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i feel like my life is crumbling down. I'm thirteen,
my sister hates me and thinks i lie all the time, my boyfriend just wants me for sex, my best friend talks about me behind my back, my mom doesn't listen when i tell her i hate my life, my parents are divorced, my grades suck and nobody listens when i tell them i cant do it,everyone thinks I'm crazy, my parents both like my sister better, I'm the ugly one of the family who is good for nothing, sometimes my life hurts so bad it hurts, and Ive lost all hope that it can get better. I'm actually crying as I'm writing this. dying seems like the only way out, but i don't know if death hurts. all TV says its a relief and that its carries you away but what do they know? Why cant something in this world be hopeful? I hate it all. someone please help. (link)
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I Can relate to this Ive had this problem! Dying will only make it worse! I suggest going to see a counsler they can help you get on some medicne its not as bad as it may sound but this could be a good thing just consider seeing your school one first Tell her a little about what you are going though at home also find a hobby that you like to do depression can take alot from you and heres a seacret deppresion is basically slowly killing you so dont give it a chance work against it! You'll be glad you did! and I want lie after being deppressed for lets say about a month you never just jump up and get over it but you have to start some were! Drink plenty of water! I can feel you need lots of energy!
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Okay my best friend just told me shes bi..And im a girl to.I dont know what to do, should I still be her friend or should I like not be..Im kinda creeped out cause I dont want her to like hit on me or nething.What should I do? Im only 14 to what should I do (link)
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This is a very hard topic to get on but Im not going to affend anyone! Now friends are so called people that will be there for you till the end! keep that in my mind! Teen suscide is among a very high rate in this time in the most of it has to do with bi or gay teens! So instead of turning in your friend be there for Her just simply let her know that you aren't bi but you will be by her side! You don't know what she is thinking in her head and by her telling you! That just means you are important to her! So Please be supportive we don't need more teen blood sheded!
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I'm 16/f and 3 months along pregnant. Today I woke up and haven't been feeling good but not the usual morning sickness feel. I'm having these weird cramp like pains in my lower half and I spotted blood all day now. I am afraid to tell my mom because I just told her I am pregnant and she's really freaking out about that. What do I do? Do you think I'm miscarrying? What are the signs of a miscarriage? I don't want to lose my baby and I'm scared. (link)
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NO I READ YOUR QUESTION JUST FIND U SAID YOU DINT KNOW IF U WERE HAVING A MISS CARRIGE AND I TOLD U WAYS OF CHECKING IF U WERE OR NOT ITS ONE THING TO ASK FOR ADVICE BUT DONT ACT STUPD WHEN YOU DONT HERE WHAT U WANT LEARN TO USE A CONDOM!
And u need to tell your mom miscarring can kill u and spotting is a sign of that if you loose to much blood you can helmerage and die! U need to go to the ER and have them check hcg levels if there going up your good if there going down not so good! Also your mom would rather have you and a baby in this world then not have you at all!! Tell her before its too late!
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My second toe isn't longer than my big toe, and neither is my middle (or third) toe. They are both shorter than the big toe. My cousin and all of her family members have long second toes. She said my toes aren't formed right since the second once is shorter. Am I going to have problems because my second toe is shorter, is there any way to fix this, and how abnormal is this trait? thanks (link)
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its prefectly normal.
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Me and my boyfriend wanna have sex now. WE don't have any condoms and Im not on the pill but we're sooo horny for eachother. If we have sex in the shower could I still get pregnant? We talked about it and it's like the water is gonna wash away the sperm fluids and yeah then you can't really get pregnate right? Is it safe to shower w/a guy like this? (link)
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Sex is sex. Millions of millions of sperm cells are released to increase the chance of atleast one getting to the egg. So washing isn't going to really help, as toucan still get pregnant. Just buy some condoms, they're alot cheaper than taking care of a baby :)
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im 16yrs old from the US and i want to move to scotland UK by my self. i dont know anyone over there so ill be totally alone. i heard you can get your own apartment over there at 16. im just wondering how whats it like over there. would there be any problems with the law and my age since im US to UK. i figured id get a minimum wage job. just wondering how old were you when you moved out, did you go far? just any info you can give me on this subject. (link)
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I'm from the uk- England, not Scotland. I have friends who have moved out at 16, and it is possible. It will be hard though. Getting a minimum wage job is easier said than done in the uk, with the economic troubles the uk faces. I think minimum wage for a 16 year old is £3.57 an hour, which is USD terms is $5ish. It will be hard to find a job, then find a flat (apartment) to suit your needs. Then you will have to pay your rent, tv lisence, any insurance, food and drink, clothing, bills, and loads more!
