|
i don't know what to do...
Okay well i am really upset because i was with my boyfriend for over 1 year and i have had enough of it yesterday. He told me that he didn't love me and that i don't know anything about love and he called me a bitch and childish! I love him with all my heart and it hurts me so much that i am not with him anymore, i broke up with him because i couldn't take it anymore. So after that i came in to my room and sat down at my computer and i started to break down crying and i think i had a mental break down. He said it would be better for me and him if i would treat him like a boyfriend and if i would grow up more. So i guess i am asking, how do i do those two things.
-Katie-
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
You want to grow up? I have a suggestion for the first step to take. FORGET THE JERK. He is an abusive piece of crap, from what I can see. You deserve to be treated better than that. Real men talk things out with you in an adult manner, they DO NOT insult and belittle you and offer ultimatums. You need to forget this loser and go find a man that will treat you right. THAT is what a mature woman would do at this point.
BTW - What does he mean "treat him like a boyfriend?" The best boyfriends and husbands are your best friend. You don't have to "treat" them like anything but love them, respect them, and enjoy their company. Do not waste another moment of thought on this jackass!
]
First off it wasnt rite for him to call u a bitch... and u really dont need to be with sum1 like that... but if u really wanna stay wit him... ask him HOW u are acting childish... and what he would like u to do differently...
]
Well show him you love him, don't just tell him! Take him to suprise dinners, give him little presents every now and then, don't tell him u love him 24/7 because that makes it less special when you do say it. About the childish thing, just dont complain over little things, dont act like you're 5 all the time, and don't make a huge deal out of little things. If you already do everything I just mentioned, then maybe your boy is the one who needs to grow up! Calling you a bitch and stuff...what's more immature than that?? But I hope everything works out for you x0x0x0xx0
]
Calling someone a bitch is what is childish. If he can't accept you for who you are, then he is not the one for you. Don't ever change yourself to be with someone. You will later resent them for it.
]
More Questions: |