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i didnt know what to put this under but whatever.
so im a cheerleader and all the cheerleaders are popular. but the thing is none of the popular people like me. i used to hang out with them and be wicked popular but not anymore. i love my friends to death but it seams like all the popular people get the guys . im not trying to sound stuck up or anything like that.
if this helps-- im wicked preppy i shop at abercrombie . im a ton of fun and everyone says im very pretty.
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well popularity isnt everything so it really shouldnt matter that your popular or not, all that matters is that you have good friends and not all jocks and cheerleaders are popular.. and you cant really depend on looks and the way you act to be popular i think the problem is that your tryin to hard to be popular again and you really should just be yourself and people are only popular because of their personality and everyone gets along with them.. and its not true that all the popular people get the guys thats just bull because if your a good perosn you can get a guy and have good friends and at the end when your saying that you shop at abercrombie and that your preppy and that people say your pretty that's just showing that your kinda all about yourself and that u think or know that your pretty and shopping at abercrombie doesnt make your popular its just clothes its not like if you act preppy and shop at preppy places and get popular because if that was true everyone would be doing that
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Get over yourself the goal is not to be popular but to be happy. By the way saying that you shop at abercrombie doesnt help people with their advice one bit, ur just trying to show off. Get over urself and get real friends.
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Uh, what's the question. You're just stuck up. Spend time with your family. Go read the Bible.
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UM YOU SOUND LIKE THE BIGGEST IDIOT ISNT THAT SUPER WICKEDD??
lisen babycakes,i'm a cheerleader and i wear abercrombie and people also say that i'm pretty
just because your all of these thing doenst make you super popular.
kk? maybe you should wake up and smell the bacon
no wonder they dont like you
you sound like a bitch
and now you sound stupid because you dont even
have a question.
omg your wicked awesome friend.
ALEX.!
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I have the same problem and the only and BEST advice I can give you is to stop trying to FIT in with people. Be yourself...if people dont like you for who you are then they dont deserve to have you as a friend. Im sure your a really good person and fun to be around...just accept and love yourself and your REAL friends and people will too. Dont try and change to please or try to fit in with other people..it only makes you stuck up and fake/phony/flaw...and then people will see right through you...I hope you take my advice and dont think im trying to sound too stuck up...Good luck with this.
-Keosha
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Being popular is not the most important thing in the world. You can still be a cool person with great friends and be in the middle of the social ladder. And remember, just because you're a cheerleader does not guaruntee you to be popular. Make new friends and still be good acquaintances with the nicer of the popular people.
All the popular people get the guys because guys like who their friends like. They are so not like us, where we get into catfights about who gets who. You're looking for a guy who will break away from the crowd just to be with you. And that's what you deserve. So, don't be like those dimwits who change their boyfriend as often as they do their underwear. Its not worth it.
Also... its great that you're confident about your looks and personality, but sometimes it may come off cocky. Add a little modesty to the mix and you'll be making tons of friends in no time.
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Sounds to me that you care about your reputation more then anything. Yea cool your a cheerleader but that doesnt mean you get the label of popular. Yea you say cheerleaders are popular but alot of people also think cheerleaders are stuck up & think they rule the school.
maybe the other cheerleaders dont like to hang out with you because the way you act. I dont know you so im not saying thats the truth but it could be.
the clothing you wear does not make you popular or preppy.
The way you act and your personality is what makes more people like you.
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Have you ever noticed that the people who think they're popular are only popular among their friends? Also, being popular isn't about what clothes you wear or who you hang out with. It's about being nice to everyone and everyone liking you for that. If they don't want to be friends with you, it's not your fault. They're probablly snobby anyways and I don't think that you're doing anything wrong with getting guys. All you have to do is be flirty and fun. Guys like when you give them attention and just be yourself.
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