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Hey...I'm not sure how to say this but I will anyway...I want to start dating but I don't know If I can build up enough courage to ask my parents if I can have a boyfrined. They are the most protective people in the world sometimes the don't even let me go anywhere with my frineds. I do have a guy and we're frineds but they get suspicious of him...I do like him but they don't know that
Do you have any tips for me to ask them if I can ask him out?

It aould be appreciated

You should have a talk wit ur mom & be very subtle about it... ask her... how old were u when u started wearin make up, driving, & dating... & say how old do u think i will be when i will be allowed to do those things...

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When you get your first period is it normal if it just lasts for 2 days?

Everyone is different... but i dont think u need to worry about it... if this continues to happen talk to ur doctor

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i need help & fast. how do you scrunch your hair ? i used moose but minez not working so great. i need help & fast !

sumtimes it works better if u use moose or gel first & than use hairspray... if u have really str8 hair its hard to scrunch it... just try using hairspray... it should stay in longer

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I am confused can you get pregant by precum

yeah... i read in a magazine that u can because its produced by the same gland as sperm...

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Hey, i am 15 and weigh 150 lbs. I'm not "fat" but i feel that way. I dont look it or anything, but i have no idea where the weight is going. I have been taking birth control for like 4 months, and that might be the reason for gaining all this weight, but i dont know how to get rid of some weight. I have tried the south beach diet, i dont eat that much.... never really have, i drink only diet drinks since forever, but i still dont know why i am gaining all this weight. It worries me a lot... Hopefully you can help.. thanks

it most likely is birth control... sometimes people gain weight cuz their not eating enuff... i dont know how to explain it to well... talk to ur doctor about it...

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i really want to lose alot of weight, my mom says i should start now at 14 if i want to lose weight. im not going to post my weight becuz i know people will say stuff bout it, well i have tae-bo and yoga and i have a bunch of magizines with exercises, i have a fitness bike and we have slim fast, what should i use if i want to lose weight. please help me! thanks so much*

proportion control... its ok to have pizza... but when u eat pizza or other fattening foods... eat less of them... like a slice of pizza & a whole lot of salad with fat free dressing, drink 1 % milk... coke is a killer... try not to drink coke at all... if u controll what u eat and exercise at the same time u WILL see results...

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So the other day I was talking to my crush and he told me that he liked me and I told him that I liked him. Then the next day my friend Dylan walked up to me and said that Wesley, my crush was shy and he wanted to ask me out but he thinks we don't talk enough. What should I do!!!

talk to him more... show him ur interested in him by flirting...

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About a week ago i met this guy, 3 years older than me. We would hang out everyday. He told me that he had a crush on me and i said the same thing back. He left on a family vacation and he kissed me on the forehead before he left. He came back yesterday, and has been totally ignoring me. Did he use me? Should i confront him and tell him how i feel about him?

-Stephanie(Female) Age 16

well not necessarily... it could just mean that he told u how he felt & hes just waitin for u to make a move... or he could be doing it cuz he wants u to be anxious... u know how guys dont call rite away after gettin a number... sorta like that... talk to him... let him know how u feel...

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Alright i dated this guy for like a long time and we were really close i mean i would tell him everything and he would totally listen to me but then after a little while he broke up with me and said that he thought we should date other people. well the thing that i am confissed about is that he said I love you and i REALLY like him Alot and i said i love you too and i meant it but like i was crushed when he dumped me and i just could not move on and now he likes this other girl that is alot prettier than me but i really want him back or i want someone who is going to be serious in a realtionship and mean what they say. But what i am confissued about is how i should find someone else or should i try to get him back or does anyone else have any other ideas. Please Help.....Thanks Bunches!*~*

Your not gonna find sum1 who really cares about u if ur lookin... TRUST ME... just give it sum time... it usually happenz when u least expect it... i know its hard & u want sum1 to care about you... but its worth the wait...

