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ok i get this report about how i do in school each week. and when i 1st started getting it my dad said that if i get ONE bad thing on it than i am grounded for the whole weekend...no phone. no computer. no friends. no tv. no music. and then something bad was on it and i really dont wanna b grounded this weekend so i told him i forgot it somewhere and that i cant find it so he told me that he wanted to see it on monday and i was free this weekend but he said that if i forget it on monday or if its bad than i get grounded for 2 weeks...and in the next two weeks ill be going to 6 flags and the kiss concert so i dont know what to do because i dont know if he would take those 2 things away from me because he payed for them both..what should i do? be free for this weekend and have a good time like a plannned?? or risk being grounded for 2 weeks..but then again he might forget..please answer! soooon! ill rate. (link)
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He won't forget! I suggest you "find" the lost report and get it over with this weekend. Then you can enjoy the park and concert. :)
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I feel emontionally unable to control my self at times . Im only 15 and I have to go throught menopause. I very stressed and I just wanna give up. My bf wants me to change a part of myself for him (stop datting girls) but i dont even have enough feeling for that him and im a female. Im really need to stop doing overdose and im going to cut myself. What shoud i do? (link)
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Seek help from a doctor. You need to get help before things get worse for you.
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There's this guy a year older than me (which is a big deal for 13 year olds) and he REALLY likes me. I don't like him, but he's nice to talk to. We see each other at drama twice a week and on my friend's bus once a week. He's always flirting MAJORLY with me. He also ate something that I already licked. Im afraid he'll ask me out and I don't want to go out with him or break his heart because he's a cool acquantince (sp?), but i don't like him. (link)
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Why not? If he's nice to talk to why don't you give him a chance? He might be really nice. You don't have to go out with him more than once.
If you really don't want to give him a shot, then simply say no. :)
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If someone has genital herpes and drinks or shares food with someone else.. can the person who drank out of the other persons drink spread it to whoever else drinks it? (link)
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No, not genital herpes. Maybe your getting it confused with a canker sore, which is also a herpes virus that you can get on your lip or the inside of your mouth. If that is the case then I wouldn't drink out of the same cup. :)
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well i was wondering how do i tell my mom that i'm ready to have sex? i'm 15 and female (link)
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hmm, I think she really would rather you tell her than not. She probably still won't like the idea...you know mothers!
I guess if you've been seeing someone for a while you just tell her that while you may not run right out and have sex, that you do want to be prepared in case it happens. That way she doesn't automatically invision you having sex every time you go out the door! Tell her that you still plan on using condoms to help protect against STD's. Be really mature in your approach of the subject.
I think if you have an oppoturnity to take her out for a mother daughter day of shopping and lunch that would be nice. Kinda be on neutral territory. You could discuss it over lunch. Maybe tell her you're having feelings for this guy and you want to be prepared. Ask her opinion,treat her as you would a friend and not a mother. Tell her you value her opinion etc. Just be very mature, as I mentioned before. Make her feel like you really want her approval. Discuss diffrent methods of birth control. Ask which she thinks is the best. You get the idea. Just tell her you would like for the two of you to have a day out together alone. No siblings or anyone but the two of you. Make a date of it.
It will be difficult at first to get the talking going, but once you do, hopefully she will make you feel comfortable talking to her. You can do it at home too, I just think going out will make it more special. Anyway, I sure hope it helps. I wish you the best of luck and hope your day out turns out to be a great one. :)
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My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex and I just had my period. I usually have it for 4 or 5 days but I only had it for 3 this time. The first two days it was very heavy. I had to change my tampon (regular absorbancy) every hour. Thats a lot for me but still it was only heavy like that for 2 days .. Im really nervous. I just want to know if u guys think I could be pregnant. I dont feel any different at all.. no stomach aches or dizzieness. Please help.. I rate high! (link)
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Pregnancy won't just stop your period after a couple of days. If you don't get it next month AT ALL then you may have something to worry about. Don't have unprotected sex. There are a lot od diseases out there that a permenent and some that will kill you. That is besides the worry about being pregnant. :)
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i cut and my friend are asking alot of questions about my cut and i feel really bad about lying to them but i dont no what to do (link)
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You stop the cutting. If you don't they will find out about it. If you can't stop, tell you mom and see a doctor before it gets worse.
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my dog is 6 months old and recently she started having seizures... shes reallyplayful and all that... but the past week ive been scared to death for her... weve already been to the vet and they said to take her off this certain medicine for fleas/mites... idk...and it scares me so bad... what do u think is wrong? and what do you think could helP? (link)
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If thats what the vet says then it is probably good to try it. Could be the bee man too. I have a dog who has seizures. Its pretty scary but it won't kill her. They did give him seizure medicine but it gave him a bad attitude so I don't give it to him. He does okay, just has a seizure now and then. So, whatever the case she will probably do okay. :)
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well i had these two friends and they are trying to make me and my really good friend to fight. what should I do? (link)
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Dump the two friends. One good one is worth more than 2 trouble makers anyday. :)
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My mom is bananas.
