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ok my little problem is...that I've had many gurlz ask me to Homecoming...I mean I got gurlz from 6 different schools asking me...and like 2/3 or 4 from each school..c im very flattered..but if I go with 1 of them the others will get really pissed..if you got any idea on what I should do or/and who I should choose..tell me

Kev

You should choose the one that asked u out first... & tell the others that she asked u out first... its only fair that u go wit her...

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ok, ive never had a dog b4 so this question may sound a bit dumb, but i dont wanna take any chances...my dog is a german shepherd and shes pregnant and my mom told me to bathe her but im not sure if i should bathe her when shes pregnant...please tell me asap! thanxxx

yeah u can bathe her... be very gentle & and make sure she doesnt slip

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hey umm when i get my period its like only 3 days it that normal? should i see a doctor?

As far as i know that is normal.... periods can last from 3-7 days... if ur concerned u should go see a doctor...

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hey well i'm really nervous about the first time i have sex. im nervous about becoming pregnant, like if the condom breaks. so i was wondering if its wrong/weird for the guy to wear 2 condoms (one on top of the other)... is that really pathetic? i know im supposed to use lube but i'm still scared so could i make him wear 2 just in case?

what these people are sayin is right... u honestly dont sound like ur ready... & u really should wait untill u get married... i know it soundz really hard... but a lotta people wait... & they are really satisfied with their lives... ur only supposed to have sex with sum1 you love... dont waste it on sum1 that might not be around a couple of months later

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ok last year i was very deressed but i never told anyone. i got over it. now im depressed again. this is serious though because i know that i can control it, but it hurts me inside. i think of killing people (no, i will never do this!!) but it wont stop. i will never kill someone, but i keep on thinking of it. my family cant afford a physcologist or anything. we are going through a tough time right now with money. i get depressed whenever i go online a lot and other tough things happen, and i just feel depressed like this at different points during the day. i want to help myself get over this. i know i can do it. please help me!

u can probably see a physcologist thru ur health insurance... talk to a counselor at school... tell them how u feel and that u want help...

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Hey I just found out that my new boyfriend was cheating on me with another gurl, Im crushed!
But last night after I broke up with him He called me alomst 6 times before I answered it.
well he said he wanted to met me on the cornor of my road well I went but he didn't show until 12:12am, Then he wanted to make out I didn't and I left Did I do the right thing?

HELL YEAH U DID THE RITE THING!!! he soundz like he only wants ass... u should stay away from him & guys like him!!!

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Alright im a guy (16)
Homecoming dance is in two weeks, but this year the girls are suposed to ask the guys.. Soooo this girl who i like a lot hadn't asked me yet, so i said yes to a good friend of mine who didnt have a date. Then the next night on the phone the girl who I really liked asked me, and i had to say no because i didnt want to ditch my friend. What can i do???

You should just go wit ur friend... cuz she did ask u first... & it wouldnt be nice if u had asked her and she dissed u for sum guy she likes... but tell that girl that u like... that u would love to go wit her... its just that she asked u first & it wouldnt be nice to diss her... tell her you'll go wit her to the next dance that comes up :)

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does anybody on here have photoshop? or paintshop pro or something where they know how to do cool things w/ pictures?? if so, could you tell me how much the programs are and how to learn the basics?? also, if you are good at these things could you please leave your column name because i would like to get a few pics spiced up if anybody wouldnt mind helping :)

I have photoshop at home... i took a class for it last year so i know how to use it... i also know how to use Illustrator and Image Ready... um i think u can download photoshop...i can help u spice up ur pics... u can IM me or leave on in my inBox

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Hey I'm 14/m and i still haven't ever kissed a girl outside my family.... I feel kinda out of place here because I'm already in high school and ive never kissed.... is there something wrong with me?

Nothing is wrong with you... a lotta guys brag about having done stuff... half of what they say isnt true... im sure there are a lotta guys that havent kissed a girl yet either... they just wont admitt it... so dont worry... ur not alone

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Okay well i am really upset because i was with my boyfriend for over 1 year and i have had enough of it yesterday. He told me that he didn't love me and that i don't know anything about love and he called me a bitch and childish! I love him with all my heart and it hurts me so much that i am not with him anymore, i broke up with him because i couldn't take it anymore. So after that i came in to my room and sat down at my computer and i started to break down crying and i think i had a mental break down. He said it would be better for me and him if i would treat him like a boyfriend and if i would grow up more. So i guess i am asking, how do i do those two things.

-Katie-

First off it wasnt rite for him to call u a bitch... and u really dont need to be with sum1 like that... but if u really wanna stay wit him... ask him HOW u are acting childish... and what he would like u to do differently...

