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the guy i like doesn't want to talk to me anymore becuse the last time i saw him i wasn't even acting like i like him{{ i was being shy}} well what should i do i mean i dont want our friendship to end i really like this guy. Should I call him or should i just wait and see if he'll unblock me?{{beucase i dont want to be one of those bugging chicks}}??? (link)
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Hey there. Okay well for starters, you seem pretty level headed and it's good that you don't want to be one of those bugging chicks! Guys are weird sometimes and they can sometimes back off if they feel like you don't like them as much as they thought you did. Don't let yourself think that you did anything wrong. Guys just have an insecurity thingy about it! But heres what you can do to fix this situation and at LEAST be friends with him still: Call him and just tell him exactly what you told me! That you were being shy (because you like him) and that you really care about him and you want to continue to at least be friends. Tell him you are sorry if you made him feel like you didn't care. Don't seem too pushy though when you do this. Just speak from your heart. You can't go wrong. Just tell him exactly how you are feeling and also tell him that even if he doesn't like you that okay and that you still want to be his friend. That will show him a lot of character. Then tell him -"okay well I've told you how I felt so now the ball is in your court"- Then either hang up (don't forget to say bye, ttyl) or wait for his reply. If he doesn't reply right away that's okay! He still may be uneasy! Give it a little bit of time. if he acts like a jerk though and seems totally uninterested-just act cool and tell him "Your loss". There are tons of guys out there. Anyways, Good luck!! :)
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I need a good way to study for my exam in Algebra 2...any suggestions? (link)
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Hey- I can help you with this one..I have a big Algebra 2 test tomorrow!!
Here are some things you can do:
-Make flashcards with important info on them and have someone quiz you
-Look over your notes
-Work over all the problems you missed on homework and quizzes or W.S.
-Ask a friend from class to ask you some important facts to know
-Get cliff notes for Algebra 2 and use those
-Go in early or after school to ask a teacher for some help
-Find an online webpage that gives you practice quizzes
-Do the review if given one
These are the things I do: I also sometimes go to a tutor if I need one for that specific chapter or I get in study group with people taking the same class. I ask them questiosn and we swap info.
Good luck..what's your test over- mine is over All algebra one and some weird equation things! Hehe!! -:)
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I'm a student that needs the time to figure school work out... and take my time on stuff... but between HorseBack Ridin, School Work, My Babysitting Jobs, and an Athletic Trainer after school.. well I just don't know how to balance it.. any advice?
" Ask Lia " (link)
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Well you sound very determined. First and foremost keep doing what's important to you the most as well as SCHOOL WORK!! Those two things should ALWAYS be on the top of your priority list. Next, think about all the things you do in one day -how much down time do you have? do you ever say "omg im so bored im gunna go watch some tv" It is okay to say this some of the time but if you often find yourself in this position and still struggling to keep up with everything..you need to reorganize and reprioritize!!!
You may want to start by making a schedule for the week..
EX: 7:30 AM-2:30PM-school
2:30-4:30 -trainer
5-30-eat/hw
6-8 horseback riding
and so on and so forth
i don't know your exact schedule but that was just to give you an idea. Try to only babysit on set nights of the week and let the people you babysit for know up front so you don't feel bad telling them no at the last minute. If you have down time in other clases at school-start on your homework-when you are waiting at a doctors office do your hw. make time when you can get it.
make a schedule and leave time for hanging out, having fun, and living life!!!
If you need help cordinating it let me know!!- :)
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I'm 21 years old, but I already have an almost constant back pain. Can anyone tell me a daily exercise I could do to make my back stronger and less likely to get strained when I pick up a piece of paper? (link)
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Hi-it is possible that this constant back pain you are having to endure is something more than it appears. I'm not saying it's not okay for your back to hurt you and get stiff and cause pain- but it shouldn't be a constant pain. I'm not too sure specifically what excersizes would be good for your back as I'm not aware of where exactly in the back your pain is occuring BUT here are some suggestions..
First-go to a massage therapist for about an hour and see if they can break up some of the pain that you are having..if you can't afford that you can have a friend put their elbow on some parts of you back that may be the most tense..or they can try to use something as simple as a rolly thing on your back to relieve tension. Or you could go to a massage place and ask for one of the students to work on you-it would be about 30 dollars instead of 60 for 1 hour. I find that it is money well spent.
