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Last Friday me and my friend (lets call him Joe), were cuddling on the couch. But it was big like he had his arms on my hips and everything. it was kind of cute. Anyway we've kissed once as a dare and 3 times in this game suck and blow(they play it in the movie clueless, its when you put a piece of paper to your lips and suck in that way you can hold it up and then the person sitting next to you has to get the paper to stick of to thier lips so if you drop it you kiss.). The funny thing is he kept saying he was this master and dropped it like 3 times haha. We always flirt thats a given. He said to my friend that me and him are friends with benifits are we? (link)
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If you aren't dating then I suppose that may make you friends with benefits. This isn't a good idea. If you like him, he most likely will never date you if he can get it for free...know what I mean? Even if its just a kiss. Make him commit if he wants the benefits! :)
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ok see i started goin out with this boy tony 2 days ago and my friend katie used to go out with him!! but now she has a boyfriend that she says she luvs so much!! his name is travis!! and she used to be in luv with tony(the boii i go out with)!! and everytime im around her she always talks badd stuff on him!! she tells me how he will ditch me and stuff!! everytime i tell her stuff that he says gOOd about me she always says"he doesnt mean that"! part of me thinks shes jealus! and everytime im over her house and he calls she always runs to the phone and she will never let me talk to him! and i dont think its fair cause she has a boyfriend!! i think she is madd that i go out with tony but wen i ask her she says she aint madd!! so i dont kno wat to b~leave!! can sum 1 rly giv me good advise to tell her or him!!???!? cause its breaking my hart!! ~kayla~ IM me on AIM at eckoprincess1169 (link)
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Yep, she's either jealous OR she has if I can't have him nobody can syndrome. I think your best bet is going to be to ignore and don't believe anything she says about Tony. I think next time she starts talking crap about Tony you need to tell her (politely) that you really don't want to hear any nasty comments about him. Better yet don't tell her ANYTHING about him or what he says or does. That will not only take care of her comments but will also piss her off big time. Nicely of course. :)
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I would like to first thank all of you for your advice, it has been helpful. I am showing her how my love is true, by sending her her favorite flowers, daisies, and sending her letters, only as a friend. I am scared, because she is the only one that has loved me in my entire life, and I have never loved another more, what if she ignores me completely and ignores my calls, and how I feel? Does that mean that she truly is not the one? And we were engaged. (link)
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If she ignores you then she probably isn't one you'll be wanting to spend the rest of your life with. If after all romancing she still ignores her heart is made of ice. Sorry...Hopefully that won't happen though. Much luck...:)
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This girl is flirting with my boyfriend and she is trying to break us up and I really like him and don't want him to cheat on me like my last boyfriends. HELP! I don't know what to do. I am confused. (link)
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If you say anything to her she will just continue to aggravate you. I think you should have your boyfriend tell her to stop flirting with him. :)
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Okay.. So my best friend is a guy.. and we flirt a lot, like just like play flirting and stuff, but I think I'm starting to like him as more than just a best friend, and I was wondering since we like play flirt all the time how would I know whether he was joking or being serious? Is there any way to tell whether or not he likes me like that? Thanks in advance. (link)
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Just ask him about it. The quickest, easiest way to find out. Well, maybe not always so easy to do...You will have your answer though and that's the main thing. :)
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I have a friend Luke, and I really like him. As in more than a friend. But Im not sure he likes me. So, he broke up with his girlfriend (Emma) and he really liked her. Then he hooked up with another girl (Rachel) but he didnt like Rachel at all, he was just trying to make Emma jealous an dget back with him. But it didnt work. Soon Rachel and Luke broke up, and he still liked Emma. But then he thought that she wasnt worth the effort so he stopped liking her. When we are in class, Emma keeps telling me that Luke likes me and that he's trying to get attention. But im like "Nah.." And now he's looking for another girlfriend, and asian again. All his girlfriends are asian. And guess what, he said he liked my best friend! I cant stand that...I feel like dying...i worked hard to get to him but it doesnt work...he told his frend that he thought I liked him (which is true) but I said "No i dont" because he doesnt keep secrets that well...And i wouldnt want to look like an idiot. I nearly started crying, so I went to my other group and said that they were leaving me out, and started crying, but I was actually crying because he liked my best friend. How can i make him notice me...he's my soulmate, and were really good friends. He's the perfect person. (link)
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Sometimes a guy won't see what is right in front of him. I think you need to be honest with him about your feelings and talk it out. You'll feel better once he knows. If he says he just wants to be friends...well your no worse off than you are now. :)
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ok so i like this senior. I am a sophomore. Well he wants me to get to know him like he would say little hints to me online. I also asked him for his number. Which i got, i want to call him(And i dont know what to talk to him about..!) but everytime at school he ignores me. Like he Doesnt EVEN say HI !!! Usually i talk to him on myspace but he hasnt been on for awhile. And He also has a job.. which keeps him busy.. and another problem, some of his friends dont like me, and i sorta dont like them.
