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well ok i have a friend thats a gay guy and i know it wrong that i hang out with him juts to make my crush mad!!but i think its fun bc we check out guys together and and we even shop together!! is this soooo wrong??????

its not wrong to have a gay guy as a friend... but its wrong if you are just friends wit him to use him...

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Hey, I have this friend and well shes obsessed with Ireland. And she also looks Irish, which adds to the obsession. Well she met this guy on an irish-penpal thing and they email and write to eachother. I read one of his letters and he calls her like "Princes Jenny" and all that good stuff. Well, shes going to Ireland and its not just because of the guy. Shes always wanted to go but shes gonna meet him there. Shes 16, hes 21..and I'm kinda worried..I joke around saying "If you get raped, I'll kill you" But I really dont think meeting this guy is a good idea. Should I tell her something or is it not my buisness? Thanks~

yeah you should tell her... let her know how u feel about this... say that u are tellin her this cuz u care about her & u dont want anything badd to happen to her...

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I just bought sims 2 today and i was soo excited to finally get it. When i started playing it though, my computer kept freezing and moving really really slowly! I'm soo frustrated i'm ready to chuck it out the friggin window..any idea whats wrong?

that happend to my computer too... i couldnt use Adobe... & surf the net at the same time... it was too much for my comp... so if u have dial-up... that might be the reason that it freezes... dont have any other programs open when u play sim... try that & see how it works... the answer to ur quesiton is... that u probably dont have enuff memory...

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I always look too young. I'm a junior and everyone around me looks like they're a junior- but I could be confused with a freshman! I have brown never died hair thats like 6 inches longer than my shoulder with bangs that sweep to the side kinda across my eye. Any suggestions on hair? also, I have brown eyes so if u know ne ways to do my make up that'd be great too! I need to look older! Oh and- how can i dress to look older? Thanks so much! I RATE!

bangs make a lot of girls look younger... grow them out... & try a different hair style... make-up makes girls look older... try using eye-liner...

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there this boy who like me.. but i dont like him..he is annoyin he alwayz botherin me.he alwayz follow me.everytime in school i see him he he be alwayz next 2 me..then afterschool we go 2 the same church and he bothers me there to..how can i tell him,in a nice way, that i dont like him..and for him 2 leave me alone

tell him hes a nice guy... but ur not interested... & the way he acts makes u uncomfortable...

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What age do you consider to be old enough to have a baby. Not like.. "when you feel you are ready" or anything like that.. i mean like.. 16.. 20..

how old do you think someone should be before they have a baby?

mid-twenties...

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ok i like this guy that i sit behind in my class and my friend said i should write him a note saying hey call me later or something n give him my number but im not like her id like freak out idk just be nervous cuz what if he laughs or is thinking wtf? cuz i dont know if he'd like me but i think he used to! idk what i should do...if i should just start talking to him a lot or just stop. whats a good way to talk to him without making it obvious that i have a crush on him? thanks people!~

start talkin to him... get to know him... & once u do say hey... can i get ur number... incase im absent... i can call u ask what i missed... u can call him & act like u need help with HW... & after he helps u start talkin to him...

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Okay well i told one of my ex bf that i loved him like in the end of the converstion and hung up before he said anything now today when we were chattig i told him that my brothers were making fun of him and he got all tough boy like and he never acts that way ad what not.he began cussing and he know that i hate when he cusses.so i told him ill stop talking to him and then he was like okay bye.so now we arn't talking and it sucks. i miss him and he seems like he doesnt even care about me should i just let it go i dunno!help

yeah you should just let it go... if he doesnt care u shouldnt either... im sure there are plenty of people who care about u... ur friends & family... pay attention to them... you'll be happier that way

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hey i'm the girl whose walkman was broken because the sound was only coming out of the 1 ear. well it wasnt the headphones because i put other headphones in and it still didnt work, so i want to know if there is a place where i can get my walkman looked at/repaired. i have a Sony Psyche and i HEARD that they don't make them anymore, so where could bring it to get it fixed? my mom doesnt remember where she bought it. and would it be cheaper to get it repaired or should i just buy a new one? i have no idea. and i feel bad because we dont really have alot of money right now.

radio shak repairs cd players... but it would probably just be cheaper for you to get a new one... try Wal*mart... they have sum for $10

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Okay, well me and my boyfriend are pretty close. His friends are my friends and my friends are his. So we all go places and hang out together all the time. Well, it kind of seems like whenever we are together, me and him cant get away from each other! I mean dont get me wrong thats not a bad thing, but I'm starting to think that my friends are thinking that I need to stop being around him so much, and I dont have time for them. I love my friends, and i love my bf, but how can I balance all of those relationships? When me n him are together sometimes we get all kissy and we are hugging and everything and sometimes it feels weird becuase my friends tell me its so cute, but I think they are annoyed. What can i do?

I Will Rate HigH! ThAnKs!
sIgnEd,
*cOnfUsEd*

try to balance ur time... cuz they may think its cute now... but eventually they will get annoyed... try to divide ur time wit them... chill wit ur friends on a fri.. & chill wit ur boi on a sat... or vice versa...

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I really need to find out whats wrong with me. Im almost 17 and ive never had a bf or my first kiss. Not to sound conceited, but TONS of people talk about how "gorgeous" and "nice" I am. Some people WONT even beleive me when i tell them ive never had a bf. I always see these nasty, uglier, RUDE girls get ALL these guys. But ive never even had one. I guess maybe its cuz im shy around people i dont know, but if you talk to me im NOT. Ive became more outgoing and flirted with guys.. but i cant seem to find anyone im actually interested in. I just wanna know what it feels like to have a bf. (I dont just want one to have one.) I feel almost like im missing out on my teen years. Sometimes i even get depressed thinking im doing something wrong. Any advice?

