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ok my friend.. is soo amazing... she is absolutely beautiful... infact all the guys say she is the prettiest/ hottest.. out of our school (we have a very big school)... she is 16.. and she is soo freaking awsome at sports she has lettered varsity for both tennis and track and was like number 1 on both.. like got all the track girl awards and went to state 4a both years in track and is just pure amazing.. she also has a 4.0 and im pretty sure she is teh smartest in our class... she also is soo incredably nice, and funny, like she is soo much fun to hang out w/, and soo crazy, but in a good way... like she is real not one of those fake girls... and she treats her boyfriends soo good but they always end up treating her like shit... i dont think she picks bad ones but somehow they never treat her good.... she deserves the best and i dont know what to do... like the theme song to her life would be lucky by britney spears... i just dont understand y guys arent better to her (link)
Hey there. I think the only reason guys treat her this way is because they don't understand. Most popular super hott guys are really rude and inconsiderate. Maybe she should try finding a guy that's shy, cute, and really really nice. Someone to fit the part of her personality that she doesn't show. She needs to find someone the exact opposite to fir her needs. Try to look for guys she wouldn't normally date and have them start talking. It should work.

=]hope it helped.


i don't like my advicenators name, but i don't know, is there a way to just change my name or display name without losing all the questions ive answered on my advice column?

thx a bunch! (link)
you can buy a piadaccount. its 10 dollars a year, and you can pay thorugh paypal


is there a website or something that allows you to get a new and different layout besides the ones provided on advicenators? ive seen a few people with layouts that arent from this site, and i was just wondering how they got them. please tell me how people do that. (link)
go to photobucket and type in something that you wan tas your background. such as hearts or something

then right click it and get the properties, and then highlight/copy the url.

then paste it in the profile settings



Okay, So some people say im pretty..
&& others well think im the ugliest thing in the world.I want opionons from strangers..? If that makes any sence..

heres my myspace for one.. www.myspace.com/meg_92

http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d111/oXoCutiex6/TONSOFMEBUDDYPIC2-1.jpg


http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d111/oXoCutiex6/picture14174.jpg


http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d111/oXoCutiex6/Picture14696.jpg


http://i34.photobucket.com/albums/d111/oXoCutiex6/8thgradegraduation.jpg


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yea youve got a really pretty face!

but i would suggest trying to tone your arms nd legs/thighs.


I was wondering if pay as you go cell phones are worth it? and if they are which phones are the best?

i was also wondering which cell phone plan is the best in your opinion? thank you! (link)
no not really. the total bill for a month comes outu to about the same as a normal phone. normal phones have better features.

the only thing good about a pay as you go is that you dont have a contract, so you can stop using it whenever you like (and not have to pay a fee)

but for ME, if i had a pay as you go, it would come out to be more expensive than a regular one, so i would suggest geting like a razr or somethin


Well, before the "in" thing was prep. Right? Well, now everyone is like be "original." Now, Original is becoming UnOriginal. I really don`t know what to do. Because I meen I want to be myself, and stand out. Before I was PREPPREPPREPPREP. & then I decided I wanted to become original because I got sick of everything. But, now, everyone wants to be Original, and its like a new trend. Original is suppose to be original!! not a TREND. I really dont know what to do anymore. I just want to be myself. 14/f.


ps im a REALLY bad speller (link)
prep was actually nvever really trendy where i lived, it still isnt kinda. like the prep with ribbons in the hair AND pearls is just wierd. (like its ok to wear one, but both on the same day? WITH a poolo?!?!)

when you say `i just want to be myself` that is actually what original `trend` is.

make your own style, like wear ribbons with an emo band shirt that says like acdc or something i dunno


hi im 18 years old and ever since i was about 6 and started painting my nails and that same day or after i eat the nail polish off my nails like i peel it off with my teeth. I have been doing it ever since and i told my aunt and shes like you STILL do that you can get stomach cancer or another crazy diesese! is this true?? how bad is it for you?? please help (link)
nail polish and nail polish remover are both very harmful. thats why if you use them as household inhalants, you can pass out, and even go into a coma.


maybe you should try bying this type ofclear nail polish that goes on top of reagular colored nail polish. it tastes really bad, so youll stop


15.f

Okay so last night i stayed at my boyfriends house.. I didn't sleep in the same room as him.. i was in his sisters room.. anyways..
We was watching a movie in the lounge and we started kissing and then we was touching each other like.. had our hands down each others trousers and underwear etc.. He got an erection.. and then he layed on top of me, still fully clothed and we kissed some more..
I am worrying that i could be pregnant even though we were fully clothed.. Because i no you can get pregnant through clothes etc..

