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Okay.. i know that its normal for guys to watch porn and all, but i mean come on. My boyfriend sits there and says that he's not interested in it anymore and stuff and then he goes and says he's gonna buy some for one of my friends... that doesn't even bother me its just that he is OBSESSED with it. he like always is saying hes gonna get rid of some of it but then he liked never does and just gets more. its like a drug for him. ik its not that big of a deal but am i totally crazy for being jealous?? we have the greatest realationship outside of that... im sorry this is so long but if anyone can answer this good ill rate high.
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A porn addicted partner can wreck havoc on your relationship. A well-known psychiatrist said the addiction is related to the same addiction as cocaine. It rewires a guys brain to where he has to feel that chemical dopamine rush he feels when he watches porn. Even though he feels his partner is attractive he still needs that stimulation from the scenes he sees in the porn that he cant get from you. Some guys need to see the porn to get off cause it has become an addiction. This can wreck havoc on your self esteem as his sexual partner. Read: Don Juan, how porn rewires a man's brain. This will give you some insight on porn addiction. Then, you can decide if you want to stay with this person.
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Omg seriously all guys are going to watch porn its not a big deal i think the real problem is is that you have security issues that you need to deal with. Its just porn its not like hes on the tapes or he knows some one on the tapes and is watching it bc of that and im sure if you bitch about it enough he'll just get a new girlfriend. im not trying to be mean im being honest bc i had a friend that used to bitch about her boyfriend watching porn and he acted like it didnt bothre him at first and then BOOM he broke up with her.
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Well, it's not right for him to put Porn before your relationship or for him to keep lying to you about it. You need to sit him down and tell him that your feeling thats what he's doing is coming before you and you feel outcasted (or however your feel). I hope the relationship worls out, etc. Jack
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