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OMG all my friends (in my age range ~14~) say its okay and that they dont think its bad to have sex at this age and half of them like, arent virgins!! I just relaized this today but i think having sex at this age is just plain stupid!! Am i weird or crazy? IS it okay to have sex at my age?!!

its not ok... in my opinion u shouldnt have sex untill u get married... sex is not a game... whether ur a guy or a girl u should not give that up to sum1 unless u truly know that u love them!!!

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my friends asked if i wore tampons and i said yea i do i can never feel them..its comfortable to me but she said ima hoe cz its like havin a dick stuck in me for hours at time vs. feeling like im wearing a diaper..im the only one out of my friends that wear tampons everyone wears pads..am i doin somethin worng and how does it make you a hoe ..its not a dick its a tampon!?

that is so retarted... wearin a tampon does not make u a hoe... if u like tampons vs. pads thats ur business... & if they are callin u a hoe they arent really ur friends...

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okay today has been 3 weeks since my best friend and i havent talked for..my best guy friend and he happens to be my crush thinks my worst enemy is hott..and wants to date her but thinks he has no chance n i think he deserves better and plus im moving..my life literally stinks and im going through major depression anyone wanna help??

well just because u dont get a long wit her doesnt mean shes a bad person... one persons trash is another persons treasure... if he likes her let him... dont worry about it... since ur moving u get to start over... & whether u realize it or not that is always good... dont be depressed... look forward to all the good things...

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20/female

I met this guy online, and he's 36. Yea old but I didn't plan on going out with the guy. He said he liked me and this guy is looking for a serious relationship. I am not, and I just want to be friends. We still talked on the phone, and online when I told him that I didn't want to be more than friends. Well he awlays got mad because he really likes me and he thought that if I talked to him more and more I would change my mind about going to visit him. He would always mumble stuff on the phone and I hated it so much. And when he did it another time, I was so pissed off. So I emailed him, told him that if hes trying to get me to come visit him that its not woking. That its rude to be saying what he says about me not coming to visit, and that he has to understand that we will only be friends. He understands but I'm scared he's not going to talk to me anymore. Because if he was trying to get me to change my mind.and if he knows its not working. I dont think he's going to try anymore. But this guy is so cool, and a great *friend* if he doesnt call this weekend I'm gonna be pretty sad. I regret sending the email, but on the other hand I dont regret it. Because I'm always hiding my feelings but this time I stood up for myself. Sorry its so long. I will rate you 5's!

If he doesnt call cuz he knows ur not gonna come visit him... hes not worth ur time... he should respect ur decisions!

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OK I have this "friend". Really she used to be my best friend, then I went away for the summer and she really started irritating me by talking about all these hot guys she's saying and how they all hit on her and how when I come back I get the less hotter one because she saw them first. WTF is that?! Do any of your friends do this? And plus, I KNOW for a fact that all of them do not hit on her because 1) She's honestly not that attractive. I'm prettier than her, and I don't really think I'm all that pretty anyway. 2) Whenever we went out together, which was quite alot, nobody ever hit on her. She'd always approach the guys she knew first.

Well anyway, back to what I was originally saying...over the summer things got different. After I got back things were not the same between her, me, and our other mutual friend. The mutual friend and I would still get online and call each other and hang out and stuff. But the main girl barely wanted anything to do with us. The one thing that set me off was one day we were all supposed to go to Ryan's (a steakhouse) which is 30 minutes away but this "friend" called and bailed on me (telling me she had a headache and didn't want to drive) like she always ALWAYS used to but I always took it from her. So I was pissed and asked my other friend to go hang out so we went to Wal-Mart and guess who pulled up right as we were walking home?

Yup you guessed it. So the other friend asked for a ride and the "friend" looked kinda irritated then hesitated. Since then I haven't spoken to her till a few days ago. Today she was suposed to take me to pick up my check from Subway, but she didn't. I called twice, left a message on her phone and on AIM but nothing. I knew she wasn't going to come which is why I made plans for someone else to take me.

