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i have this freind will call him frank. we are pretty close, he is one of the funniest people i know. but i never really felt anything for him. so a few of my freinds(including frank) are hanging out at my freinds house and we are talking and having a great time. and frank, keeps suggesting that we kiss. and he keeps trying to get close enough to kiss me. and kisses me on the cheek. he is really touchy, and some people at the school think he is gay.i just kept saying no. i really dont want my first kiss to be like that. plus i have a boyfreind. im just really confused!! can anyone give me advice on my situation???!! thanks

Tell him that you dont wanna ruin yallz friendship... and u have a boi... im sure he wouldnt like it if he had a girl and she kissed sum other guy... he needs to respect that

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well, im not depressed, but lately ive been really sad. i miss my best friend that goes to the other middle school in our town, i dont have a b/f, never been kissed, and basically all my freinds are biotches. i dont know what to do. i cant talk to my mom cuz i just cant, and the only person i can talk to is my friend at the other school. can someone help?

a lotta people go thru a time like that in their lives... try to be happy and grateful for all the thing that you have... this is only gonna make u stronger... If u ever need sum1 to talk to feel free to IM me

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I need a really good GPA in order to get the full grant that's offered at a transfer school. The problem is my Art History class sounds really difficult. There's only two tests, and each involves memorizing the name, date, tools used, location, and artist of 25 random slides we view in class.

So my question is, what should I do if I don't get a good grade on the first test? I'm majoring in art, so I'd have to change my whole major if I dropped the class. I'm not really good at anything else. Besides, I'm not sure if I can afford to change my major.

I will not, under any circumstances, rate you. I refuse to give anyone who answers this a 5.

hmmm well since u like art so much u should try really hard to memorize each and every artist date tools etc... its not that hard... just try ur best... and im pretty sure you'll get a good grade... good luck :)

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I was really good friends with this girl named madeline.... today she came up to me and punched me in the face in school(i still am in school right now) for no reason at all! I fell on the ground and didn't hit her back! I should of (well i think so at least) And i didn't! Should i of went after her or did i do the right thing by not hitting her back?

yeah you did do the right thing by not hittin her baQ... sumtimes the right thing doesnt feel right at the moment...

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hey i have a problem, there are these 4 guys and they all like me 3 of them are friends and the other one is seperate and doesnt know them... the thing is I don't wanna hurt anyone of them... help me plz... what should I do.

are u interested in any of em? if u are than go for it... and if you arent just tell them that you arent ready for a relationship rite now... and u dont wanna ruin yallz friendship...

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does anyone know any home remedies to fix a dry scalp or dandruff problems?

im not sure about Home remedies... but dandruff shampoos should do the trick...

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so i like this guy. he likes me too, but hes concerned about the age difference and he wouldnt want my parents pressing charges on him, i know its illegal if we have sex, but i dont plan on it. hes 18 and ill be 15 in a month. i have talked to my parents and they both have no problem with him. i see where he is coming from but, when we are together we make out and stuff and it makes me want to be more than "friends with benefits".

so my question is should i pursue it and be like screw what my parents say if they ever found a reason to not like him? thanks in advance.

If ur already makin out... u might as well go out wit him... and since ur parents are ok wit it... it just makes it easier for you

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well i just got my period yesterday and i wear pads but i have gym today and im scared the pad will fall out/off when we are running , ect! HELP!

it wont fall out/off... why dont u try kotex with wings... they have velcro wings...

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My dad got a job in San Antonio, Texas. I'm EXTREMELY happy!!!!! But the thing is, in a way, I don't want to move. I live in Central Pennsylvania, so its definitely a big move. I know I can't stop my rents from moving. But, I'm just going to miss my whole life. I grew up here, I'm going to have to start all over. Is this normal?

yes its normal... dont worry everything will be ok... change is always good

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okay i was just wondering if it's normal that i 14 and dont have my period....i was at the doctors and he said that hey will have to investagrate to see wuts wrong if i dont start sooner but then again in my eyes hes a gay doctor and i dont like or will ever listen to him. but from experienced ppl and everything is it normal that i haven't started? i will be 15 soon in january. thank you guys in advance.

Yeah thats normal... some girls dont get their period untill they're 17... everyone is different... but if u dont like ur doctor u should switch

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I have a big poster of aaliyah on my door and its getting kind of old ive had in since i was in 7th grade. what should i do with my door? i dont want it to be empty! nothing i have to go out for just stuff @ home. thanks!