Oh im also shy and so is he.
Should i just givve up.
Or
keep trying ??!!?
Btw this has been going on for about a month now.
thanks ill rate ! (link)
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There is only one thing to do. Get on your IM and ask him whats up. Find out why he doesn't talk to you at school. Ask if you and his friends not getting along affects your relationship with him....and if you even have one. He may have plans to go away to school or something and isn't wanting to get involved. You need to ask and find out. Then you make a decision on what to do based on his answers.
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my b/f nd i have only gotten into two fights. the first fight was the worst thing ever! he was upset because i said the new kid was hott (omg he was freaking amazingly hott!!) well neway, he went off and started screaming at me nd it made me cry. he found out he made me cry and he was so upset nd kept telling me that he is so sorry and that he has anger problems nd he could never hurt me. well when we went out just 2day he got mad again and started yelling in public. it really upsets me and i hate when he yells and the weird thing, is that he doesnt even realize it. his mom was telling me that his dad is a very angry person and yells constintly. my b/f tells me all the time he is working on it and he never means to yell, it just happens. how can i get him to realize that he is yelling, or how can i get him to stop? he thinks i'm afraid of him, but i'm not!! i need help, fast! (link)
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I think you should tell him to stop yelling at you or your through. There is no sense in putting up with that crap. Unfortunately his mother does...chances are if dad is that way, he's going to be too. Unless he is under a doctors care getting help I doubt he will change.
You'll just have figure out how much of it you intend to take. By the way...he knows darn well when he is yelling. :)
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I have these two guys who really likes me. One of them i met through a friend of mine who she still liked, but he started to like me and this other friens that I have. We have kind of been fighting over him. Then this other one that i have known since my freshman year in high school and his junior year. We went to the same school together and everything. We would always flirt a lot and we did talk about dateing. Then we decided that it would be better that we should just stay friends. Well, he calls the first friend that i mentioned and she mentioned that i was there. so we started talking, and old feelings came back. the friend is mad at me because she feels that i took both of the guys away from her, but for now, we have "talked" everything out. so i really am not all that worried about her, although if we do have a run in, i will listen t her and hopefully we can work things out. but the whole problem is, the second guy is in the navy and has at least another three years there and only can come back home when he has vacation or the holidays. he has this other girl that he is talking to, but i dont know if it will last between them or not if they do end up going out. he wants me to wait for him and i am really stuck on both of these guys. should i just wait for him to come back for all of this and wait it out, just to see if it is true love when he is ready, or should i just try and get the other guy back from the second friend that i mentioned becuase they really aren't dateing either? should i wait or should i let it go? (link)
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I think you don't wait for anyone at your age. Unless you are real crazy about them. You aren't or you wouldn't be thinking about the first guy.
