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I don't really understand it, but whenever I meet a guy for the first time now, I always feel like I'm crushing on him. My heart will start beating fast, my stomach will flip, and I'll turn bright red around them. I have some guy friends, but they only became my guy friends when they excluded me from something or got girlfriends themselves. I don't know why I like everyone...Any ideas? (link)
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You are just a loving person!!! Really it's quite normal. Its hormones. They will calm down after awhile. :)
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My friend is sleeping over tonight. What are some fun things to do? P.S. We cant go out OR outside - :)
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Make some popcorn and watch either really scarey movies or really lovey dovey ones!
Gossip, Gossip, Gossip!!
Do makeovers on each other. Make yourselves look real slutty. (LOL)
Just giggle and have fun!! :)
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Okay..Theres this girl...her name is Chelsea..and shes 15 (like me). Okay..so in the begining of the year..i met Chelsea..and everything was cool. But now, shes like, been making me mad. Shes wayy wayy too clingy and stuff. I tried to hint to her that shes annoying before..but it just didnt work. Ugh. How could i tell her that i dont like her..and that shes annoying without straight out telling her that?? Thanks..i rate high for good advice!! (link)
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Just start ignoring her. If she clings move away, tell her to get out of your personal space. She will either tire of it and move away or she will stop it. Only other option is to just tell her and hurt her feelings. If the first thing doesn't work you may just have to. Good luck with it. :)
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ok my best friend jayla thinks she's pretty and acts like she the prettiest one in the world. I don't like the way she acts. Her personality I don't like. She be calling other girls ugly at one minute and then the next minute, she sees her givng someone eles candy, she(jayla)holds her hand out, and expects that girl to give her candy. Now I don't know if I should be her best friend and I don't know if I shoudl even be her friend at all. She sometimes be calling me and my friends ugly, and I hate that!!! I sometimes feel like saying something mean back. But any thing that comes out of my mouth that is mean, it sometimes goes too far over the limit. she think I forgot all the things she be syaing but I don't!! and she also don't be having my back. If I were to get in a fight, then she wuold just watch. But my other friend Cornita promises she will have my back, and she do. I like Cornita alot, not like that, but as a Best best friend forever and always. Jayla, she used to be a good best friend to me now she isn't. (link)
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Sounds like Jayla has a bit of an ego problem. She thinks she is better than you for some reason.I think you should hang out with Cornita, who seems to be a much better friend. I would ignore Jayla and maybe she will go away. Or at least figure it out that she's no better than anyone else.Next thing you know she will sit while you do all her crap work. She will only get worse if you don't make her stop it now. :)
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My dad is a jerk..we'll just start off by saying that. He and my mother divorced 5 or 6 years ago. I have two younger sisters and a younger brother. Me and one of my sisters stopped switching back and forth between my mom and dad and decided just to live with my mom, because we both STRONGLY dislike our father. My mom is a single mom, works her butt off everyday, and has to pay for EVERYTHING for anything that all four of us kids need. My dad refuses to talk to her because he thinks that my mom is just out to get money from him..but the way i see it is, why wouldn't he want to help pay for his children? Yeah, he pays child support, but he lied about his income to the judge, so we don't even know how much he is SUPPOSED to be paying. It wouldn't even be that bad if he just pitched in once in a while for things like my driver ed course, or a yearbook, or my theatre banquet ticket! But of course he doesn't.."THOSE THINGS AREN'T NECCESSARY!" ...maybe not but they still are important to me, and a good father would help pay right? Another thing is, me and my mom just found out that when they got divorced, he hid the 20,000 dollars that was in their retirement account, so 10,000 of it belongs to my mom, and that would solve SO many financial problems. My dad has been hiding this for 6 years AND he had the NERVE to get married to a lady who also had 4 children!!! HE WON'T EVEN PAY FOR HIS OWN!! HOW IS HE SUPPOSED TO PAY FOR 8 KIDS AND A WIFE?? I guess waht my question comes down to is, what do i do? How do i ask him to help pay when i know he is going to think im just trying to get money out of him, because i don't even live with him. I'm lost and angry and I wish he wasn't my dad, but he is and i have to face that. I just need to know how I should approach him with out getting my mom in trouble or myself. Please help me.
