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don't know how to get with a really nice girl
hopefully i can make this as short as possible, so here we go (by the way i am a male and am 15 years old, going to be a sophmore next year); the person i like to portray myself to be is a really nice and caring guy who is what some people would call not as much a guy as guys are, but anyways, there is this girl who is really really nice, and really really fun and energetic, she is always "bouncing off the walls" and also has a great sense of humor and is really fun to be around, i really enjoy being around her. here is some more information: i didnt know how to let her know how i felt about her, because i look up to her as a rolemodel as the person i want to be like, funny, smart, and just plain fun and not perverted or anything, like she never curses or says sick jokes or anything like that, so anyways, one day after school i stopped her and told her that i thought she was really cool and she in turn said the same thing to me, and i told her that i never thought i would meet anyone else like her. to finish off the information- i am moving in about 3 weeks, leaving state going off to somewhere else because of parent complications and what not, and now i just want to get to know her better; she did give me her email, but knowing her she doesnt check it except every month or so, so that it does not get deleted, because it is a hotmail account, so if i am lucky she will see the email i sent to her asking her if she would want to go for a walk and talk sometime so we can get to know each other better, but i dont think that will work. so anyways, here is my question- i want to find a way to ask her to do something with me (and by the way she doesn't want to date anyone or get into a relationship, that is why i want to ask her on a walk), but i dont know what to ask her to do, i thought of asking her for i walk, so we can talk more, because i want to get to know her better, so i dont know what to ask her, and second of all i dont know how to contact her, so far i have just been waiting to see if she will reply to my email, but i dont think she will, so i want another way to ask her, and i am not so sure about calling her house or knocking on her door and asking her that way, i only have 3 weeks left before i am gone and will not be able to see her again, so i just want some advice (and by the way she doesnt use chats either), so i would really appreciate it if someone could send me some advice, thanks a whole bunch if you do!
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aww thats so sweet! but you only have 3 weeks left! if you really like this girl and u wanna get to know her more then do something with her because if you dont later in life you'll regret it..trust me..it sucks that you'll be moving and prolly wont see her again but hopefully you guys could keep in contact..but dont be scared! if u think she wont read her email then just give her a call and talk to her for a while and ask her to maybe do something with you! and just tell her about your situation..maybe even tell her how you feel about her, you never know she could feel the same way..she could be the one for you so just give it a shot..dont be afraid! best of luck! <3
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That is so sweet. You sound like you definitely meet the standards to the person you want to portray when you're older...
Talk to her...from what you said about you telling her that shes a cool person is a start. Just simply ask her if she wants to take a walk down to a store, a park, or just down the street anywhere that's close by to just get to know each other more. Make sure you tell her everything you feel. You don't have to tell you you really LIKE her or anything...but make sure you tell her that you respect her as a person and that you enjoy being around her. Tell her that you want to be there for her and be her friend and open up to her a little bit...
From how you described her she seems like an awesome pertson to be around. You sound like a great guy, and you show how you care by typing to us which makes ME want to be around you...because you seem so nice...so why wouldn't she want to be around you? Girls like caring boys...that's the bottom line. Just tell her what's on your mind and I'm sure only good could come out of it...
Remember, you only have three weeks so try to make the best of those days before you move...don't hold back.
~Gessyka
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A guy I have adored since the beginning of the school year (which is now over) told me he likes me, but that he is moving. We have been going out every night ever since. I didn't mind the fact that he was moving, I was just glad that he wanted to spend his last days with me before he moved away. I am sure the girl you like will think and feel the same as I do, especially since you say she is really nice. I agree with the other advisors when they say, Go For It!!! Good luck!
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Go for it! Even if you are moving, you can still go out for a bit. Invite her somewhere fun, maybe even something like DIscovery Zone just for kicks? Good luck.
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Try sending this girl a letter, or try calling her. As far as what to do, ask her to dinner with your family, or the walk sounded nice. If your not willing to risk it all, then its not worth it :) Hope everything goes your way before you leave
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How about a short answer for your detailed situation? Tell her, "I am moving in just 3 weeks and would like to hang out/go to the park/walk around the mall (whatever) and just talk. This will be my only chance to share some time with you before I go. You are so much fun to hang out with and I'd love to have a few laughs before I leave." No strings are attached at this point. You could end up having a great time with her and making an impression that would tempt her to check her email more often! You are leaving anyway, so if it doesn't work out, then you'll never see her again. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
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Try not to get too attached considering your moving in a few weeks. It's always harder. But, give her a call, leave a message telling her to call you back if she's not home. Something simple.
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Umm I would say you just call her and be like Hey you wanna go out and see a movie or something. And mayb she will go with you. But it really depends if she likes you how she says she does then most likely she will go!
-Stephanie
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