first kiss shouldn`t kiss you for your looks it should be for your beautiful personality, thats when you know its special. About your friends, dont worry about them they`re just acting immature, it will all blow over and i can promise you that if you stop searching eventually your prince charming will come to you. good luck sweetie.

xO.Carrie

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MissJ1414 answered Sunday July 4 2004, 10:42 pm:
well don't worry about it just move your tongue with his there's no right or wrong way to do it so just go for it. As far as the right guy knows..you'll know when it is. I can't explain the feeling but trust me you'll know. Hop e I helped. (you can IM me and we can talk more pAlMeTo SuGaNeSs)

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tweety answered Sunday July 4 2004, 10:32 pm:
O.K. Listen if you are afraid to kiss him then he's not the right guy for you. When the right guy comes along you'll know.....trust me.


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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Sunday July 4 2004, 10:09 pm:
well, i know how u feel b/c i've been there...my first kiss was at the age 15 n i always turned guys down (1 b/c i wasnt allowed to have a b/f n 2 b/c i was scared not knowin how to kiss) but at the age 15 i liked this guys so i went out wit him n had my frist kiss...i was scared n nervous but i did it...its not a big of a deal b/c u dont have to know how to kiss...it just comes up automatically ;) so relax...n dont worry to much bout it ;)...STOP TURNING GUYS DOWN :) give a guy a chance...(of course if u like him back) good luck ;) xoxo effy

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cowgurl answered Sunday July 4 2004, 10:06 pm:
Well first of all, im sure you followed your gut about not kissing him. But if you ergret it that much than call him up or sumthing and explain yourself. And just for the record, it doesnt matter how pretty you are, its whats on the inside!! ANd your time will come sumtime, TRUST ME! just wait for theat 1 special sum1! he will eventually come around!
*Melody

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LilMia811 answered Sunday July 4 2004, 9:44 pm:
Okay, it is totally normal to feel scared about your 1st kiss. Its something completely knew that you've never done before. And you probably want it to be special. And with someone who you will enjoy sharing a piece of yourself with. How you are feeling is fine. you should not feel stupid. Be proud that you are wating for just the right time and yuo're not being fast and running into things like your other girlfriends. This is special. But, what you need to do 1st is get some confidence. A guy does not want a girl who talks down on herself. If you go around saying and feeling ugly how is anyone gonna want to like you. Be happy about yourself. trust me even the ugliest girls get kissed, and its cuz they have confidence. Always smile and always look and feel your best. Guys like that. And when the moment comes for you to kiss someone. If you feel the moment is right, even if you are a little scared (which i said is normal remember :) ) just go for it. Onec you do it once, it may feel funny, but you will like it too. And you will become more and more comfortable with the guy, and pretty soon you will be kissing all the time and getting better and better at it. So just be confident, and things will start going your way. Hope I helped you and Good Luck! :)

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CrzyLilBrittBritt answered Sunday July 4 2004, 9:37 pm:
You can try practicing.It may sound stupid but it helps.Practice on ur arm.(dont think its masterbating cuz its not lol)Pretty soon u should be ready!Much <33
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