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Lost Friend
Im confused: someone who absolutely meant so much to me, my best friend (a girl. im a girl too) started to be a little (so for being harsh) but a jerk.. we would have plans made for a week and then a day before she would cancle and go out and do something with this other girl (lets name her "freeda" :-D... it even got to where if me and her had plans to go to the movies she would invite "freeda" without telling me (even though I thought it was just goign to be us) Its starting to get annoying and i dont know what to do?
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well even if you don*t want to i think you should tell your friend bout how you feel bout her n freeda (haha i like that name by the way) don*t make fun of good old freefree but just tell her that youre feeling excluded, if she tells freeda wut you told her then leave her alone for a while, she*ll prolly end up missing you and comin back. hope i helped hun and good luck!! xoxo, chelsea
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Just tell her that! Be like " Hey we already had plans." But dont make it so she gets mad at you....." Did we already invite her and I just forgot?" And if she says no just ask her why she is coming then.If she says because she's my friend tell her well so am I and I wanted it to be just you and me.Hope I helped
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confront her about it. thats your best bet. she may or may not know what she is doing to you.
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I've been in this situation before. Just sit her down,you and her only,no "freeda". Say to her, "I know you really like "freeda" but since you started hanging out with her, it feels like you are leaving me out in the dust. I mean, you are always cancelling our plans just to go hang out with her. And when I make plans with you, I just want to hang out with you,not with 'freeda'"
Hopefully she will understand where you are coming from.
I hope everything works out =)
X_Amanda_X
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Just be straight with her. I'd tell your best friend that you don't appreciate her inviting some other girl while you are still thinking of having a good time with just you and her. And that if she wants to do that just exclude me out of it. Tell her it bother's you feeling not that appreciative around her and that you mean just you and her when you say you and her. Hope I helped! Hope she listens to what you got to say if you do talk to her. (Or you could just start doing the same thing to her.)
Buh Bye,
ShanN*
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