My friend pays £200 a month for a flat, he gets a bedroom, kitchen, and bathroom. That's just for the flat. It really depends on where you go in Scotland e.g. Edinburgh will be more expensive than Glasgow, which will be more expensive than a small town.
You may also find t hard to enter the UK because you have no steady job. The best bet is to look at the Scottish governments website, and other websites about moving to the uk from the US, just google them. :)
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It doesn't happen very often but I was just sitting here then all of a sudden my bottom lip got hot, then a little sore then a bump appeared. It's gone already which is like 5 minutes later. Any ideas on why this happened or what it could have been? (link)
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its herps... go get checked before it spreads to your upper lip area too.
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so all my friends have already had sex, and me, well, i havent. im scared its gonna hurt and such. i have a very low pain tolerance. its beyond low. anyways, i feel like im uncomfortable with my body. im comfortable with it, i just dont know if im comfortable with anyone else seeing it. i really love my boyfriend and when its the right time, i wanna do it for the first time with him, but i wanna make sure im comfortable. is there anyway to do this? and is there any explanation for the way i feel? (link)
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Well every feels slightly uncomfortable with their body- nobody is perfect. The fact of the matter is that if your boyfriend loves you, it doesn't matter whatyour body is like, like you said, you are comfortable with t, so that's all that really matters.
To make sex less painful- you should spend quite a bit of time on foreplay. Which is before sex- stroking, kissing, licking etc. Fingering yourself will stretch the opening, and will make sex less painful. Start with one finger, then two, then three. Do it slowly and use plenty of lubrication. Also your boyfriend can try and finger you also.
Hope I helped :)
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I drink LOTS of water on a daily basis but I remain thirsty all the time.In the middle of the night,I wake up and drink almost a bottle of water only to wake up an hour later with dry mouth and very thirsty.I do eat salty things ,but this happens almost every night and every day that I am this thirsty. I don't smoke weed, I don't do any type or drugs or drink or anything. My mom told me that diabetes runs in our family and that this may be a sign of it,yet I haven't been seeing any other signs except maybe I've been a lot more tired recently. Should I see a doctor? Should I cut out salt? What else could be the cause of this? Thanks very much! (link)
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Of course you should see a doctor. Tiredness may be a sign of diabetes, and if there's a family history of it, the chance of you having it may be high as it can be passed on.
Although water is good, drinking TOO much can be bad for you, and so a simple doctors visit will enable you to find out what is really wrong. After all, why risk it?
Hope I helped :)
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I am wanting to go as April O'Neil for Halloween, and I can't seem to find a Jumpsuit to buy...I have tried Thriftstores, Ebay, Google, but I can't seem to find any...does anyone know of any other sites that would be a good place to look? Thanks!
http://www.yorkblog.com/flipside/april.jpeg
http://costumepop.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/08/ninja-turtles-april-oneil-costume.jpg (link)
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im afraid the only yellow jumpsuit i can find is the Kill Bill one?
Its on amazon, just type in yellow jumpsuit. Maybe you could make one with yellow fabric? Or just buy a kill bill one and alter it? Or just change your costume idea?
Hope i helped :)
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after you bite your tongue is there any way to make that pain go away faster? the pain isn't like unbearable but it hurts and i want it to stop hurting. i dont want to go to the doctor. i bit my tongue like 20 minutes ago when i was eating. i bit the tongue hard and like in the middle or something. can i put neosporin on it or oragel and fix it or what from the pain? (link)
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well i assume this problem has been solved. I dont assume it still hurts? Not after 3 days anyway. For next time, apply ice to it. For a more fun alternative, have a popsicle or ice cream or something. The tongue is one of the fastest recovering parts of the body, so should be okay.
hope i helped :)
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I woke up with this sore bump on my bottom lip. I know I didn't go to bed like that. I guess it's a pimple. How can I get rid of a bump on my lip? Fast? Thanx (link)
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is in inside or outside? ive never seen a lump on the outside. If its inside, and its tough, its probabaly a cyst. Surgery will get rid of it.
