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does she really love me?
okay me and my girlfriend have been together for almost 5 months. i knew her a good while before, and fell in love with her before we started going out. she says she is so in love with me, and sometimes yeah, it seems like it i mean she brings me random gifts and calls me back right after we hang up. dont get me wrong she does many other good things too. but what im wondering is we broke up 3 times. i did it once, she did it once, and 1 time was a misunderstanding. each time i had to fight my little but off to get her back, shes so stubborn she wont even put forth an effort. she kinda seems like she just watches me try. well either way im in love with her so im forced to deal with it. whenever i try to get us back together, she just ignores me. its not fair, i just spin my wheels and she doesnt notice how upset i am, or she does and doesnt care. im in love with her and want her back but it hurts. she promised shes never leave but she did and now its really hard to get her back. i promised i wouldnt let her leave but she just doesnt care what i say. what do i do? she broke up with me this time... i mean how do i deal with this? dont say to stop talking to her cse its impossible and dont say try to get over her cse everything reminds me of her and it would be impossible nonetheless. please help me
thanks
-ger
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girls are incredibly stubborn. not just about relationships, but about everything. she probably doesnt realize shes hurting you, or she might just be doing this because shes feeling you dont care about her, and wants to see if you'll come after her. sometimes we dont notice how much others really care, and you just need to show her that you do and that shes hurting you, tell her that if shes ever feeling that way to just come to you and talk about it, rather than playing hard to get. i hope things work out for you<3
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she is playing hard to get, and you must understand that.
if she says she loves you, that means she truly does. girls have a harder time telling their boyfriends that they love them rather the other way.
and yes, of what you have told me, it does sound like she is in love with you.
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Love comes and goes. You never know if your girlfriend is the 'right girl' for you. Ask her if she feels the same as you do and if not, you should try to move on. There are more fish out there in the sea so don't feel bad. But if she does feel the same way and she truly loves you, try talking to her and make her understand how hard it is for you! Don't worry because you never know what will happen. Goodluck and hope my advice helps!
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dawg, we are one in the same. My best advice is to talk to her in person. Ask her to dinner or something and have a serious conversation wit her, or jus go to her house or somethin, but TALK to her IN person. She might really be seein if you love her the way you tell her, but doesn't understand that she is hurting you. You always gotta think about things both ways. So, sit her down, talk to her, and jus let your feelings out for her. Hope that helps.
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Hey, girls tend to be sensitive with relationships and sometimes stupid... Sometimes girls don't realize what there doing. I've found the best way to resolve the issue, it to sit her down and tell her how you feel, truly, from the heart. Explain sometimes what she does kills you inside... Tell her everything, explain what you feel, and ask her to kinda meet you in the middle, cause sometimes you just have yo open some eyes.
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ur goin through the same exact thing im goin through..but its wit a guy..tell her how u feel about her and tell her u love her alot.. maybe she'll listen
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