I HAVE A POSTER OF AALIYAH ON MY DOOR TOOO!!!! u should put pictures up of u and ur friends

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ok well some idiot at skool made this site that has lists off girls in our grade. theres prettiest, uggliest, bitchiest, and sluttiest. in at number 1 for prettiest and this girl who i dont like is number 1 for sluttiest so now everyone thinks its me and its not! what should i do?
thanx-allison

Well its not you... and just because they say its you is not gonna make it tru... just remember that... eventually they'll get over it and forget about it

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Alright, so a kid named Brian asked me to go to homecomming so I said yes b/c we've known each other for a while now and I figured..well that would be fun. I liked him a little and he started liking me and all that fun stuff. Then like today he just showed up at my work and expected me to go hang out with him and I couldn't just say no. Then he called me his g/f to one of his friends and I asked him why and he got all pissy. I don't know why though. Then he went on about how he's lonely, and he feels theres something between us. And the reason I won't date him is b/c I'm not over my x. Well not the only reason. Now he's driving me insane though. He's just one of those people that get on your last nerve you know? So tonight I eventually told him that I didn't feel a lot between us...I mean I do sometimes...but the majority of the time I don't. But now I think I hurt him...but I'm glad I told him so I don't lead him on. But what do I do to make it so he knows I just want to be friends like for sure...and I still have to go to homecomming with him...and I don't really want too, but I'm not that mean....sorry its so long.
-Zero

Tell him u really like him as a friend... but ur not sure how u feel about him as more than a friend cuz ur not over ur X yet... be like lets go to homecomming and see how things are between us... but u dont wanna be rushed into anything cuz ur not ready yet

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Does anybody by any chance know of good jobs for girls that are like 14 years old or whatever? I need a job, but not one that is a t a fast food restaurant. Does anybody know of any for 14 yr olds?

in my area u can get almost any job at 14 as long as u have ur rents permission... why dont u try a doctors office ( receptionist ), baby-sitting, Walmart, Kmart, etc

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Ok, im a gurl and i have a little mustache thingy and i never really thought to much of it til now. and i feel like other ppl notice it which i know they do. what should i do? should i shave it or trim it or wax it or i dunno lol. plz help... thanx a bunch!!
and ill rate yu!

DONT EVER SHAVE UR FACE!!!!! waxing ur face isnt a good idea either... it causes wrinkles... the best thing to do is bleach it or pluck it...

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i have a really bad cold and i really need to get over it. Can you guys give me some helpful tips on getting rid of colds?

Take Vitamins... try Cod Liver Oil... its supposed to strengthen ur Immune syster

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ok im confused. this might be long, any response is greatly appreciated.

i go out with this boy, lets call him jon.
we've only gone out for like 5 days. his frind has alreay gotten us into like 10 fights. his friends really jealous and he wants jon like basically all to himself and he doesn't like me so everytime i want to come over, he'll start shit. just anything so me and jon cant see each other and argue. i talked to jon about breakin up today and he flipped out on his frind and then told me how much he loved me and didnt want to lose me..but then i was at a soccer game today. i ended up spending the whole day with my ex b/f. we went out last year for 2 months. we broke up because summer came and we lived too far away, other then that the relationship was perfect. well my ex. lets call him chris, told me today that he still has feelings for me and wants to be back with me. i still have feelings for him too, me and him went trhough alot together! but i mean i'd feel so bad for jon, i do like him alot too! idk..im confused..=/

theyre both great guys, who treat me good, and who i care for and dont want to hurt.
=( hmm.. what should i do? what would you do if you were in my place?

thanks so much in advance,so sorry it was long.

If you cant decide now dont... have sum time to urself... & the one u miss the most & care about the most... thats the one u should choose

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i have 3" zits all over my legs with 1" whiteheads.how do i get rid of them?

Dont pop them... cuz they might not even be "zits" they best thing to do is go to the dermatologist

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my parents don't like my boyfriend..because i went out with him before and he treated me pretty bad..but i really think he has changed but i don't know if my parents think that or not! what can i do to make them gain trust back in him? because if they don't trust him that means i don't get to see him as often?
i rate super high!

You can talk to them & tell them that people make mistakes... im sure ur parents have made mistakes that they regret... if sum1 realizes that they made a mistake... they might be willin to change... & in ur case he is...

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Hey me and my boyfriend have been going out for a year now and we are very protective of eachother. Like if he thinks im looking at another guy then he get mad @ me and it ends up into a huge fight. I cant talk to guys either. We are just soo over protected and it gets us into huge fights everyday. Got any suggestions on how we can stop this jealousy and fighting and be less protective?

Tell him that he needs to trust you... unless you've done sumthing in the past... u havent given him a reason to be suspicious... sumtimes u just cant avoid talkin to boiz... so he needs to learn to trust you

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