But what is the possibility of me getting pregnant through his jeans and boxers AND my combats and thong? Like.. is this likely?
I dont know whether he came or not or anything.. and i didnt notice or feel anything wet\sticky on my combats.. But when i went to the toilet i noticed a tiny, tiny little stain, mark type thing kinda just above my private area but i dont think it went through.. infact it may of been something i spilt on there?

What do you think?
Also..
When i came home today i noticed my urine is a really dark colour and very warm to pass.. and i have been discharging a bit aswell.. My period isnt due for another week at MINIMUM.. and i am not or never have been sexually active

Any suggestions? i just really need to stop worrying or have some kind of reassurence or to know the truth about if this is possible because otherwise it might delay my period and i'll think the worst!
Sorry its long!
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in this situation, it is impossible to get pregnant


what do i do my dogs are attatched to human table food they won't touch dog food so i have to make them breakfast lunch and dinner. tell me how i can get them to eat dog food. please........ thank you (link)
its ok to feed them from off the table. the reason they keep coming to you though, is cuz they know that you will feed them.

just feed them occasionally from the table, and they WILL eat their dog food. thats what happens with my dog; she eats chicken at night if we have some, but then after a few hours, realizing shes still hungry, she goes and eats her own food


hey everyone... im 13/f and I have a serious problem sweating underneath my arms. I have tried a couple special deoderants, but they didn't work. Once I started shaving my under-arms last year was when all the sweating started.I heard there was a shot you could get to stop/not swaet as much...?? If anyone has ANYY info on this shot(name, price, where i can get it....) plzzzzzzz help me!!!!Thankx
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the shot is botox. it lasts for up to 6 months, and can cost about $300-500 (at least thats how much it costs around where i live)

i would suggest certain dri. its good


ok well i was wondering what color eye shadow would really bring out my eyes.. make em "pop" & just be bright. my eyes are round and kind of a denim/dark blue.. blonde hair & kinda light/average skin.

ok well picture::: http://i20.photobucket.com/albums/b235/xo_kristin/PICT1718.jpg
my skins a lil darker than that now tho if that helps! thx! (link)
if you want to make your eyes pop, what would be best fo ryou is to wear white eyeliner on the inside of your eylids (above the eyelashes) then if you want, you could black on the bottom.

so its basically just like you picture, but switch the places of the black & white


I am 13/f and most people say that I am pretty, but I don't think that it's true. I will only rate if you are truly honest.

here's afew pics
http://pic18.picturetrail.com/VOL902/4402235/9316805/141427576.jpg
http://pic18.picturetrail.com/VOL902/4402235/9316805/141427594.jpg
http://pic18.picturetrail.com/VOL902/4402235/9316805/132455450.jpg (link)
yea you`re really pretty! but if you want to go for gorgeous, i would suggest going to a salon and getting you eyebrows trimmed or waxed, but nothing too major.


Im a guy,17,and i'm only 5'6.So do you guys have any idea what age guys stop growing?And what do I take to help my growing? calcium? protien? what type of food should I eat and what exercises should I do? (link)
Bahhh don't listen to the people that are saying you already finished growing. I don't know how you can get taller but guys don't stop growing until 21 or 22--ask your doctor. My cousin was 5'7 his senior year of high school and now he's 6'0. Just hang in there. Calcium makes your bones stronger, which is good, but I doubt anything will actually make you grow. Compare your height to men in both sides of your family; you should fall around the same height.


i didnt know what to put this under but whatever.

so im a cheerleader and all the cheerleaders are popular. but the thing is none of the popular people like me. i used to hang out with them and be wicked popular but not anymore. i love my friends to death but it seams like all the popular people get the guys . im not trying to sound stuck up or anything like that.

if this helps-- im wicked preppy i shop at abercrombie . im a ton of fun and everyone says im very pretty. (link)
Uh, what's the question. You're just stuck up. Spend time with your family. Go read the Bible.


