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my b/f yells at me!
my b/f nd i have only gotten into two fights. the first fight was the worst thing ever! he was upset because i said the new kid was hott (omg he was freaking amazingly hott!!) well neway, he went off and started screaming at me nd it made me cry. he found out he made me cry and he was so upset nd kept telling me that he is so sorry and that he has anger problems nd he could never hurt me. well when we went out just 2day he got mad again and started yelling in public. it really upsets me and i hate when he yells and the weird thing, is that he doesnt even realize it. his mom was telling me that his dad is a very angry person and yells constintly. my b/f tells me all the time he is working on it and he never means to yell, it just happens. how can i get him to realize that he is yelling, or how can i get him to stop? he thinks i'm afraid of him, but i'm not!! i need help, fast!
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I think you should tell him to stop yelling at you or your through. There is no sense in putting up with that crap. Unfortunately his mother does...chances are if dad is that way, he's going to be too. Unless he is under a doctors care getting help I doubt he will change.
You'll just have figure out how much of it you intend to take. By the way...he knows darn well when he is yelling. :)
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hey i under stand he might have anger probs but he might get so angery one day he could hit you. you might need to dump him for your own sake.
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Tell him he is yelling. He'll stop then. If not, SLAP some sense into him.
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WEll I wish you a lot of luck honey. I went throug this. only in my case it was my husband. I married him too fast. I did not get the time to get to know him. If he had displayed that much anger to me before I married him, I never would have. But he managed to keep it hidden. We weren't married one week when he started in on me. It got worse and worse. And I heard the same story from his mother, "he is trying to work on it." and from him. "I am trying to work on it." but he wasn't really. We went into therapy. He did everything he could to hide it. I finally gave up and decided that I was not going to live like that. The divorce was awful. I am lucky I got out with my life. Now I ALWAYS pay attention to the way a guy deals with anger. AND I WILL NEVER, NEVER NEVER date someone who cannot control their anger. It does not matter how many time he apologises. IT can never make up for the mean rotten, and demeaning things he said to me. And I NEVER gave him a reason. I never even looked at another guy. HOney, some people out there are just sick, and it is best to stay away from them.
Good luck to you. You will need it.
Michele
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what u should do is write him a letter about how you are feeling
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well if you really liek him tell him that he is hurting you and tell him when he is yellin and say i'm noly tryin ot help you.... if you don't like him break up with him... and do what that other person said to do!! lol!! i hope i helped!!
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Dump him hes not worth it if he makes u cry, i say ditch him and go out wit hthe new kid..lol
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