You also don't wait until they are done with somebody else. The first guy comes with problems with your girlfriend. Since nobody has him at the moment he is up for grabs. You can't steal him from her if he isn't dating her...no matter what she may think. :)
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15/f. Okay, I like this guy, and there's been signs that he likes me too, but I'm not so sure. I met him through one of my friends one day when he picked her up from school, and she asked if I wanted a ride home. (She has a boyfriend who is his friend, so they don't go out or anything)
Well, he asked me a question and after I told him my answer he said "You're my type of girl." and not only that, he kept glancing at me in the mirror. Then one weekend in March my friend invited me to spend the night with her, and of course, he also goes to her house after he gets off work. Well, my friend decided to go to Dairy Queen, then later on the dance our school was having that night. He was flirting with me all that night pretty much, and when we were in the car he was holding my hand. Not only that, he would pinch my butt and just look at me for no reason. So yeah, I figured he liked me, lol. I didn't see him for about a month and when we were around each other he was still flirting and stuff, and everytime he leaves my friends house he gives me a hug. (One more thing, lol. One time I was there we were laying on the couch together and he had his arm around me) He also got my AIM screename and we talk from time to time, and he usually makes dirty jokes and stuff. Anyways, I saw him again this week and he was acting different around me. He wasn't so flirty as usual, but he still gave me a hug and held my hand. So I was trying to get this from another person's perspective. Do you think he likes me? He used to act like he did, but not so much anymore. So I was just trying to figure out if he still did or what. Thanks. =) (link)
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Is he your age or older? It sounds like he may like you. You may just have to come right out and ask what the deal is with him and you.
I am concerned though why he hasn't had a girlfriend in 3 years. That's a long time for a young guy to be without one. He also drives and yet he hasn't asked you out. I think he likes you but why is it he isn't pursuing it since you obviously like him? I really think you need to talk to him and ask what his feelings are. :)
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This guy named Tom and I are friends with benifits. We have only intamitly cuddled nothing serious. But now that I think about it im kind of fallnig for his best friend Greg (which might be becuase I havent hungout with Tom in a while). Greg and I are friends but we do flirt (like yesterday he kept turtle snappnig my bra hehe). The biggest problem is he likes my best friend Phoebe. What do I do? Sandy-15-f (link)
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If you talk with him enough so that he gets to know you, then maybe he'll forget all about your best friend. You also need to knock off the benefits relationship with Tom...regardless of how innocent. A lot of guys are going to consider you taken anyway, even though you aren't. :)
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Ok, so I have this major confession!! I have a boyfriend, lets call him *Bill and he is super annoying. He wont shut up!! And when he does shut up all he wants to do is to have it w/ me!!! And the thing is, I don't really like him that much cuz im in love with this boy that i met on the internet and I REALLY want to meet him but I can't!!
Thanks,
Debbi
P.s. I rate high!!! (link)
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major advice...get rid of the annoyance. Let him go pester someone else. :)
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Hey! Im only 13 yr's old..my mom messed up in the past and its taking college classes to get a good job, and my dad has a disease and so he cant work that often. My parents are also divorced...so My family doesnt have to much money. It sux having to much money..so I was wondering, are there ne jobs out there for 13 yr olds ( I am mature ) besides babysitting?
I do rate very high and send feedback..but i rly need help!!!
Thanx!!! (link)
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There aren't really a whole lot of jobs for 13 year olds. What you could do is put up a flyer somewhere in your area and offer to do odd jobs.