Another thing to consider- You could go to a chiropractor-they are a little more costly but they can help some people tremendously and help with range of motion (picking up a peice of paper becomes easier Also, they do a series of tests that get to the root of your pain.
Also- you may have a condition called Fibromialga ( I think I spelled it corectly) It is a diagnosis that many doctors are very hesitant to call it but many suffer from it. There are several symtons of this -you can search it up on google..but one of them is constant pain some days worse than others..also a sensitivity to the outdoors or bright colors..headaches..etc.
And lastly- you could visit a back specialist of a family phsycian...they could either give you medicine (be careful as some can do more damage than good) or they may suggest surgery..I would steer clear of that.
Oh and as for the excersize check out some websites or go to your gym and ask a trainer what the best thing for you to be doing is for your specific situation. Good luck. If you need any more info let me know! :)
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Well there is this guy in my dance class ( I swear he's not gay) and I like him a lot and all my dance friends say he likes me and I like him too, and I've told my best friend about him and she said make a move but i don't know if it's right for a girl to make a move on a guy( I don't really think I'll be good at it), plus i think he has a girlfriend and another girl likes him in class(she's my friend too) what should i do... (link)
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First off, don't worry about what other people think. (Including the guy!) I could tell right off the bat that you were a little afraid to announce that he was in dance! There is no shame in that! That's hott!! Okay, so your best friend is right to an extent- you should make a mov (not a sexual one) but a slightly flirty/friendly one! In dance, strike up a casual convo with him to let him know that you are interested and you are curious as to whether or not he is interested. Say something like: I think it's awesome you're in dance...if I had a boyfriend and he were in dance I think that would make us closer because that would be something we have in common...then say: Is it like that for you and your girlfriend? By saying these simple statements you get the point across that you have taking a liking towards him and you are interested and he can see that you are curious about things!! If he answers back " I don't have a girlfriend"....then YAY and go from there- If it turns out he has another girlfriend-bummer, but there are lots of fishies in the sea! Don't be too scared to do this- you have nothing to lose...and if for some reason he is totally not interested and is like rude and like UGH im not interested be like uhmmm ME NEITHER I was just trying to be friendly...that way you play it cool either way..just whatever happens-dont stress it--have fun! :)
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ok... i have a really good guy friend . me and him met eachother a few months ago, cause he doesnt go to my skool. plans changed- so hes coming to my skool when it starts in september. im excited as ever that me and him will be able to hang out more, but not excatly estatic. i have friends, but not the ones hes starting to hang out with. hes meet some guys and girls in my school who i dont like- and i think hes going to ditch me for them. also, we have no classes together. how do i keep this alive? (link)
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Okay, first of all stop the stressing and worrying. Everything happens for a reasons and things always work out for the best whether it seems like it or not. Just give things time. But about this whole situation more specifically: You can totally keep this "thing" you and this guy have going if that is what you BOTH really want. There's no law that says that you have to LOVE your boyfriends friends. That's okay. Y'all can still hang out together one on one and have tons of fun!!! and LIVE LIFE! If he ditches you for them then he obviously isn't as great as you may have thought. But who knows, it may turn out that you get to know his new friends better and you start to like them. You have to give everybody a chance. People may surprise you. It's okay that you don't have classes together- maybe you will have lunch together- if not big deal. You could call him after school and talk on the phone or you could even ask him to come over nad help you with homework or you could study together. He could also walk you to class. You could hang out on the weekends. Go to his games if he plays sports and he could do the same if you do too. You could write him notes and slip em in his locker. Talk to him on the net. Email. There are tons of things you could do. Just remember to not force it and be yourself and have fun. Let things take their natural force. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. If not, it's just a boy and you'll meet others!!!! LIVE- :)
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I'm 13 and i havent had a serious boyfriend yet..is something wrong with me? (link)
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Okay, here's the qucik answer. No!!! NOTHING IS WRONG WITH YOU!! Now, to further explain this: 13 is very young. I know you are now in junior high and it seems like anybody and everybody that you know is now with someone. Well, that's okay too. But, the thing to remember is...there's no rule saying you have to be 13 and have a serious boyfriend. You can't rush things like that. You have to let them take their own course. Even though it may seem like all of your friends are having "serious relationships" right now, they really aren't. You can't really have one of those at your age. You have not had enough life experience yet. I'm not saying it's not okay to like guys and go out to the movies (usually in groups) at your age, but you shouldn't feel weird or left out if you aren't one of those people. Some people don't have serious relationships until COLLEGE! So, you have plenty of time. The thing to remember is, no matter hwere you go or what you do and with whom, just HAVE FUN and LIVE LIFE! You have plenty of time for relationships. Just have fun while you can. And if a boy comes along and things happen to get serious..well then OKAY! But, if not just enjoy life and hang out with tons of people (girls and guys). Goof off!! 13 years old isn't the time to be tied down and have serious things to deal with!! Just live it up!!! Don't worry about a thang..:)
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my boyfriend is such a dumass and wants to know what materbating is! to believe hes lik 19!(im 17 thou) (link)
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Well, uhm okay this is kind of an odd question, but you asked so I'm going to answer. That's kind of odd that both of you don't know at your age, but okay. Masterbating is the act of pleasuring oneself like sexually. This goes for both males and females. A female would plessure herself by touching and doing things to her vagina and a male would touch and do things to his penis. But yeah, in short..it's pleasuring yourself..it's pretty natural for guys to do it a lot also. Hope I helped.