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I think it is okay for you to ask him for money for the "extra" stuff you may want like tickets and your drivers ed. stuff.
As far as his child support goes, that is between him and your mom. Your mom can go to court and get things changed. The fact that his new wife has 4 kids means nothing in a court of law. They aren't his and they do not count. So, he can't use having to pay for them as an excuse.
Encourage mom to do this. :)
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Hey im 14 and i have this friend. We have been best friends for about 4 years but this year she is being different. She is always actin realy immature and i dont realy get it. She is always saying she is soo immature and like brags about it(witch i dont get??). I want to tell her how i feel but i cant...And that is really surprisiing cause im really stright forward with people and say what i think. But if i tell her she will be the type of peoson were she is just like "ok whatever" but i kno there is still somthing wrong. SOOoo plezzz help me!! (link)
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You just have to tell her straight. Stop acting like a fool. There is a time and a place for acting goofy. If you don't say something then people are going to think she is weird! :)
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What Should A Girl Do!
Okay I have a boyfriend that I totally adore. But the thing is I like another guy. Not really that much but I still like him. And I am going to the dance with this other guy, and my boyfriend doesn’t know. I don’t really want to go with this other guy because I feel like I am doing my boyfriend wrong. And the other guy’s cousin told him when I broke up with my boyfriend I would go out with him. But you see I don’t want to. Please if you have any advice answer me. I really don’t feel like braking up with my wonderful boyfriend.
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Don't break up with the boyfriend. Go to the dance with the other guy AS A FRIEND. No need to feel guilty about it. Unless you have time to get out of it then you can if you want to. If chances are good that the boyfriend will find out, then tell him he is a friend who had no date and you got volunteered to go with him. Which is kinda true. Don't do it again though uless you're not going with your boyfriend anymore! The other guys cousin really had no business making plans for you about who you are going to date in the future. His word means nothing, so don't worry about him. If you don't want to go to the dance though don't. Tell him you can't get permission or are grounded or something. Not that I want you to lie, you just don't want to hurt his feelings either. Do I have you good and confused now? I sure hope not! :)
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Hey guys ok well .. two of my 'so called best friends' have just like .. ditched me & come up with excuses of why they hate my guts. One of my best friends [not one that hates me] i dont really know if i can trust but everything seems to be fine. But in the past we've had a number of fights and they might be like ruining our friendship. She says everything is ok though. And for my one, true best friend.. she has always stayed true but the two friends who hate me are like trying to turn her against me. I dont think they'll ever be able to though, we've been best friends for like, ever. I just want to know what I should do. Should i make more friends? Im really the shy type, so it would feel pretty awkward for me to just start talking with new people. I will appreciate ANY advice. Thanks soo much (link)
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You know what? One really great friend is worth more than a hundred others. I would make sure she knows what the others are up to (I'm sure you've already told her!) then I wouldn't worry about it any more. If you make more friends great! If you don't no big deal. :)
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okay well i guess you can say im friends with this guys named Jack and lately hes been starting to hurt me like physically!!! he punches me in the arm and when i say that hurt he tries to kiss it but i pull away! i have a boyfriend and i love him to death! i am just so confused right now! I have tried to avoid Jack, i told him to leave me alone, but he always talks to me and when i ignore him he punches or pushes me. What can i do? (link)
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You can still be friends with him. Next time he hits you slug him back...hard. :)
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hey well my best friends ehas been tryin to hook me up with guys because she thinks i am lonely when i am not but anyways she was hangin out wit her ex the other day and i was on the phone with her and then i talked to her ex 4 20 minutes and after that we have been talkin everyday except i havent seen her ex but i am pretty sure he is hot but the thing is what if he askes me out?? shetold me she does care but i dont want to take her bc it would be fucked up i think she still has some very lil feelin 4 him but she has a bf. i dont know what to do bc she has been tryin to hook me up with guys 4 a month now she has as actually gone out place got guys #s and gave them to me to talk to but i dotn. can someone plz help me i dont want to get my best friend that i ahve known for 4 years get mad at me for a dumb guy. (link)
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Tell her to hook you up with him in a kind of joking way. If she says yes then go for it. If she balks tell her your kidding. :)