Clean someones garage or mow.Shop for a senior citizen...that sort of thing. Try putting flyers on bulletin boards in the laundry mat, grocery store, places like that. :)
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i'm a little unsure about the category but i guess it doesn't matter
i have a school dance coming up in a few days and i am supposed to go with this girl. i didnt really ask her but we kind of agreed to go together about three weeks ago. i dont really like her as more than a friend but i know that she likes me. i really wanted a date to the dance even if it was just as friends and i knew that she liked me so i figured she would say yes. now theres about 3 days left until the dance and i decided that i dont want to have a date anymore. i want to go alone so that there is no pressure to hang out with this girl but its too late to say i dont wanna go with her anymore. she offered to not go together but i couldnt do that because i thought that would be pretty mean. well i told one of her friends about how i didnt want a date and more and she promised not to tell anyone about it. but her friend broke the promise and told her. now things are awkward between us. i dont know what to do. i feel so stressed out about this. please help. (link)
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I think you need to tell her its still on for the dance. You'll have a miserable time thinking about it...like you are now. She was probably really looking forward to it. So, I'm going to suggest you take her to the dance this time. Next time go alone if you want. Its the polite thing to do. :)
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Hi, it's the girl who had asked if there was a possiblity I could be pregnant. I wanted to let you know, that I did get my period today. It was clearly late because of stress. My friend told me to take a long hot bath, and it really helped witht he stress. I went to the bathroom today and there was exactly what I had been waiting for! I wanted to thank you again for all of your help. I'm definately going to be much more careful next time... If there is a next time for us. We're probably going to wait until we're married to do that again. Thank you so much!! (link)
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Yea!! I figured you'd start after you calmed down a little. Really glad to hear. It can be a scary time. I wish you and your fellow good luck in the future. If you need anything...stop bye. :)
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Yesterday my boyfriend of six months broke up with me. We broke up because he has to work this summer and he says itll be really hard for him to just see me for one day a week instead of the six that were used to. I was so sad after hearin this, I cried almost all night cause i really miss him. Now last night he started to second guess himself, and he tells me how he made a huge mistake and he didnt think it thru. Well he wants me back for the summer. What sould i do, I do really like him amd want him around. Should i let him back??? just be friends??? or take a step backwards and say were just dating again????? PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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Sounds to me like he missed you too. I think its okay to go out with him. Is his new school far away or something? Is he moving away too? If not then you should still be able to see him at some point. If you have feelings for him then go for it. :)
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This guy keeps coming up to me and saying can i feel your boob and i really don't like it and it gets annoying. I only let people i like do it and he is just not getting that straight. He thinks i like him and i don't like him like that!! what do i do (link)
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You need to tell him you don't like men with intelligence so low they ask stupid questions like that. Then you could deck him...that would be interesting!
Just tell him that. I do not like you. Get away from me. Go crawl back under the rock you came from. Be rude about it if you have to. Some people don't understand anything else. :)
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me=13/f him=13/m
my friend is trying to set me up with her friend on a blind date i have no problem with this but he is not going to like me no boys like me ???
i have no idea why boys dont like me also i cant manage to hold a relationship together for more than 2weeks help me please any advise is good advise
thanks
from w.o.o (link)
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You need to change your attitude. Say to yourself this guy is going to like me...just won't be able to resist! If you go out thinking he won't like you then you will be all nervous and he will pick up on that. You need some confidence! :)
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me and my mom dont have a very good relationship! i am 13! i want to tell her so many things but i am usually too embarrassed to tell her! there isnt really anybody else to talk to about stuff! i want to be able to tell her what happens at school and who i am going out with! i would also like to get her to let me go to the movies on friday nights! dont say jsut talk to her about it bc i cant! its not that easy! thanx! (link)
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Maybe if you start with something small you can do it. Tell her something that happened at school and see how it goes. If you'd like to send a note to my inbox maybe I could be of more help. Tell me why you don't think you have a good relationship and maybe I can come up with something better. Or you could post a more detailed one here. Sorry :(
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Okw well tonight i went to the movies with my boyfiend and lets say ive never had a kiss and tonight i got it but it was a little bit more than a kiss. it was a french kiss! i just kinda of went along with the flow but.. like the whole movie he was trying to kiss me and i dont like want to ask him to slow down its just he was kinda acting like a dogg!
plz help
Sarah (link)
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I know you don't want to say anything but, if you want him to take it a little slower then you have to. I really don't think he will be real upset. You aren't saying leave me alone after all just take it a bit slower. Tell him you would like to enjoy it a little more and that would be easier if he slowed down a little. :)
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