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i met this guy dan on halloween 2002 .. and i loved him ever since i layed my eyes on him .. we did go out 6 timez but he went out wif my best friend like 20 ! and i reely love him and she even knows that .. im soo confused .. i dont know how to get him bakk .. ;) plzz helpp mee
x0xO MayA x0xx (link)
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Well, first of all love is an awesome thing if you know how to handle it. The fact that you went out with this guys 6 different times makes it sound suspicious to me. Is he scared of commitment? Can he not make up his mind? Does he not care as much as you do? Is his heart not in it? --Have you asked yourself any of these questions..if not, you need to. Also, the fact that he went out with your best friend is totally crappy. First of all it was crappy of your best friend to do that ESPECIALLY if she knew how you felt about him. Best friends don't do that! That's like a dagger to the heart. Also, he shouldn't of gone out with your best friend. Does he have no dignity? And it's not just ONCE 20 times you said. Ibviously this guy has issues. He seems immature and inexperienced to me and prbably know how he's got you two girls all into him and he's playing off of it and in a way taking advantage. First, you should talk to your friend and explain to her AGAIN how you feel/felt and straighten things out with her. Then, you need to talk to this guy. Tell him you are hurt and confused by what he did. If he is SINCERELY sorry then begin to work things out so MAYBE you will get him back. If he isn't then this guy has a lot of growing up to do and as hard as it may be you need to begin to move on. This is too much immaturity and drama. But if you think all of what I am saying is crap and you don't like it, and you want to stay with someone that obviously doesn't care about you as you thought he did and who disrespects you...then just be yourself. That's the best way to get a guy. Be HONEST and REAL and YOURSELF. You are in control. But if he passes you up, you need to move on, you deserve better and more mature and a guy that wouldn't dream of going for anyone but you. He's out there! :)
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any good love songs? (link)
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There are tons of great love songs!
Here are just a few:
*So Help Me Girl -Joe Diffie
*Little Moments-Brad Paisly
*Out of My League-Stephen Speaks
*Pieces of Me-Ashlee Simpson
*My Best friend-Tim McGraw featuring Faith Hill
*She thinks She needs me -Andy Griggs
*I Lost it-Kenny Chesney
*I Got You Babe-Sonny and Cher
Those are just a few..if you need some more let me know..music is my life and i LOVE lovey dovey songs!!! :)
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idk if i should have sex yet i think about it alot i want to try but then when i wit the guy my body is tellin me a whole different story if u know what u me i just dont know what 2 do
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More and more everyday, people are taking and treating sex as just a "casual" thing. That is everything it's NOT. Sex is a big deal. There are so many things to consider when discussing the topic of sex. The fact that there is ANY doubt whatsoever in your mind and/or body on whether or not you should go ahead and have sex tells you right then that you aren't as ready as you think you may be. Sure there are a lot of people your age and even younger that have sex all the time. Everybody is different. No one can make the decision for you to have sex except YOU! You are in total control. You control ALL of your actions and choices. You may think about having sex a lot because you're a young maturing girl! You have hormones. We are all guilty of that! It's okay to feel like you want to do sexual things..but you need to listen to your HEART and BODY! Think about these things: Are you ready to possibly have a baby? Are you ready to deal with how your friends and school mates will react if they found out (because whether or not you think so, all guys talk) Are you ready to possible contract an STD or even AIDS? Are you ready to explain to your parents why you had sex(if they find out)? Are you ready to have to make it a common routine in your life (if the guy pushes for it)? Are you ready to experience something that God veiws as sacred shared between a man and WIFE?
