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ok, fellow advicenators, help plz. ok, i like this guy let's just call him uhmmm Joey. ok Joey. and Joey is so much fun to be around. and everyone flirts with Joey, but Joey likes me. but when i tried to hook up with Joey he starts sayin all this about crap he wanna do with me. and im not a teenage whore. so i wanna know an easy way to let him know i'm not interested anymore. any ideas? 1x3 puppy
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There is a simple way to get rid of Joey: IGNORE HIM. Do not make any contact with him what so ever! Pretend Joey does not exsist.
If the problem with Joey persists I suggest look for help at a higher level ( teacher, parent) but I don't think it will be necessary if you follow my advice.
Good Luck
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You could tell him that it's what he wanted to do with you that made you uninterested. Maybe he'll change and you'll like him again. But if that's not going to happen. Just be honest with him in a nice way. "Joey, your such a great, fun person to be around with, but I just wanna be friends". Then explain to him that if you too both hooked up then broke up, things would be different and it could ruin your friendship with him (It almost always does!)....~good luck!~
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The next time that he tells you all the things that he wants to do with you tell him that you really used to like him but when he started saying things like that to you that you really lost interest but still want to be his friend. When he hears this and you prove to him that you really don't want to hear it then he will stop if he really likes you and doesn't just want to sleep with you. A guy wants what he can't have. If you show him that he isn't going to get it he will just be attracted to you more and if his like goes more than physical then he will alter his attitude to be with you. Good luck and keep your morals up... :)
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Just be honest wit him... tell him that yeah u are interested in him... but ur not ready to be sexually active...
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The next time he asks you if you want to go out with him you can tell him that you want to go out with him too but you are not a whore so don't espect you to do anything like that. That way he knows that you want to go out with him but you just don't want to do certain things with him. I hope that I helped.
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