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Allright, I've liked this girl I've known for a while, but everytime I start to make a move she hooks up with someone else. I know I'm waiting too long, I just don't know when the opprotune moment. For the past year she's been going out with my best friend. My best friend recently broke up with her girlfriend, but he told me what he was going to do beforehand.

She's one of my best friends; I've known her nearly all my life. And someone found out. That someone told her everything. She's not acting any differently towards me and I don't know what to make of my situation. Should I back off? OR should I hope for the best. Please, I don't know what to do.

she probably hooks up with someone else everytime you make a move because she is scared on what your friendship will be like if you guys break up. i say hope for the best, and dont back off. act yourself in front of her, especially if she isnt acting any differently towards you.
if she knows that you like her and she is not backing away, she might like you as well.

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Im confused: someone who absolutely meant so much to me, my best friend (a girl. im a girl too) started to be a little (so for being harsh) but a jerk.. we would have plans made for a week and then a day before she would cancle and go out and do something with this other girl (lets name her "freeda" :-D... it even got to where if me and her had plans to go to the movies she would invite "freeda" without telling me (even though I thought it was just goign to be us) Its starting to get annoying and i dont know what to do?

confront her about it. thats your best bet. she may or may not know what she is doing to you.

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How can i tell if this guy i was with but just broke up with because of a distance issue still likes me?? I mean cuz he is always around and talks to me still..Like calls me everyday..and his fave team is the ravens and he wants me to wear my ravens shirt and idk..but i really do love this guy..How can I express myself to him and How can i tell if he still likes me??

he might or might not like you. even though he calls you everyday and still talks to you, keep in mind that he just broke up with you. tell him how you feel over the phone or online.

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im nauseas all the time...does anyone know how to get rid of it?or what to eat?

good things to eat are pretzels. have little sips of coke or water.

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Okay, I've been suffering by myself with the effects of what I belive to be depression, or some pretty dang extreme teenage hormones. Tonite, I decided that I wanted to get help, because I'm scared of what might happen if I didn't. I told my best friend about it, and I was just met with blank stares and awkward silences. So I walked back home, with barely a word exchanged between us, and a few minutes later she called me. All she said was please calm down, and then another empty blank silence before I finally said that I'd talk to her tomorrow. I'm unsure of where to go next, and I'm beginning to think its a mistake I ever said anything. Should I be angry at my friend for not really saying anything, and looking at me like I was some sort of freak?

no. she was probably just scared for you. you should confront your parents about it, and if you feel that you dont feel comfortable to tell them yet, consult a school guidance counselor or a professional.

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I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend until im 14 or 15. is this fair? why?

to you, that is not fair. but to your parents, it is.
it is completely reasonable. they are just trying to protect you.
most people dont start dating till they are 13 or 14, anyway.

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HEY ! IM TURNING 14 T0MORROW ! & I REALLLY WANT A J0B ! IS THERE ANYWHERE I C0ULD WORK ? LIKE BESIDES WENDYS =/ ? CUZZ I DONT REALLY WANNA WORK THERE. LOL ANY IDEAS?? thanks a tonnn! xoxo

mcdonalds, baskin robins, coldstones, target, taco bell . . . all the fast food resteraunts. you can also work at your local grocery market.

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Fourteen.Female.

so last night before getting into the shower I look and my left breast has what looks to be stretch marks almost all over it [exaggeration]. My right one is perfectly normal.
I thought it was growing or something?
Is it normal?

yes, it is normal. even teens get stretch marks.

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Aight, this sounds so much like Harry Potter #6, I'm just gonna call myself Harry, my friend Ron, and hi sister Ginny.
NOTE: I'm not taking anything except for names from the book, everything else is just a coincidence.

So, I've been Ron's friend for 6 years. Nothing wrong with that, we're best friends. Then he has a sister who's a year younger than him. I kinda like her, but not quite entirely. Plus, I'm telling myself that I can't like her, she's Ron's sister! I see her a lot, I go over to Ron's house frequently. She participates in a lot of the activities we do, be it Monopoly or GameCube. I really haven't cared until about two days ago, when I noticed, "Hey, I could spent the rest of my life with this girl!" Problem is, I went back again the following morning, and I realized that she can get kinda spazzy. Very spazzy. But, apart from that, I like her. What should I do, and by the way, don't say "Just go up to her and tell her the truth" or anything like that, I need specifics! How would I do that?