I'm 16 and desperate for a job. So I posted a "resume" online (even though I had almost nothing to put on it), and someone e-mailed me with a job at Home Depot. They said that the job was in marketing and I would only work weekends.

My question: what is marketing? What do you think I would be doing at Home Depot and do you think I'll be one of those people who has to lift wood and other heavy stuff (I'm not very strong)? Thank you! (link)
Marketing has to do with buying and selling. I don't know why they'd offer a 16-year-old with that job since it has to do with everything a company does to advertise. So, my guess is that you'll probably be working as a cashier.


E-mail whoever sent you the job offer and ask what you'd be going and what your responsibilities would be.


Sorry if this is the wronge caregory.

My boyfriend of over a year has finially decided to teach me to play pool. He's 20, and has been playing since he was 10. So he is super good. Prob. is I'm super bad. I mean on a scale of 1-10 I'm like a negative 100.

Does anyone have any tips or websites that will help me out?

Thanks. (link)
It doesn't matter if you're really bad; he's going to teach you right?! Half the fun will be him fixing your mistakes and showing you his moves and techniques. Just go with it and let him do his thing.


But since you want tips, I found this really good site that teaches shots and such.


http://www.stickmen.co.nz/html/pooltips.html


What's the song that goes, "If being fresh to death is a crime then show me the jury"? Me and my friend like to make fun of stupid rap songs and I can't remember which song that is! THanks. (link)
Get Up by Ciara ft. Chamillionare i think

its from the step up soundtrack


Okay so my father thinks he can just destroy our house completely and then fix it up all by himeself. so my qindows in my room are falling apart and he decides to rip up all the grass and build a patio. and whenever i complain to my mother she just tells me to go away. what can i do????? (link)
Hello,

Sit down with your father and have a little chat about the windows in your room. Tell him in a really adult manner that they are falling apart and that you want HIM to help you fix them.

By emphasizing that HE be the one to help, he may view it as a challenge. From how you briefly describe him, I get the impression he enjoys challenges. So, when you emphasize that HE help you, he probably will put it on his to do list.

Tell him why you need new windows, and have the talk in your room, so you can give him "evidence" he can see and touch.

Why go to your mother when your Dad could help fix the windows?

By suggesting a company could do it probably wouldn't sit well with him, so ask him to do it, and he probably will and he might get a company to help.

Good Luck!



my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years and we have never had sex with different partners before. do you guys think we have a high chance of gettting a sti? we have always used condoms but now we want to stop using them because i started taking birth control pills. we plan to be married in the future, but i am afraid of getting an sti or something like. he got tested and nothing was wrong or anything. but i was still wondering how high of a risk i have to get a sti? (link)
if he was checked and you both daont have any then you should be fine.....but i suggest you still use condoms too with the birth control so you have a better chance of not getting pregnant


okay i'm 14 years old and my dad has been in jail for about 7 years because he almost shot a guy and about 3 weeks ago i wrote him a letter and now he wants me to write him more and come see him in september and im not sure what i should do because this subject is really hard for me and im not really ready to see him yet but my grandparents keep pressuring me to see him and i feel bad about not seeing him because he's my dad and he probably wants to see me really bad i just dont know what to do because i dont want to hurt anyones feelings but im also not ready to see him yet
what do you guys think i should do ?
thanks (link)
wow my dad has been in jail my whole life and so i never really got to know him...he is out now but still i dont see him.....i would write to him otherwise your missing out on a whole lot! september is a month away so you have more time to think about it......if the time comes and you still do not want to see him well then that's is your decision but explain in a letter how your feeling if you were to see him and why your not ready yet....i sure do hope i helped!....if you need any more help leave one in my inbox...♥ terri




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