Well i was datin this boy *jamie*. and me and him got into a arguement over me braking up with him cause my parents split up. he said i broke up with him for a boy named *rodney* but i didn't me and rodney started talking 2 days later. cause he lives next to my mom. i was supposed to move in with my mom but i didn't and i wrote him a 4 paragraph note on icq. and sent it to him. explaining everything to him. but he still is all jumping down my throat. well i don't know what to do. cause i REALLY love *jamie*. he was my first love. and i can't move on with out him. i'd do anything for that boy. what can i say or do to make everything better.. the other thing is. that the other nite i think last saturday. we got into a arguement. and he threatened me and then his sister threatened me. but god nos i really love that boy. he nos it. i've cried since we broke up. should i talk to him or just move on (because of the threatening part). i don't know if he really meant what he said about him wanting me to die and junk. but what should i do.. i really think i'm inlove
My problem is that "falling in love" absolutely drives me insane, im not lying. the things i've done, while under the influence, i would never admit to anyone, its hard enough to admit it to myself without banging my head against the nearest wall. back then, i also wished that she would just die, and i wished myself the same fate.
don't be too hard on him, he is insecure.
if you love him, tell him and kiss him.
else move on, it hurts for a while, but it eventually goes away and you will both fall in love again.
0xjennaxheartx0 answered Sunday August 7 2005, 4:44 am: *Confussed But Inlove* -
right before you said that he threatened you, i was thinking that he really cares for you as well. he probably does, and thats why he jumped down your throat because of another guy.
but if he really told you that he wanted you to die, i seriously think that you should move on. if he says that, he might be an abusive partner and obviously is not worth your blood and tears. [ 0xjennaxheartx0's advice column | Ask 0xjennaxheartx0 A Question ]
Britty_x3 answered Sunday August 7 2005, 4:27 am: im sorry to say it....and i know you love him and would do anything for him...i just think if he threatens you...he doesnt love you..and he wouldnt do anything for you..im sorryy hun...i noe how that feels...
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UNICORN answered Sunday August 7 2005, 12:50 am: Wow. I find it amazing that even after he said he wanted you to die you still love him. He may just be severely confused and regretting he said it.....but he may have meant it. You should move on and if he decides to stop being an ass and tells you that he really does still love you too well then, then you can get back together with him. <3Beth [ UNICORN's advice column | Ask UNICORN A Question ]
AdivceJack answered Sunday August 7 2005, 12:26 am: Hey, been there! My suggestion is for you too explain to *jamie* that you really do love him and you wouldn't hurt him. Explain your all his,spill your guts girl! lol... Anyway, tell him and if he doesn't listen give it some time and try again. [ AdivceJack's advice column | Ask AdivceJack A Question ]
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