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Do i wait?
I have these two guys who really likes me. One of them i met through a friend of mine who she still liked, but he started to like me and this other friens that I have. We have kind of been fighting over him. Then this other one that i have known since my freshman year in high school and his junior year. We went to the same school together and everything. We would always flirt a lot and we did talk about dateing. Then we decided that it would be better that we should just stay friends. Well, he calls the first friend that i mentioned and she mentioned that i was there. so we started talking, and old feelings came back. the friend is mad at me because she feels that i took both of the guys away from her, but for now, we have "talked" everything out. so i really am not all that worried about her, although if we do have a run in, i will listen t her and hopefully we can work things out. but the whole problem is, the second guy is in the navy and has at least another three years there and only can come back home when he has vacation or the holidays. he has this other girl that he is talking to, but i dont know if it will last between them or not if they do end up going out. he wants me to wait for him and i am really stuck on both of these guys. should i just wait for him to come back for all of this and wait it out, just to see if it is true love when he is ready, or should i just try and get the other guy back from the second friend that i mentioned becuase they really aren't dateing either? should i wait or should i let it go?
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I honestly think it depends on how close of friends you are with this other girl. Because you have the rest of your life to worry about guys, and i think loseing abest friend is much more heart breaking than losing a boy that you like. i know it seems so hard to turn down a guy but it honestly depends on how close you and your friend are. So i hope you make the right choice and go with how close you and your friend are. Hope I helped & Good luck!
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I think you don't wait for anyone at your age. Unless you are real crazy about them. You aren't or you wouldn't be thinking about the first guy.
You also don't wait until they are done with somebody else. The first guy comes with problems with your girlfriend. Since nobody has him at the moment he is up for grabs. You can't steal him from her if he isn't dating her...no matter what she may think. :)
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If i were you:
I would wait.. and during that time get wuith the other guy.. and just see how things go.. when the other guy comes back.. go out with him and if its love its love. If he still likes you when he comes back then go out if not you got the other guy LOLOLOL
♥ Michelle
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