If ron is truly your friend, he would accept it.
I say go up to ginny and tell her you like her. ask her out.
the only problem is, you said yourself "i kinda like her, but not quite entirely". if you guys do happen to go out, and you break up with her, how will ron feel about you breaking your sister's heart?

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Over the past 2 months, I've had 4 crushes. One of them I met online, she likes me too; one of them likes me as a friend; one of them I really don't give a damn, but I think she was hitting on me; and one of them is my best friend's sister. So, when I had a crush, when I loved, it was the best feeling of my life. I never wanted to lose that feeling, it was (I quote "What is this feeling?" from Wicked) "Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe". But in a good way. A very very good way. Problem is, I've lost the feeling. Good feeling's gone. I love no longer. But I want to love despaately, I really do! I want to keep the feeling! I want to be truly happy again! Advicenators, what should I do?

you should wait till you find a girl whom you can truly love and who can love you back.
my best bet for you is to get to know your best friend's sister a little more, see if you two are compatible. you never know what can happen! =]
good luck!

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ok...well im really upset right now...usually im the person giving advice but not this time..well me and my boyfriend lets call him...bob?...and this girl...up lets call her paris?...idk..well im reallyy upset right now..and im sorry if this is long..i was going thru my boyfriends myspace and i saw a comment that "paris" left saying awww i

*broken/hearted* -
if he is really making you feel that way about yourself (that you're not as pretty as her) dump him! he is technically cheating on you.
dont stay with him, it will only break your heart even more.
find someone stable and someone who you can trust.

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I met my girlfriend over the internet about 7 months ago. We started as a good friendship. So then I asked for her phone number. We talked on the phone for hours and hours. I started to love her and have really strong feelings for her. She did too. We did webcam and send pictures and mail. But things started to happen to me I started to feel depressed. I started to have personal problems with my family about it. I didn't care I know I love this girl a lot. I haven't seen her yet cause I'm not ready yet. I want to look good for her physically and in ma peronality. I don't want her to see an ugly me. I want to lift weights get taller and look good for her. I want to have money and get my education. Thats why I haven't gone to see her. I want to be for her inside and out. But is gettin frustrated. Cause so many guys have I asked her out but shes says no to them cause she waiting fo me. But I can't cause I went to get muscles and get taller and get ma money straight get new clothes and get ma education. So, then I can see her. But I don't want her to give up. I feel bad cause I want see her but I want to surprise but gettin muscles and lookin taller and being a person who can make her smile, laugh, make her feel good about us and look good for her. I love her a lot she is a beautiful young girl. She is cute, nice, hardworking, special, and comfortable to talk to. What do I do. I'm a male who is 17

if she is really waiting for you, she wont care what you look like. "its whats on the inside that counts".
i say that you should just meet her already. you said yourself that you sent her pictures of you. and if she's still waiting for you after seeing that you're "ugly", she only cares for your personality.

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Well i was datin this boy *jamie*. and me and him got into a arguement over me braking up with him cause my parents split up. he said i broke up with him for a boy named *rodney* but i didn't me and rodney started talking 2 days later. cause he lives next to my mom. i was supposed to move in with my mom but i didn't and i wrote him a 4 paragraph note on icq. and sent it to him. explaining everything to him. but he still is all jumping down my throat. well i don't know what to do. cause i REALLY love *jamie*. he was my first love. and i can't move on with out him. i'd do anything for that boy. what can i say or do to make everything better.. the other thing is. that the other nite i think last saturday. we got into a arguement. and he threatened me and then his sister threatened me. but god nos i really love that boy. he nos it. i've cried since we broke up. should i talk to him or just move on (because of the threatening part). i don't know if he really meant what he said about him wanting me to die and junk. but what should i do.. i really think i'm inlove

*Confussed But Inlove*

*Confussed But Inlove* -
right before you said that he threatened you, i was thinking that he really cares for you as well. he probably does, and thats why he jumped down your throat because of another guy.
but if he really told you that he wanted you to die, i seriously think that you should move on. if he says that, he might be an abusive partner and obviously is not worth your blood and tears.