You need to think about all of these things. They should help you in deciding if you are ready. But like I said only you know if you are ready or not. Having sex doesn't make you any cooler,better, or worse than anyone. Sex isn't what defines you. YOU define YOU. Also, don't let someone pressure you into having sex and don't try and CONVINCE yourself. If there is any doubt, you can prolly go WITHOUT (sex). I hope I helped..remember, YOU need to decide..NOONE else! :)
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i have this boyfreid and i like him alot and we grew up togeather and i want more from him and i feel like hes not giving me enough we only kissed and i want to do more wut should i do! (link)
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Well, first you need to realize that relationships aren't just about doing sexual things. Well, real ones anyways.. Also, you should kind of like and admire the fact that he's not like the typical guy that just wants to take advantage and thinks from his dick. But you're right, and do have a point to an extent. I think you should just tell your boyfriend how you are feeling. He seems like the kind of guy that would care about your feelings. He'll never know if he's doing something wrong unless you let him know. You should tell him that you appreciate the fact that he respects you but your okay with doing more. If he's for it, then next time (if he doesn't) you make the flirty move and take charge! That will also probably turn him on! Just don't force things..let things go with the flow! :)
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so I went out witha guy who was too protective and , I broke up with him and went out with my bestfriends xboyfriend and when my x found out he gave my new boyfriend huge welps on his legs and back.....!!!!!!!!!! And he went to the docter . And my best friends made at me now and she's going out with my x , what should I do???? and soory so long (link)
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Wow, okay! Well this whole situation is a bad one and a dramatic one at that. First of all, you were right to have ended things with you're (ex) boyfriend if you felt he was being too protective or you and your rights. And that kinda okay to date your best friend ex as long as she's okay with it. Like, did you ask her if she was okay with it before it happened? That would have been the most respectable thing to do. But what's done is done. So, if you didn't talk to your best friend about it first (as well as the guy) then you both kind of needed to anticipate possible jealousy issues from your best friend. Your best friend and your boyfriend now may have already been broken up but there could have been emotions still there. What your ex boyfriend did is REALLY wrong. Violence is NEVER the answer to anything! He had no right to have done that to anyone!! You should tell an adult. Like have your boyfriend's mom and dad and your parents to talk to your ex boyfriends because that guy needs serious help!! About your best friend, she's just going out with your ex out of jealousy. If oyu want to make up with her, you and her ex (your boyfriend now) should talk to her and tell her you never meant to hurt her and you both respect and care for her. Nobody needs all this drama in their life. It's not healthy. Also, tell you best friend what your ex did, she needs to know. Her safety is at risk as well. Hope things work out! :)
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I've messed up a lot...and I'm only 15. I'm not going to go into detail about all the mistakes I've made, I just need a way to deal with them. It's like their haunting my mind. I don't know how to deal with it, and I'm always putting myself down about them too. I'm only 15 what do I do? I know its in the past and I can't do anything about it.... (link)
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Hmm, well i think I can help you out with this one, because whenever I feel like I do something that's bad it seems too burden me forever. First and foremost, the important thing to focus on, is like you said, it's in the PAST and you can't change that. Your past does not control you're future so DON'T let it. It's often that good hearted people have many regrets and let things they have done (both good or bad) loom in their head. SO, I think you need to start doing some good. First, if yoy are at all religious..you could pray about it and ask whomever you believe in to give you the strenth to have a good future and get on the right path in life and to help you cope. Also, think of the things you have done, to not neccesarly bad things that have messed you up, but life lessons that have made you who you are today! Learn from you're mistakes and fix them and improve yourself. If you want to you could go to a Catholic church and confess your sins to a Preist, or you could write about you're past in a diary and lock it up and this will help you just vent! If you want to do some good for society you could volunteer or find some other way to get involved and be active. The only way things are going to change is if YOU change 'em. It may not help right away, but in time, you'll be thankful for those mistakes because you wouldn't be who you are without them. Just keep in mind..it was the PAST! