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Help!!!!
im the biggest nerd in the school and i need help. people make fun of me at school, i have like no friends.I go home and i wanna kill myself.I sit alone at lunch and averyone laughs at me, help.
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Aww, sweetie, just try not to be so hard on yourself. And you don't want to die! You have too much to live for. Don't let those immature kids who make fun of you, get to you, they know it gets to you, so that's why they make fun of you even more. They're just very immature and sooner or later they'll by pass that stage. But, you need to act like you don't care when they make fun of you because when they see you don't care, they should stop and soon pick on someone else. That's how they do it, I've seen it happen. And I hate when kids pick on other kids. But, just try to talk to the nicer people, the people you know that won't make fun of you. Just be friendly and outgoing. Just try holding a conversation with some of them. Like at lunch, just go up to them and smile and be like "Hey, is anyone sitting here? Do you mind if I sit here?" Just say something like that. I hope this helps and just try to be positive hun and smile. If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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just try and talk to some people maybe even change the way you dress and wear make-up if you dont ...be more social but be yourself still!! ..people will notice
~hope i helped~
<33 hannah
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ok...just stay calm and dont kill urself over kids in ur school. just act happy and bubly around people and be nice. if ur nice to people and have a nice sence of humor then there is no reason why they should make fun of u. also try laughing at urself. if its a teasing type thing//try taking it as a joke? it might help. another tip is try ignoring them...i no its hard but school is school and ur there to learn and become sucsessful. not to be the most popular person in school...i no u might want to make firends..but i would suggest starting slow..just be firendly and be nice..it always works!!or u can try joining a team at ur school...a lot of the time u make friends form people on ur team!
I will be ur firend?:)
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Hun, no need to kill yourself of people that act stupid. You can't take your life into your own hands just because other people are stupid. Just be yourself at school because if people don't like you for yourself, they aren't worth being your friend. Don't try to change your style or how you talk/act, you have to be yourself no matter what. If you aren't comfortable with your style, try dressing a little differently. Be funny and smile a lot. People tend to come to people who are always smiling, rather then ones who are always down and unhappy. If you need more advice, just leave it in my inbox.
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well try dressing different chance your whole apperance!!..and once you do that try to make friends...and show them that your jus different...ok hope i helped rate mii...
* l0vin da rain x3 *
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honestly... i dont understand y this is happening to u... at my school everyone has sum1 to sit with at Lunch whether they r considered popular or not... i think u should try to find sum friends that have the same interests as you... talk to them... invite them over... invite them to go out... & trust me U R NOT A NERD... if u really feel that bad bout urself feel free to IM me... & we can talk about it ...
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I think you should find God, join a church or youth group, or do something where you are accepted amongst everyone. I am really sorry that you go through this. people are harsh... i don't know if you are religious or not, but just remember, Jesus loves you more than anything in the world!
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Hey~You just have to be yourself and even if things get to the worse, you can't kill yourself. I know it is hard but you have to remember that things will get better! I don't want to tell you how to act and stuff like that, but maybe you should change the way you look and speak up more and try to be a funny person, everyone likes a funny person! If you find just one good friend then your off to a good start and sit with them at lunch, that person will have friends so that way you can start to hang out with them.
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