She doesn't listen to me. Ever. Like, for example, today, I asked her to pick me up a block away from school. She was standing RIGHT out front, so I told her how appalled I was at her behavior and she cancelled my manicure. Her excuse was 'You have a friend'. Yeah, a friend that I carpool with every day.
I always get in trouble, and this summer is going to be full of fun, so i need ways to deal witht his. Thanks! (link)
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My kids never had a problem with me picking them up from school so, I don't understand why you care? Maybe you should treat her more like a friend. It may just make your life easier. :)
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OK, well, my BEST friend has a boy friend and I am absolutley in LOVE w/ this boy. PLUS, my bf, doesn't at all treat him good at all. She doesn't talk to him, whenever he looks or goes to hug her she is just like "GO AWAY" or "DON'T LOOK AT ME"
But, we flirt a lot, and she doesn't care, but I don't want to ruin their relationship if he starts to like me. TO TOP IT OFF: my OTHER best friend just admited to me that she has liked him for a long time. And I know he likes me, even a little bit
WHAT CAN I DO TO GET THE GUY, BUT KEEP THE FRIENDS?!
*STRESED AND CONFUSED*
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I'm afraid that would be an impossible thing to do. If he decides he wants to date you a decision would have to made. Boy or friends. One of them might forgive you, I don't know if they both wouold. :)
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i am a 15 year old female and,there are these prople that say that my boyfriend
is cheating on me but, i know that he is not because he talks about me all the time . He tells every one that he loves me. and he gets mad when other boys look at me . so please help me i am going crazy .
Love always barby......
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There is this saying that says believe nothing that you hear and only half of what you see.I think it is a good one! Don't listen to other peoples comments. They may have ulterior motives. :)
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i am suppost to go to this party tonight with a couple of my friends. this guy i know wants me to go so i can hear his band play. But most of the people there ((except for like 6 people)) i dont really know very well, and dont really like to much. I kinda want to go but wat if the think "why is she here?" so should i go? and the guy is gunna ask me out there, and i kinda wanna say yes, and i kinda wanna say no.. wat should i say? Ill Rate! (link)
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I don't think people will wonder why your there. If they happen to ask tell them you are there because 'whoever' asked you.
If you like the guy then go out with him. If you don't then don't.If your reasons for saying no are good ones then i'd lean in that direction. If you are just scared...thats normal, go for it. You don't have to go out with him again if you don't enjoy his company. :)
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hey it is nikki okay me and my ex boyfriend have been broke up for 3 weeks and actually a month today. anyways we are always kissing and holding hands hugging and stuff like that. well this morning in first period he told me he loved me and that i was the only girl he cared alot about, well he knows i love him and i have told him i loved him and he replies back "i love you too and yes i do want to go back out with you too" well we both want each other back. well after lunch see i was jealous of my best friend monica and she likes him and he liked her, but i told him that if he dated her that i would never talk to him ever again. so he told me that he wasn't going out with her and that he knew me longer and he wanted to remain friends, so i made a big deal out of it and i told monica that you don't date your best friends ex boyfriend or girlfriend and she was like " your gonna have to move on get over it, well i threaten to kick her butt if she did. so jeremy found out about it and now all of us are straight. then after lunch he ignored me well wasnt really ignoring me but he just walked off with monica didnt even say hey or bye tro me, well anyways um back to the first part well we act like we go out but without a title you know so the question is how can i get him back? ui mean he wants to go back out with me and he has had a month to think about it and i understand why it takes so long. see the reason we broke up was because i cheated on him. i kissed another guy and i wasnt myself today i had went to my friends house and i was messed up but how can i get him back plz help
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Sounds like he may like Monica. If he didn't before, your threatening her made her more attractive to him. I think this relationship has been destroyed by your behavior. Sorry.
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female,16....Hi im elena and i was woundering, My friend and i were in the park one day and we ended up making out.. The next day at school he didn't talk to me or even look at me.. He told his cousin that he liked me and he liked what happend but he wont talk to me. IS there something wrong or am i just freeking out? (link)
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You aren't, he might be! Sounds like it may have been a little more than he anticipated. I think you need to talk to him personally about it. Find out whats going on in his head. It may be that he wasn't ready for that or he may have found that it isn't what he wanted after all. You need to find out from him though and not his friends. :)
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hello im a 13 year old girl and my boyfriend is 15 and a half well ill be 14 soon but any ways.. he wants to have kids i want to but i still think im too young if i wasnt in school then i think im for it b ut i dont know i need some advice. (link)
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oh good grief.:(
Does he have a job? Prenatal and hospital bills will cost thousands of dollars. Plus since you are under 18 you will be considered a high risk pregnancy and will need to see a specialist add a few thousand more.Excellent paying job a must.