Most teenage guys just want to have sex... those rude girls probably have BFz cuz they are giving them ass... teenage guys do NOT care about how pretty or ugly a girl is... all they care about is what that girl is going to give them... & believe it or not... sum people dont get their first kiss untill they hit college... its really not a big deal... you should wait for sum1 special to come along... you'll feel really good if you do

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ok my friend emily just told me that she thinks my crush that i have neva told anyone about might like me......she says that he treats me different than any otha gurl
like this one time that i didnt think was a big deal but he gave me gum wen i asked and no one else...oh and he let me copy 2 questions off his hw but wen my friend askd he said yea right n walkd away....
i dont kno wat to do ...do i ask him ..but if he says he dont like me people are gonna laugh at me......or he might lie and say he doesnt but really does..idk plzzz plz help me.....should i ask him or not

first dont ever worry about what other people are gonna think or say... second get to know him more... & let him know how u feel... never hide ur feelings... they might feel the same way about you... & if they dont its ok... but you have to ask... or your really gonna regret it

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ok a few weeks ago i got a hair cut and i got my bangs cut but they look horrible cuz my hair cutter did them all wrong does anybody no of a type of shampoo or a way to make them grow faster or simply just a way to make them look good

if it helps im 13/f and i have bright blonde hair

~!~Lizzy~!~

ive taken cosmetology... & theres no way to make ur hair grow faster... what i used to do when i had bangs is curl em... u can either do this with a big bumper curling iron... or a round brush... be careful wit the curling iron,the way to curl ur bangs wit a brush is... wet ur hair... wrap ur bangs around the brush... & blow dry it while u brush it round & round... if you do it rite it will turn out really nice... another thing u can do is put ur bangs to the side if they are long enuff.. you can massage almond, or olive oil into ur hair... but its not going to make ur hair grow faster ( thats a myth ) all it does is stimulate ur scalp and promote healthy hair growth...

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Does anyone know of a website to post pics on. Like either a photo album one or an actual website one. I don't want Picture Trail, EasyDesigner, Xanga, or Xprofile. If you know of any others that are user friendly, let me know! Thanks! -Free2bMe :)

www.hometown.aol.com... i got one there... cheQ it out

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How do you take a pregnancy test like at home? No im not pregnant im just wondering.

Its a urine test... u pee on a stick... & it detects the pregnancy horomone... it gives u a certain picture if ur pregnant...

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okay i think i might get coloured contacts (just the ones that change the color cuz i have good vision) and i dont know much of anything about all this obviously so how do i know the size or w/e...??? im confused do i gotta go get em n see a doc...or cuz i went on this website w/ ctonacts that i want n it says like 600 or 000 or eh idk help! thanks by the way im the chick that asked about the pink contacts lol thankz.

You cant buy contact lens without a prescription... even if u have perfect vision... they still make u take an eye exam... to supposedly "measure ur eye" but i think they just do that to make money... im pretty sure u wont be able to buy any online without having an exam cuz they ask for the prescription & doctor name...

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ok, fellow advicenators, help plz. ok, i like this guy let's just call him uhmmm Joey. ok Joey. and Joey is so much fun to be around. and everyone flirts with Joey, but Joey likes me. but when i tried to hook up with Joey he starts sayin all this about crap he wanna do with me. and im not a teenage whore. so i wanna know an easy way to let him know i'm not interested anymore. any ideas? 1x3 puppy

Just be honest wit him... tell him that yeah u are interested in him... but ur not ready to be sexually active...

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hi i just got my 3rd to last filling and im numb!! ive had novocaine before btu this time its relay bothering me!! does ne1 no how to make the numness go away because my mom just cooked a really good dinner and last tie i tried eating i chewed half of my lip up lol. and he always has to double on my novocaine because i have sensitive gums or whatsoever. i want to eat!! duz neone no how to get rid of the numbness or at least make it go away faster?? kthnx

Your supposed to put ice on it... if it doesnt go away when its supposed to... call ur doctor... he/she shoulda given you a paper telling you what to do... & he should have an emergency number

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I was great friends with a group of people last year. We did everything together and we were the best of friends. This year, I got friendly with some new people and I started dating one of them. I love him more than the world and I have so much fun with this new group of people. The thing is, my old friends don't see me anymore and we don't hang out as much. Now my best friend of all is really upset with me and we aren't chatting at all. I don't know what to do, I love my boyfriend and I wanna spend every breathing minute with him and our friends but I'm leaving my old friends behind.

you should all go out... ur new friends & ur old friends... the more the merrier

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my friend is being extremely annoying. most of our group of friends got into advanced 9th classes (we're in 8th) and she didn't. she constantly says she's stupid and we're all smarter than her, and that isn't true. (she was probably 1 point away from getting in advanced anyway.) whenever she looks at our books, she makes a face and rolls her eyes. now, i can understand why she's upset, but we all know and it's getting really old really fast. what can i tell her to stop this??

things are not always going to happen her way... & you just have to accept that and get on wit ur life... tell her that u guys feel bad for her... but she should stop complaining cuz its going to get her & everyone else around her down... she should work hard this year so she can get into advanced classes next year

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