Perfume etc being dabbed on a pimple usually gets rid of it, as the high alcohol content kills the bacteria.
Hope i helped :)
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Ok maybe I'm. Not explaining my self to people right but here's. The problem and if you don't agree then o well .I have this problem with people useing there cell phone while they are driving because they aren't awhere of what they are doing . They are paying attention to there phone not the road or the people around them and multi tasking isn't there either they will cut you off won't use a blinker to indicate that they are changing lanes or exiting .Its either they are talking on the phone or texting so I call it DWC driving with cell phone and it makes me mad almost to road rage mad and how many times do I see this ? Every day .iv been cut off so many times and iv got rear endeed once because of cell phone use the guy that hit me from behinde was texting cause I seen him in my rear view mirror and my insurance gon up because this ass hole on his cell phone .So I hate people using there phone while driving .there should be a law in texas .no phone zone everywhere and if I ws a cop I would be writting tickets like crazzy all day long. So am I wrong for this .anybody out there just let me know and for those of you that use cell phones while driving well ???? (link)
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the fact of the matter is, people are getting busier and busier. Some people may actually resort to multi-tasking i.e. Using their phone and driving. Of course anything that distracts a drivers attention is not good. When driving, 100% of people attention should be on the road. However, some people don't. In the UK, its illegal to use your phone and drive.
The key is to discourage people from multi-tasking when driving i.e. smoking, eating, drinking, phone use, etc.
Not only does it annoy people (like you and I), but it takes lives. However, i dont think you should let it get to you too much. You wasting your energy getting angry (and distracting yourself, which puts other road users at risk) will not solve the problem.
Also, The condition of other peoples' cars etc is their business. Just accept that some people like driving around in trashed up dirty cars. They are probably too busy, or too lazy to clean it or look after it. Let them deal with it.
Hope i helped :)
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I don't understand how the courts could give coustody to the mother who commetid adultry but in my case that is what happend .I never cheated on my wife .I was always faithful to her just what it said in our vouls .and to top it all off I can't even see my daughter because she has a restraining order on me .she's afraid I would take off with her and never come back .witch I would never do but its real that's what she done and I have to pay child suport 500 a month for a child I can't see .I don't understand it she's hurting me and my daughter .my daughter was real close to me dadys girl I took care of her provided for her loved her and now I'm lost without her .they say life isn't fair but do I deserve this can anyone tell me (link)
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Of course you don't deserve it. The fact of the matter is, that some judges are narrow minded, and conservative in thinking. They think that the mother is always the best parent, whatever the circumstances. Of course, this is complete bullsh*t! A Father can be just as good a parent (if not better) as a mother in some circumstances.
You may have just been unlucky in getting a judge like this. Have you tried contacting a lawyer/attorney to ask if you can appeal?
The judge may have thought 'why would someone file a restraining order if they did not feel endangered by the person'. You can try challenging this...and try and get general advice from a lawyer?
Hope I helped, and best wishes :)
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Ok I'm not quite sure where to begin but ill try to explain it the best I can you see I think I know a lot about people and how they live and the way I think and do things is better than what people do its like people are lazzy cheap and nasty and to me I'm usaly correct about it because It showes like for example when I'm on the highway and I see someone changeing lanes or exiting off the highway if there not useing there blinker I tell myself they are on there celphone and then I see them that's what they are doing they can't. Have one hand on the stearingwheel one hand with there phone glued to there ear and use there blinker they only have two hands and here's another thing I work at a carwash on one job I have 2 jobs but when people come in and have a faiely new car or truck and its like trashed I have a 15yr old truck and it emaculant and its always been that way even before I workd at a carwash working two jobs I still make sure that my ride is clean but I can tell how a person is just by looking at there ride what I'm getting at is am I just being stupid or what (link)
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Quite obviously, your English and grammar isn't good as other peoples. I ask you to re-type this question or add additional information about what your question really is. I cannot understand your question, I don't even know if there is a question there. I assume some other members will agree, so could you add some information about what your question actually is? I will then have a crack at answering it.
