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Hurting people..
Alright, so a kid named Brian asked me to go to homecomming so I said yes b/c we've known each other for a while now and I figured..well that would be fun. I liked him a little and he started liking me and all that fun stuff. Then like today he just showed up at my work and expected me to go hang out with him and I couldn't just say no. Then he called me his g/f to one of his friends and I asked him why and he got all pissy. I don't know why though. Then he went on about how he's lonely, and he feels theres something between us. And the reason I won't date him is b/c I'm not over my x. Well not the only reason. Now he's driving me insane though. He's just one of those people that get on your last nerve you know? So tonight I eventually told him that I didn't feel a lot between us...I mean I do sometimes...but the majority of the time I don't. But now I think I hurt him...but I'm glad I told him so I don't lead him on. But what do I do to make it so he knows I just want to be friends like for sure...and I still have to go to homecomming with him...and I don't really want too, but I'm not that mean....sorry its so long.
-Zero
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Tell him u really like him as a friend... but ur not sure how u feel about him as more than a friend cuz ur not over ur X yet... be like lets go to homecomming and see how things are between us... but u dont wanna be rushed into anything cuz ur not ready yet
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Just tell him all you want to do is go to homecoming with him. Nothing more..tell him your sorry you led him on. Thats all you have to do..good luck!!
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Just tell him. Tell him that you aren't over your X yet and you just really aren't into having a b/f right now. Let him know. Then just say I would love be your friend and just hang though. Explain it and break it down for him. Tell him you didn't mean to upset him in any way it's just how you feel. Obviously you don't think he's a bad guy, you just don't feel anything there so tell him that stuff. :) Even though you don't want to go to homecoming with him I still would as you have said you would.. It can be on a friendly basis, right?! hehe. Hope I helped a little
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