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Are we Friends with benifits?


Question Posted Friday May 27 2005, 9:43 am

Last Friday me and my friend (lets call him Joe), were cuddling on the couch. But it was big like he had his arms on my hips and everything. it was kind of cute. Anyway we've kissed once as a dare and 3 times in this game suck and blow(they play it in the movie clueless, its when you put a piece of paper to your lips and suck in that way you can hold it up and then the person sitting next to you has to get the paper to stick of to thier lips so if you drop it you kiss.). The funny thing is he kept saying he was this master and dropped it like 3 times haha. We always flirt thats a given. He said to my friend that me and him are friends with benifits are we?

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Additional info, added Friday May 27 2005, 10:08 am:
sorry I forgot to mention im 14/f my names cindy <3.

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xbebopchrisx answered Saturday May 28 2005, 11:22 am:
Hey Cindy,

Well you and "Joe" are friends and what you seem to be doing is def. on the "benifits" side. I have tons of girls that are my friends who are in FWB reltionships and like it because they don't have to deal with all the drama of a BF/GF relationship. If you want it to keep the relationship as it it then let the good times roll. If you want "Joe" to be more then just FWB then tell him either he becomes your BF or else no more "Kiss and Blow". ;*

Best of luck!

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cynicalladvice answered Friday May 27 2005, 10:11 pm:
well, if you believe in FWBs than yes. I think that FWBs are a ploy for boys to get in your pants... THINK FOR YOURSELF!!

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karenR answered Friday May 27 2005, 6:18 pm:
If you aren't dating then I suppose that may make you friends with benefits. This isn't a good idea. If you like him, he most likely will never date you if he can get it for free...know what I mean? Even if its just a kiss. Make him commit if he wants the benefits! :)

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HeathaAa answered Friday May 27 2005, 5:41 pm:
Well yes, if you guys are doing stuff together and not technically together then you are friends with benefits. I'm not really sure what the question/problem is here ..

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shake answered Friday May 27 2005, 1:56 pm:
Yes.

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superGiRL21 answered Friday May 27 2005, 11:14 am:
friends with benefits is when you hook up with someone and aren't dating. essentially it is sex and all the other aspects of a physical relationship without the title of boyfriend or girlfriend-also he is not obligated to kiss/have sex with only you. being friends with benefits is an open relationship-just a warning careful what you're getting urself into.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Friday May 27 2005, 10:59 am:
Well i mean you havent done much for it to be friends with benefits so i think you should ask him what you guys are... &hearts;

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frenchfries21 answered Friday May 27 2005, 10:09 am:
yeah.. thats pretty much what you are.. if you want to go out with him them just tell him so.. instead of just being friends with benifits.. sometimes the friends with benefits thing doesnt work out so well if one person starts getting interested in someone else. so, in my opinion i think you should just go out with him..

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