My problem is, she wants me to go to her birthday party on Friday and since she's been such a terrible friend to me and done nothing but made me feel ugly when we were out together (by saying the hot guys were looking at her not me), and never keeping promises or plans...should I go? I mean normally I'm such a loyal person but I think she's just gone overboard with this. I'm sick of it.

I'm so sorry this was long...I just thought you all should nkow the whole story. Thanks for answering and I will rate you a 5 if you even put one sentence just because you read all this! :D

wow... well all i can say is that is not a tru friend... however friends come and go... life goes on... if you wanna go and u are comfortable going than go... but if u really dont feel like it... than dont... just tell her u have a headache hehe

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i have a Sony Psyche walkman. it's about a year old and it worked great. well just recently the music only started coming out of the left ear. i thought the batteries could be going, so i put new ones in and it's still the same. so whats wrong or how do i fix it? im pissed off cause it was a $50 walkman.

its probably just ur headphones... that happenz to me all the time...

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well im a freshman and im in this boys class i really like him and hes in 11th grade.. he always talks to me and is realy realy nice and always just looks back at me and smiles. last thursday night i went to a football game and he was there and sat next to me. friday in school he was like why didnt you even say hi to meee? and i said sorry and then he said why are you shy around me and i relized i liekd him, that was why!.. i started talking to him alot more and he talked to me on monday morning he came in class and talked to me right away and asked if i had a sister because he saw a girl that looked just like me.. my cousin said that thats kind of weird, she thinks he just wanted to talk to me, and its a weird pickup line i dunno lol.. he also said he lives nextdoor to my grandmother .. he still talks and always smiles to me in the hallway and i like him alot but i dont know if he likes me cuz hes always with other girls too... how can i get him to know i like him? thanks.. if you think i should tell him i like him tomorrow to his face or in a note, what should i say

if you really like him than go for it... if ur not sure than invite him to chill wit u & a group of friends... once u start chillen wit him more & more you'll know if u really like him & if he really likes you... :)

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ok im shy and i like this guy at my school. i dont know if he likes me or not. i dont kno what to do and how to find out or anything. i do notice that he looks at me sometimes. please help!!!

Go up to him and start talkin... suggest u him and a group of friends go chill

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Does anyone know a really good work-out that I could do every day? I know people are prolly always ask this but I am seriously wantin to work out and loose at least 10-15 punds at least. Thanks alot and I rate*
Later*

well the best way to work out is to do sumthin different everyday... if u do the same thing than ur body gets used to it and it has less effect Ride ur bike one day, go running another, Dance, play a sport u like with ur friends, always stretch before exercising... and watch what u eat... Coke is a killer...

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when i grow up i want to be a cosmotolegist. sorry if thats spelled wrong im in a hurry. but anyways i know they do face makeup but what else do they do? and how can i get started? im only 14..is there a site about a college that does that stuff. thanks

they do a LOT...

*hair cuts
*hair color- bleaching, highlighting, regular hair color
*Braiding- Corn Rows, Twists, Single braids, french braids
*Perming ( curly perm )
*relaxers ( str8tening )
*manicures- Regular manicures, Acrylic, nail design
*Pedicures
*Waxing
and much more... u should see if u can take cosmetology in ur school as an elective... if not talk to ur counselor and ask if u can take that as an academy class in another school or sumthing... the amount of money they make depends on where u live... and what exactly u wanan do... if u start of as a cosmetologist and either buy ur own Salon or open ur own... you'll be makin plenty of money Hollah at me if u wanna knO morE

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I was talking to my ex and he said that my bestfriend "buth" said something about the guy i liked. I think it was something like, "he doesn't like her like that, and they'll never got out!" I don't know what to do. I'm totally lost in waht i should do. Should I ask her if she said something like that or what?

Yeah you should str8 up ask her... if she gets madd just say... Hey thats what i heard and i was checkin wit u

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