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Im 14 and my boyfriend & I have been going out for 3 weeks. 2 nights ago we have a really romantic night and we cuddles and he kissed me and we watched movies. & he said he had a great time and i did too. But when we talked a day after he was acting weird & not himself like on IM hes usually like HEY BABY!! And he was just like heyyy. & he stopped calling me and it was weird. i dont know if hes scared of getting hurt or hes gonna break up with me =/ i wasnt being clingy or anything he made all the first moves. So i dont know what to do. ive been worrying about it & I like him so much you have no idea. whats going on?? PS. tomorrows my birthday and he said we were gonna spend the whole day together and he hasnt even talked about it!! so i dont even know if its gonna happen ! :( XOXOX please help !

hes probably just drawing back for a bit and considering his feelings. making sure what he is doing is the best for both of you.

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im going into the highschool next year and i heard that you have to carry like a little backpack around school.. i have a normal sized backpack like what you would wear to the middle school.. is that too big? what should i doo? like should i get one backpack to cary around school and the other for home? PLEASE HELP!

no, you really dont have to have a little backpack in high school. it would be handy, though.

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Ok theres this kid i know, and we met at camp. were always making eye contact and at the dance he waited til the last song to ask me to dance.. i kno i like him, but im not sure if he likes me.. i wanna talk to him more but when i talk to him i get all shy and stop talkin. Wat are some good topics to talk to him about and do u think he could possibly like me?
please anything!
i rate 5's!!

if he asked for the last dance, then he does like you.
everybody gets shy to people that they really like. me and my boyfriend are like that all the time.
if you want a topic they could go on and on about, talk about his life. anything in his life. school, friends, hobbies, etc.
talk about things you have in common.

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okay me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 5 months. i knew her a good while before, and fell in love with her before we started going out. she says she is so in love with me, and sometimes yeah, it seems like it i mean she brings me random gifts and calls me back right after we hang up. dont get me wrong she does many other good things too. but what im wondering is we broke up 3 times. i did it once, she did it once, and 1 time was a misunderstanding. each time i had to fight my little but off to get her back, shes so stubborn she wont even put forth an effort. she kinda seems like she just watches me try. well either way im in love with her so im forced to deal with it. whenever i try to get us back together, she just ignores me. its not fair, i just spin my wheels and she doesnt notice how upset i am, or she does and doesnt care. im in love with her and want her back but it hurts. she promised shes never leave but she did and now its really hard to get her back. i promised i wouldnt let her leave but she just doesnt care what i say. what do i do? she broke up with me this time... i mean how do i deal with this? dont say to stop talking to her cse its impossible and dont say try to get over her cse everything reminds me of her and it would be impossible nonetheless. please help me

thanks
-ger

ger-
she is playing hard to get, and you must understand that.
if she says she loves you, that means she truly does. girls have a harder time telling their boyfriends that they love them rather the other way.
and yes, of what you have told me, it does sound like she is in love with you.

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okay,

im 13 and i am this

hieght::: 4'9
weight::: 60 lbs

a few questins that has to do with that.

1) is that NORMAL?

2) i wanna gain, but i only eat sugar and meat. i just stay the same. i eat alot of fast foods, and i stay the same!

3) i want to gaim 5 pounds by school starts.. aka 3 weeks. can that happen?

please answer..... DONT SAY

1) lift weights.

2) eat veggies

and all of that stuff, like, you know.

ill rate higher then 5!

you are a bit too light in weight, but your height is normal.
if you really want to gain weight, you should make something like chocolate part of your daily meal. something that will fatten you up but is healthy as well (yes, i know, chocolate was a bad example =P)

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Is it weird to give a boy a poem in a frame to say goodbye?
If so how else can i give him the poem or somethign else to say goodbye? Something he will remember me by.
Thanx i need answers quick
~Mo

that is very cute, actually. not weird at all.
but make sure its a poem that you made yourself, and that you have handwritten it. you might also want to insert a picture of you somewhere in the frame.

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