Then of course you need somewhere to live. Will have to be a slum area since minumum hour job is all he'll get most likely at his age. Good paying jobs can't carry insurance for those under 18 so will have to live in slum awhile.
Then you'll need electricity so you can have lights. Maybe a tv or stereo if one of you currently own one. Won't be able to buy one...no money. Figure 200 a month to be safe.
You will need water. Nothing worse than smelling bad. May also want to cook something and do dishes.Which is another thing you'll need. Dishes and pots and pans. 50 for water. 100 for kitchen stuff from dollar store.Broom, mop,towels,soap oh, you'll need to save quarters for laundry too.
Not all homes are all electric. May need gas for heat and possibly the water heater and cookstove.
Figure maybe 100-200 a month.
Won't be able to afford cable, internet, phone or any of that.
Groceries. Ramen Noodles are 10 for a dollar a lot of times. If thats all you buy, you'll be able to get by pretty cheap until babe arrives.
Does he have a car? Will need one of those. Then you have upkeep. Gas, Insurance, Tires,antifreeze,power steering fluid,brake fluid, transmission fluid...can probably do without the window washing fluid. And oil, can't forget that for cripes sake! Hope it doesn't break down because there you have hundreds of dollars to fix it.
Won't be able to afford any new clothes so take care of what you have now.
Then here comes that baby. Diapers...probably close to 50 bucks a week. Formula probably more than that. He/she will have to have their own doctor. Will need shots and all. figure at least 100 dollars a visit.
You won't have to worry about any entertainment, won't be able to afford that. Besides you have a baby (who's probably screaming its lungs out) to take care of. Your friends will visit at first. But, sooner or later they are going to continue with their lives. Won't have time for you and your staying home all the time.
Hope your love can get you through the stress. Don't depend on mom and dad to help you out. They raised their kids, they don't need to raise yours too.
Sound a little wild? I didn't touch on half of it. It probably sounds about as ridiculous as your idea. That thing rattling around inside your head...Thats a brain (or reasonable facsimile) use it will ya....sheesh. :)
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my best friend's step dad never really like my friend but he put up with her and yesterday he told her she better go live with her real dad or he will kill her and my best friend went to me and shes scared, her mom deosnt know about this but her mom is having twins and never belives anything my friend says becuase she is very stressed and she would live with her real dad but he is fighting in iraq at the time i luv her so much and i dont want her to get hurt but i dont know what to do. (link)
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I think she needs to tell someone of this mans threats. Does she have a grandparent, Aunt or uncle close by? If all else fails then she needs to tell mom. If mom has proven herself to be on the steps dads side in the past she probably won't do anything. She needs to find an adult to listen to her and get her out of a potentially dangerous situation. When her dad gets home I think she should go there. Is dad remarried? She might ask step mom about it if they get along. Maybe she would help for her dads sake. :)
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i told one of my friends who i like and i told her to keep it a secret and she told a whole bunch of people and i got mad at her and she wants me to forgive her but im starting to hate her cause shes kinda stuck up but i dont want to hurt her feelings what should i do (link)
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She wasn't to concerned for your feelings was she? But, it is good that you are a nicer person than she is. I think you need to let her know that you can no longer trust her with anything. If you want to remain friends that is up to you. I wouldn't tell her anymore secrets though because she is untrustworthy. :)
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Okay so there is this girl at my school who I think I might like..she is really good at everything she does, there is just one problem. We don't really like each other at all. She thinks I'm rude and over-obsessed with grades and I think she is occasionally a self-absorbed vindictive roller coaster. I sort of want to get things on a good level with her before the school year ends, any advice? (link)
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Don't be rude? Could work. :)
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ok, so i'm gonna b going to a boarding school next year, and i'm leaving my school to a different state, but my parents are still going to live in the town i live in right now. i have this friend sara, who i have become really close to since i moved here 3 years ago. she's really nice and fun in her way, but unlike me, she's not really all that socially outgoing. when i told her i was moving, she started changing wants to do everything with me. school projects, sleepovers, hang outs...everything! she's even starting to befriend my other more "popular" friends who she doesn't even like all that much. It took me really hard work to get to the social position i am in today, and when she's all around my more popular friends they think i'm weird for liking sara. I don't mind having sara by me all that much, but it's just that making her embarrass herself infront of the popular crowed i'm in and sticking by me is starting to get me really pissed off! i can't just say "hey, i understand your feelings but i need my own space," because she's very emmotional. wht should i do? help! (link)
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I guess if social position is what you live for you dump your friend sara (who is probably going to miss you).
If its not so important then you give sara some attention, maybe help her make other friends since you won't be there for her next year. True friends are very hard to come by. Social ones are a dime a dozen.
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