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well the last month i have been thinking about cuttin because me and this kid nmed ryan*MY LOVE*
have been fighting. i told one of my friends and they told my school counsler. my school cons. called me down and we talked about everything.. now im seeing a theropist witch im happy about.
but the other day i cut R in my leg..and i cut 4 lines kinda small on my leg.
last night i was talking to ryan on the comptuer and he said he would die for me,he loved me,he hates kelly(his EX)
and today in his profile he put kelly-i love you.
i asked him what was up and he said i dont know.
but i have been down that rode plenty of times..when ever me and him fighting or ingoure eachother he puts that in his profile,to make me jeoulse.(he told me it was to make me jeoulse)
soo i dont no if he is lieing about the kelly thing or serouse because i wanna die i cant live my life with out him i love him so much.
but i dont no if he makes me cut,trys to get me jeoulse
should i be friends/love him?
but if i dont talk to him i see his name on my budydlist and i see him in school and dont say anything i wanna cut.what should i do?
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damn. thats rough. i know how you feel though. i think that him doing that, making you 'jealous' is just putting you down and making you feel like shit, and then you cut.
you really need to talk to him about how he does that, even though it might make him feel weird or like a bad person, you just need to let him know because then it could help you do it less, and probably stop.
and you said that he said that he would die for you and stuff...if he really cares about you that much, which is like 99.99999% true cuz guys don't just say stuff like that and not mean it...so yeah, if he really cares about you and loves you, then he would understand.
p.s. this answer is all assuming that he knows that you cut.
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Thank goodness you got help for the cutting. Continue working on it. What a good friend you have too.
I think that if your relationship with Ryan is that shakey maybe you need a break from it. You have enough to deal with right now and if he makes you want to cut...he isn't good for you. So, my advice is stay friends if you want to, but put the romance on hold until you get it together. :)
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well it sounds to me like you are putting yourself through pain over a guy who treats you wrong. there are sooo many guys out there and it sounds to me like you dont "love" ryan but you just cant let go of him. try to find someone new...who knows...you'll probably start liking him this much after a while. but if you really truly think that this ryan guy is the perfect guy for you then you DEFENETLY need to talk to him about all of this. you need to tell him how it makes you feel when he writes those things in his profile and explain to him that if that is how he truly feels then you dont need to be with him. but STOP cutting yourself over a guy..it isnt worth it..find something else to take your anger out on besides yourself. Nobody deserves that. There are too many people in the world that would love to treat you right.
i hope this helped!
-♥ Me
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u dont cut urself i promise it doesnt solve anything and u need 2 stop just let it go but pleazzzzzzzzzzzzzzz dont cut urself its not healthly
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Please do not cut. Nothing is ever so bad that you need to cause physical pain to yourself.
As far as fixing this situation you and Ryan need to sit down and have a one on one talk about everything that is going on in your life. Tell him that you need him more than life itself and that you want to be with him for as long as possible.
When you talked to him last night, did you respond to what he said? Or did you just sit there and say ok. Because if you told him that you felt the same then he has no right to be putting "I love Kelly" in his profile.
Overall I think you just need to talk everything over with him. Hope I helped.
~*~*~Ren~*~*~
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love him if he love you. It soud like he really love you and want to go with you. so.... Man I dunno!!!!!
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First cutting is a very very bad thing. I used to cut and I know how it feels to want to cut but cutting can become addicting and you should really try to stop. I'm sure that your therapist will be happy to help stop doing that because it is very dangerous.
As for your boyfriend. If you love him then you can't help that. No one can really say no you shouldn't love and you can't just say well you make me jealous and want to cut so I don't love you anymore. I'm sorry but it just doesn't work that way. Try talking to him about it. Tell him that it really hurts you when he says that he loves another girl in his profile just because you two are fighting. If he knows that you cut then tell him that when he does that it makes you want to do that and hurt yourself. If he doens't know about it then maybe you should tell him. Tell him that sometimes you cut yourself because he hurts with what he says. Hopefully that will make him realize what he is doing to you and stop. But you really need to stop cutting.
Good luck and I hope things get better for you
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