i am a 15 year old female and,there are these prople that say that my boyfriend
is cheating on me but, i know that he is not because he talks about me all the time . He tells every one that he loves me. and he gets mad when other boys look at me . so please help me i am going crazy .
***DORK*** answered Sunday May 8 2005, 4:40 pm: hey, have you talked to him?? if you havent that is a good idea. If you have and he wasnt very convincing then maybe you should start doing some undercover crap, lol good luck!! ~~peace~~ [ ***DORK***'s advice column | Ask ***DORK*** A Question ]
ad0rkable answered Saturday May 7 2005, 11:16 pm: You should straight out ask him if he's cheating on you. That way you know for sure if he is or not.
oneandonly345 answered Saturday May 7 2005, 2:41 pm: well just ask him .. be like hey , there has been some talk . are you cheating on me. and what ever he says.. believe him.
thats all you really can do.
best of luck
jay // * [ oneandonly345's advice column | Ask oneandonly345 A Question ]
VanityScore answered Saturday May 7 2005, 11:10 am: The only way you can figure this out without actually SEEING him cheating is to ask questions about these people: like Are they friends? Do they have a history (or are hoping for a future) with your boyfriend? Are they an honest sort of person?
Then ask yourself some questions about your boyfriend: Do you think he'd lie to you? Does he check out other girls? What were his past relationships like?
Once your done asking yourself this stuff, (among other questions) you should be able to figure out what to do... if not, ask me.
Also, just because he says that stuff, doesn't mean that he is in love with you, or wouldn't cheat on you. Maybe it was a mistake, and he's afraid you'll break up with him. He could really love you, and you should be able to trust your boyfriend... but that's pretty much only idealistic now. [ VanityScore's advice column | Ask VanityScore A Question ]
ThugGirl041790 answered Friday May 6 2005, 2:38 pm: huh mmmmm this one is kinda tuff.. people could be bullshittin and sayin he doin that so they can get between your relationship so dont let that happen cause people can ruin a good relationship and you both lose what you have... just find out for yourself not by other people.. Yea if you do find out he is you will feel dumb for not listening to them but so what you should have trust for your boyfriend.. much luv dez x0x0 [ ThugGirl041790's advice column | Ask ThugGirl041790 A Question ]
SwEetLiLseXy16Xo answered Friday May 6 2005, 1:10 pm: hey hun! i get this all the time and me and my bf have been tg for almost 2 years.. people just say it because they are jealous of you. i would truly believe my bf until i had complete proof that he cheated on me. i dont think you have anything to worry about if he says he loves you as long as he treats you good your good to go just tell the other people to shut up. WOW i hate jealousy!!XoXo!
karenR answered Friday May 6 2005, 12:24 pm: There is this saying that says believe nothing that you hear and only half of what you see.I think it is a good one! Don't listen to other peoples comments. They may have ulterior motives. :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
girlygirl answered Friday May 6 2005, 12:09 pm: Trust and honesty is the best part of a good, healthy relationship. Those other people are jealous and trying to upset you. Go with your heart until real facts tell you otherwise. [ girlygirl's advice column | Ask girlygirl A Question ]
Brittanie_Lov_Landon answered Friday May 6 2005, 11:38 am: Well, Candice, I think you should listen to your heart. If you really love him and trust him don't listen to what others say. I've been there done that.
Van_10 answered Friday May 6 2005, 11:28 am: hi there,
first of all poeple saying that your boyfriend could be cheating could just be hearsay, you know trying to break you and your boyfriend up which isnt the right thing to do. even if he talks to you all the time the question you need to be asking yourself is is he with you all the time? have you got proof?
well i think everyone deserves a second chance get the proof first then you can decide if your love is strong to last
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