Last Friday me and my friend (lets call him Joe), were cuddling on the couch. But it was big like he had his arms on my hips and everything. it was kind of cute. Anyway we've kissed once as a dare and 3 times in this game suck and blow(they play it in the movie clueless, its when you put a piece of paper to your lips and suck in that way you can hold it up and then the person sitting next to you has to get the paper to stick of to thier lips so if you drop it you kiss.). The funny thing is he kept saying he was this master and dropped it like 3 times haha. We always flirt thats a given. He said to my friend that me and him are friends with benifits are we?
Well you and "Joe" are friends and what you seem to be doing is def. on the "benifits" side. I have tons of girls that are my friends who are in FWB reltionships and like it because they don't have to deal with all the drama of a BF/GF relationship. If you want it to keep the relationship as it it then let the good times roll. If you want "Joe" to be more then just FWB then tell him either he becomes your BF or else no more "Kiss and Blow". ;*
karenR answered Friday May 27 2005, 6:18 pm: If you aren't dating then I suppose that may make you friends with benefits. This isn't a good idea. If you like him, he most likely will never date you if he can get it for free...know what I mean? Even if its just a kiss. Make him commit if he wants the benefits! :) [ karenR's advice column | Ask karenR A Question ]
HeathaAa answered Friday May 27 2005, 5:41 pm: Well yes, if you guys are doing stuff together and not technically together then you are friends with benefits. I'm not really sure what the question/problem is here .. [ HeathaAa's advice column | Ask HeathaAa A Question ]
superGiRL21 answered Friday May 27 2005, 11:14 am: friends with benefits is when you hook up with someone and aren't dating. essentially it is sex and all the other aspects of a physical relationship without the title of boyfriend or girlfriend-also he is not obligated to kiss/have sex with only you. being friends with benefits is an open relationship-just a warning careful what you're getting urself into. [ superGiRL21's advice column | Ask superGiRL21 A Question ]
frenchfries21 answered Friday May 27 2005, 10:09 am: yeah.. thats pretty much what you are.. if you want to go out with him them just tell him so.. instead of just being friends with benifits.. sometimes the friends with benefits thing doesnt work out so well if one person starts getting interested in someone else. so, in my opinion i think you should just go out with him.. [ frenchfries21's advice column | Ask frenchfries21 A Question ]
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