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First off, I just turned 14 and Im a virgin. Im trying to stay a virgin. Its not a religious thing. I just heard its better for girls to be virgins because its easier to find a husband that way. Like Im afraid if Im not a virgin, future men wont like me. When I ask guys about it, they tell me it doesnt matter and that the more sex you have now, the better Ill be at it later which makes sense but I dont know who to believe anymore.
I sort of went through puberty early so Ive dated a few guys especially older guys. When I was younger and we would kiss it was nice but I never wanted more. They would want me to kiss or touch their dick but I would always so no. When I was 12, one of my boyfriends kissed my breast which felt so good so I let guys do that which my friends say is second base. I dont think its that big of a deal so sometimes I let my guy friends kiss my breasts and sometimes they rub their dick between my breasts. Then this older guy showed me this thing his older brother told him about. He put his tongue on a very specific part of my pussy and it felt so good. I told some of my guy friends about it and they wanted to try it so we tried it and it felt good too.
Well last spring towards the end of school, my girlfriends got mad at me and told me that I was a slut. Im still a virgin so how can I be a slut???? I think their just jealous that all the guys pay attention to me and want to be over at my house.
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LOL, i hate to break it to you, but, some people may think you are a slut.
You dont need to have sex to be a slut. Taking part in sexual activity with loads of different guys can tag you as a slut. You take part in sexual activity with a wide variety of guys, both old and young, even your guy friends. I hate to say it, but this is what they are refering to. You say its not a big deal, but frankly, guys licking you out, and you offering your body out like hotcakes to guys IS indeed slutty. You cant do all that then be suprised when people call you a slut.
Either realise what you are doing is slutty, or accept the fact that people will call you a slut.
Hope i helped, and sorry if i sound too harsh. Its the truth however.
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im making treats for my bffs birthday. what should i make?i want it ti be unique. (link)
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i say you make like a basket, or hamper of little things?
For food ideas, maybe make home-made jams/jelly's?*
Or A variety of different cookies?*
Cup Cakes? Or one big cake?*
Maybe some of their favorite candy/chocolate.
A bottle or two of their favorite soda/drink?
*Theres loads of recipes online.
Hope i helped :)
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I recently downloaded the Bing toolbar. But now, every time I open a tab, the Bing search box pops up instead of my homepage. And when I click to read an e-mail the search bar shows up instead of the e-mail. How can I take this off? Or undownload bing. (link)
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to go control panel, and then uninstall programs. Find the toolbar, and uninstall it by pressing the uninstall button.
Or go on to your internet browser, click tools, then click toolbars, and then untick Bing.
Hope i helped :)
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So to day at school my friend said that i was a flamer and i asked what dose that mean she said its a dragon secret ???? i want to know what dose it mean because if i don't find out now i will be so sad because its not nice to keep SECRETS from friends :(.... BY Fatima 9\13\2010....time 8:27...P.s thx (link)
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well it can either mean your a 'flamboyant homosexual'
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someone who starts to fight or insult people on an internet forum.
You also shouldn't get worked up about people saying things about you.
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I am having a little get together at my house next weekend and I'm making a small dinner and dessert for my friends. One of my friends are lactose intolerant though. I know this means she'll probably have to skip out on dessert if I chose to make my usual things. What I'd like is some suggestions for tasty deserts that are non-dairy or lactose free? Anything at all goes as long as it's dessert and has no dairy. Thank you. (link)
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I say you can never go wrong with sorbet. It's cool, refreshing, cleanses the pallet, and easy to make. Plus you can make tons of different flavours.
There's loads of different recipes online...but it's basically just a netter of mixing fruit juice/pulp, sugar and water' freezing it, and serving. I really like orange, lemon, passionfruit, or cantaloupe melon.
Alternatively, you can make a normal desert with lactose free milk? I use lacto-free, I get it from all big stores. Or go to a speciality store who sell lactose, gluten, wheat etc free products so toucan still make your favourite deserts?
Hope I helped :)
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