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my friend called and asked me for a blank Cd and I told her I can't get her one b/c they are my brothers.She kept saying 'oh just ask him' so I said 'i can't, because i had my other friend over and we were watching a movie`I am constantly giving her stuff.i'm not even kidding. I give her clothes,i bought her lunch today(didnt even ask her to pay me back!)when i told her i couldnt she's like 'ok, whatever bye'i thought that was really rude.when people say the word 'whatever' to me i find it offensive and she hung up on me.what should i do? i did nothing wrong and just stuck up for myself... (link)
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Yes she was rude. Next time just give the phone to your brother and let him deal with her question himself. As for letting her borrow your stuff and buying her lunch...if she doesn't appreciate it don't do it any more. She will get the hint. :)
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okay so one of my friends im not too close with her but shes always had a crush on my BF. well i honestly dont kno if she still does but i kno she would talk about him alot last year and she always liked him. and this year she has been flirting alot with him ever since we've been goin out. and she acts all giggley and blushy and all that around him. or when we talk about him. how can i get her to stay away from him with out being mean? because i dont want to lose her as a friend (link)
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Tell her makes you uncomfortable when she does that since you know she had a crush on him last year. If she is smart she will knock it off so you won't be upset. :)
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Okay, I'm a pretty preppy girl. I have lots of friends, and we all are into fashion, and dressing our best. Anyway, I have a secret love, that's so far from fashion I'm afraid my friends will hate me for it. It's skateboarding. I loove skateboarding so much, and I always go skateboarding after school with all the skaters at the park and stuff. It makes me happy, I love learning new tricks, and doing all that guyish stuff. It's so weird, but I feel like I can't tell my friends. Well, now they're all getting curious about why I don't have as much time to hang out with them..and I'm starting to run out of excuses. I've only told one of my friends (whom I'm actually not that great of friends with, someone whose 'out' of my group and in a 'less known' group, but she's wonderful) who I never really thought much of, until I learned she can keep my secret. She's such a great friend, and I'm wondering why I feel like I can't tell my other 'friends' about my secret passion for skateboarding. What am I to do? Should I just come out and tell them I like skateboarding? (I don't think that any of them will take this badly, but sometimes girls can be really.. picky about things, and some of my 'friends' may ditch me because of this) Find new friends? Only tell some of them? Aghh, help!!
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You do what you want to do. If you love skateboarding I certainly wouldn't give it up or anything. Any friend who can't handle it...the heck with them! I think you should say something next time your asked what your doing after school. There is absolutley nothing wrong with it. Don't apologize for it and don't make excuses. It makes it seem like it is something wrong and it isn't. :)
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i'll be standing at my locker, waiting for my boyfriend, and my best friend comes up. well, i wanted to talk to my boyfriend about stuff, like not with her around. i want to tell her to quit comin cuz she does it everyday, but i dont want to be mean. i'd like to have some alone time with my boyfriend but SHES ALWAYS THERE. she's really getting on my nerves. what should i do? (link)
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I think you need to explain to her that you want time alone with your boyfriend. It isn't an unreasonable request. Set aside a time each day to be alone with your boyfriend and just tell her not to disturb you during that time. There is no need for her to get upset if you say it nicely. If she does then I guess she will just have to get over it. :)
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Ok, I'm really good friends with this kid mike. And he just broke up with his girlfriend and lately he's been really flirty with me. And he asked me out the other day and I'm kind of nervous about going out with him because if it doesn't work out I'm worried about if our friendship will still last. Should I take a chance and go out with him or just tell him that we should stay really good friends? (link)
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I think it is okay to go out with him. You want your boyfriend to be your best friend. Makes for a good relationship. You can still be friends if it doesn't work out. :)
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SO ONE FRIDay i was playing around with my bff's and on propse i opned that the bathroom door on one of them 9 don't ask me why i did it) & it was kinda funny, so i laughed. then i went to the bathroom and they diched me. it didn't make me mad cause thy do it all te time. i figued they were mad & figured that they would be over it by monay.they didn't. today is friday that was a week ago. i tried to write an apoige letter before i sent it she sent me a letter. it was really mean the called me a "no longerer" & cused me out.so someone went an talked to them & told them that wrote a letter but didn't send it( do u blame me) so they she worte me another letter saying they didn't want to be mad and sayed should apoliged at the beginning not know. so i still haven't sent the letter yet & i don't do. i'm really hurt & want to be their frirnd agian. they are some of their best friends i have ever had so what should i do any body have an idea please help, ask your friends,I'm desprite!!!!!
