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Told a "friend"
Okay, I've been suffering by myself with the effects of what I belive to be depression, or some pretty dang extreme teenage hormones. Tonite, I decided that I wanted to get help, because I'm scared of what might happen if I didn't. I told my best friend about it, and I was just met with blank stares and awkward silences. So I walked back home, with barely a word exchanged between us, and a few minutes later she called me. All she said was please calm down, and then another empty blank silence before I finally said that I'd talk to her tomorrow. I'm unsure of where to go next, and I'm beginning to think its a mistake I ever said anything. Should I be angry at my friend for not really saying anything, and looking at me like I was some sort of freak?
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no. she was probably just scared for you. you should confront your parents about it, and if you feel that you dont feel comfortable to tell them yet, consult a school guidance counselor or a professional.
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well u should talk to her about what you think and that you dont know what to think about all this.
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Well, it was a smart move to go ahead and tell your friend, but she didn't sound too supportive, she may have been confused on what to do. But, I'm really glad to hear that someone actually wanted to come forward to get help before depression took over. But, the best move you'll ever make is to have a serious talk about it with your parents. They are the ones that can get you the help you need, and make sure that you explain that you think it could be more than girl emotional feelings, and that you'll need their help through it. As for your friend, just tell her the next time you see her that you just feel so down lately and needed someone, and that you didn't mean to make her feel akward or scared. But, I'm really proud to hear that someone cared to come forward with depression ad how they felt, you honestly deserve help, not tat the others don't, but I deeply appreciate hearing your coming forward and wanting to get help. But, I'm telling you that your parents are important to tell, if you'd like more help, just inbox.
-TheTeenGirl
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I don't think you should be mad at here because she is you friend so she probley is just suprised.
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yes alot of teens go through this exact same situation. your not the only one going through this. Now this could as you were saying just be, being a teenager. Or it could be some kind of psycological inbalance. And either way... its a very good step that you're taking towards getting help so you wont go down the many paths other teens have. I dont think you should be angry with your friend. The situation you put her in was probobly a little stunning to her. Cause as for many... you most likely dont show it very much. So she was probobly slightly taken back by these thoughts of your depression. Some friends would jump all over it it would advice and some just arent very good with the right words. Give her time to think about what she wants to say to you... and good luck finding the help. I honor your courage. Hope it helped.
Cale
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No, dont be mad at your friend. was she much help? no not at all but thats ok. there are other people you can turn to for help..your parents or a family relative will be able to get you the help and support you need. your absolutely right about wanting to get help..pat yourself on thee back because realizing you need some help and support is the 1st step to getting through depression!
:) im proud of you
-melissa
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Don't be mad at your friend, it will only freak her out more...Please tell your parents that you feel like your going through a depressing and ask to talk to someone about it. Telling someone that's not judgemental normally does help, and they'll help solve your problem, or at least find the source. AS for your friend, tell her you wish that you guys could still be friends and that you only came to her in cofidence, explain to her, you can't help feeling this way, and you needed someone to talk to. Tell her its not like your crazy its just your sad, and you can't help it. Then think of ways to pick yourself up (mines by getting a cup of coffee) and start spending time balancing everything, friends, family, and add some you time in there too. Hope this helps, I've been there too, Jack
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no, you shouldnt you have to understand what your friend is going through now, her best friend, has just admitted to suffering depression and other stuff, she wants to help and she will definatly come around and learn,you have to give her a minute since you pretty much just put a huge secret on her, she will soon relize that you are her friend and she will then help you! :-)
hope it helps
good luck
♥ tay
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