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Hey guys im a 15 f. At nite it takes me like 45 mins to fall asleep. i have no clue why but its SO frustrating. Neways.... i was just wonderin if u guys had any tricks to fallin asleep (besides counting sheep) that could help me. Thanks so much!

Take benedryl...

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i have a girlfriend were both very happy but my ex girlfriend is back in town and wants me back. i said no. and i have a girlfriend and she flipped and has been stalking me ever since..im afraid it will become dangerous and she ends up hurting my girlfriend. im totally lost what should i do?

Tell ur girl to watch out for her... & if she keeps bothering u tell ur parents, ur girls parents, & ur x girls parents... you've moved on & she needs to learn to get over it

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anyone have idea`s when there stressed.. or shitty mood and feel blahh how to cheer up.
any thing im out of ideas..

Talk a nice relaxing bubble bath... Call a friend that usually cheers u up... go shopping

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Hi, i'm 13 years old and i'm a girl. I like this boy but he is taken already, By one of my friends. I really like him and i want to tell him but how can i without my friend not finding out?

You cant... one way or another shes gonna find out... & when she finds out shes not gonna be happy... do what you wanna do based on what u think is more important... this boi... or u & ur friends friendship

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Ok i know this isnt the sexiest thing people have to say on here, lol, but im a girl and no matter how much i brush or how many times i use mouth wash my breath smells 10 minutes later, i know its gross. Mints and gum fade away and dont last i want something that will keep my breath fresh, could there be something wrong here?

use Listerine mouthwash twice a day... ooo and try Extra Polar Ice Gum... & if that doesnt work
u might have Chronic bad breath aka halitosis. This is caused by germs that are found in the baQ of your mouth where your brush cant reach. Try using a tongue scraper. You can get that from your dentist or you can get it over the counter... Its like a squeegee it scrapes and wipes off bacteria from places that ur brush cant reach...

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Last weekend , iwent to my moms house and from there i went to this guy named harry's house. Well he was sick and i guess i stayed around him alot so i think i caught we he has had. We didnt share dirnks or whatever,but like i have the worse throat pains and sinus problems let alone bad headaches and stomach as well.He says he had bronchitus ,but do you think i could've got it as well ? each day it gets worse.

YES... GO TO THE DOCTOR... ASAP... u could get asthma if u dont do sumthing about it... the sooner u go the sooner u will get better

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I have a best friend. He is going to be 18 and im only 15 and 1/2. I fell madly in love with him but my parents say hes too old for me. So no one knows I love him as more then a friend. I dont know if i should tell him, he might not return the feeling. even if he does return the feeling, theres my parents. so should i not tell anyone?

You should def tell him... yeah he may not return those feelings... but ur not gonna knO unless u tell him... dont worry bout ur parents... once ur 18 ( which will come sooner than u think ) they cant do anything about it

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okay so im a prep. Its my style. But some really big bitch that tries to be 'gangster' and trust me i have no problem with the people who are true gangster, rips on me and my friends. Not that i should let her bother me every1 knows shes a whore, but what can i say back to her when she leaves bitchy things while im on away message.. like for xample shes like yahh you think your hot with your skinny ass and your no thighs and no boobs? Like wtf everyone knows im short but i do have an ass and boobs thank you, maybe not the biggest but pretty damn average, wtf is wrong with her and wtf do i do not to start a huge fight but to get her back?? or maybe give me good thoughts to ignore her?

I think u should str8 up ask her what her problem is... why does she feel this way about u... see what she says... if she says sumthing stupid & keeps givin u BS... just say im not gonna let you get to me... ur just being ignorant... & than block her... if she tries to talk to u in school ignore her...

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im the biggest nerd in the school and i need help. people make fun of me at school, i have like no friends.I go home and i wanna kill myself.I sit alone at lunch and averyone laughs at me, help.

honestly... i dont understand y this is happening to u... at my school everyone has sum1 to sit with at Lunch whether they r considered popular or not... i think u should try to find sum friends that have the same interests as you... talk to them... invite them over... invite them to go out... & trust me U R NOT A NERD... if u really feel that bad bout urself feel free to IM me... & we can talk about it ...

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i used to b kinda average looking and then i became prettier (not trying to b conceited) and now alot of guys like me. i guess im also taking attention away from other girls who are used to getting attention. now all these bitches are starting rumors and calling me a slut and saying allll this other shit. what should i do

laugh in their face... u knO they onli reason they are starting shit is cuz they r jealous and wish they had what u have... dont take it negatively be happy about it...

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