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I think you should apologize and then not interrupt and laugh again. I don't know if they will accept your apology or not, but you need to try anyway. :)
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there's a kid who wants to fight my friend and his little brother (known them for about 10years now)my friend knows i have his back but told me not to jump in if a fight breaks out. the other kid is very street and it could get ugly quick. i kno i can make a pancake out of this b*tch. im 15 years old 6'1 175(muscle i mite add) i dont want my friends geting hurt, so should i fight this kid myself or let my neighbor do it.
talking it over and going to adults doesnt work so please dont suggest that. (link)
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I think you should let him try it on his own at first. If it starts to get really ugly though and you see he's in trouble...get in there! :)
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My bbf bf and I like 2 months ago had something going while he was going with my bff well I regret that more then ever and I've been feeling guilty so then I came out and told her what type of guy he was and what had happened.Then she asked him and he said it was a complete lie and it never happened.So now she tells me I'm a lier and she can't trust me anymore and believe every word that comes out of his mouth.She has known him for a year and me 3 years.I feel bad about what I did but I don't see why he is acting like nothing happened and I'm the one stuck with the guilt.Please help me I don't know what to do! (link)
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She will find out that he is a liar one of these days. Until then I don't know what you can do. Did anyone ever see you two together? If so have them tell her about it. Other than that, I guess you just have to wait for her to come to her senses. I totally agree that she should be believing you, but love will do that to you. :)
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well the last month i have been thinking about cuttin because me and this kid nmed ryan*MY LOVE*
have been fighting. i told one of my friends and they told my school counsler. my school cons. called me down and we talked about everything.. now im seeing a theropist witch im happy about.
but the other day i cut R in my leg..and i cut 4 lines kinda small on my leg.
last night i was talking to ryan on the comptuer and he said he would die for me,he loved me,he hates kelly(his EX)
and today in his profile he put kelly-i love you.
i asked him what was up and he said i dont know.
but i have been down that rode plenty of times..when ever me and him fighting or ingoure eachother he puts that in his profile,to make me jeoulse.(he told me it was to make me jeoulse)
soo i dont no if he is lieing about the kelly thing or serouse because i wanna die i cant live my life with out him i love him so much.
but i dont no if he makes me cut,trys to get me jeoulse
should i be friends/love him?
but if i dont talk to him i see his name on my budydlist and i see him in school and dont say anything i wanna cut.what should i do? (link)
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Thank goodness you got help for the cutting. Continue working on it. What a good friend you have too.
I think that if your relationship with Ryan is that shakey maybe you need a break from it. You have enough to deal with right now and if he makes you want to cut...he isn't good for you. So, my advice is stay friends if you want to, but put the romance on hold until you get it together. :)
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i've only known my friend since this year and we became really good friends but i think shes been a terrible friend lately.If I tell her something she said she goes off saying 'omg! you're putting words in my mouth!' when other people were there to hear her say what i told her she said.i do so much stuff for her and still shes mean.i put my hair in a parted ponytail and she's like, 'i see you tried my hairstyle' i got so annoyed when she said that because why would i want to be like her! she thinks im competing with her too because i've been doing my hair nicer.I told her my parents were looking to move and she gets all pissed saying'you promised you were going to the same high school as me!' instead of getting mad wouldnt a real friend be sad?If I have a pimple she points it out like I don't already know.It seems like she goes out of her way to make me feel bad.This has just been building up and I'm tired of her and her drama. I just need some advice this girl thinks she's god and has all the answers, but I think it's all in her head.Help?!
should we still be friends?If so, how can I change her for the better? (link)
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If it were me...I'd find someone else to hang out and be friends with. I think the one you have is just a bit much!
Yes, most real friends would be sad if you were going to move. She is a very self centered little princess isn't she? If you want to be friends with her, you will probably have to learn to live with her superior attitude. If you can stand that, okay. If you can't, then nobody will blame you for finding a new friend. Good luck with your desicion! :)
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