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I said i love you
Okay well i told one of my ex bf that i loved him like in the end of the converstion and hung up before he said anything now today when we were chattig i told him that my brothers were making fun of him and he got all tough boy like and he never acts that way ad what not.he began cussing and he know that i hate when he cusses.so i told him ill stop talking to him and then he was like okay bye.so now we arn't talking and it sucks. i miss him and he seems like he doesnt even care about me should i just let it go i dunno!help
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He's only trying to act tough!!! He probably does really care about you but he doesn't want to show it because like you said he is trying to act tough. Maybe that day you were talking to him, something happened earlier and he was just having a bad day. Be mature, show him you care. Be the first one to call him.
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yeah you should just let it go... if he doesnt care u shouldnt either... im sure there are plenty of people who care about u... ur friends & family... pay attention to them... you'll be happier that way
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He sounds really confused. Try to call him, and if he doesn't answer his phone leave him a message saying like "I'm sorry, I really miss you and I just feel like you don't care about me. We really need to talk, please call me back" but you might not want to leave a message like that on his home answering machine because other people might hear it, so try his cell phone and if worst comes to worst IM him or write him a note. Personally, I don't write notes or IM people about important stuff because I think its better to tell them in person or actually talk to them, but if its the only way you can get ahold of him, then go for it. Ask him if he wasn't talking to you because he is mad @ you or doesn't care about you and be honest with him. Tell him you miss him and you told him you loved him because you meant it. Theres nothing wrong with a girl liking or loving a guy its normal and a girl might have never told him she loved him before and now he looks at you differently, not just as a girlfriend but like..as a lover. It probably just made things ackward for him because he didn't know how to react and got tough because thats the first thing he thought of. Don't forget guys get upset when they're made fun of..so I wouldn't bring that up for awhile. But I would talk to him and ask him if everything is alright or if theres a reason why he got tough acting and started cussing and that it really made you upset and you miss him. Let me know how it wokrs out and if you need more advice!
=) HoPe I HeLpEd!
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hey! some guys dont know how to take it when you tell them that you love them. i dont know how old you are, but maybe thats what happened to him. also, maybe he was annoyed that your brothers made fun of him and maybe he wanted to show off for you to prove you that he can be tough. and the reason why he isnt talking to you may be because he doesnt wants to be all tough still. he probably doesnt know what to think. leave him some times to think, even if its hard cause you miss him. if he doesnt come back then he's an asshole cause he doesnt know what he's missing, i'm sure you're a great person! hope this helped!
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i think he was just overwhelmed by when you told him you loved him adn he didnt know what to do or say or how to handle it bc maybe he didnt exactly feel the same way. so maybe you should just try talking to him about it or just forget the whole thing and act like nothing happened. i hope i helped! -kayla
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Just call him and leave a message and say sorry..He probably does still like you but doesnt like when you say not to cuss.
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