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hey i have a problem, there are these 4 guys and they all like me 3 of them are friends and the other one is seperate and doesnt know them... the thing is I don't wanna hurt anyone of them... help me plz... what should I do.
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Just tell them that you're not interested, they would most likely undnerstand and they will still want to be friends, just let them off litely. If they are understanding, they will let you be able to just not go out with them, If you want to go out with one of them you would have to go out with all of them, so explain that your not interested.
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umm..if you like any of them then like them. there is really no way you can help it if you like someone.
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Hey~Do you like one of them? If so go out with them. If you don't like any of them just tell them that you don't see them like that. They should understand! ~Paige~
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this may sound cheesy, but you have to do what u want. if u think goin out wit ur friends is awkward, and u like the seperate one, then go for it. if not, then go on a date with each of them and pik the one u think is right for u. good luk.
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Don't worry about it. You don't have to do anything. If you're really worried about hurting them, don't do anything. Just 'cause someone likes you doesn't mean anything has to come out of it. Why go into something you're not 100% sure about? It's sweet that they care about you, but don't feel like you have to do anything.
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follow your heart. For instance, who could you see yourself being with? Who would be most supportive of you and catch you when you fall? Whos shoulder could you see yourself crying on? Which ones really serious??? Then go for the guy that fits those descriptions. If none of them do, you'll have to let them know you want to be friends with all of them, and that's not being mean. You cant totally avoid hurting their feelings unless you wanna go out with all 4 !! lol, and even then you might if they found out you were cheating, so really theres nothing you can to but be nice about it. Your feelings are your feelings.
GOOD LUCK!
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are u interested in any of em? if u are than go for it... and if you arent just tell them that you arent ready for a relationship rite now... and u dont wanna ruin yallz friendship...
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Well, pick the guy that YOU like. Perhaps it would be best to go with the guy whom isn't friends with the other 3. That way, you'll have a better chance of not having the 3 friends fight over you.
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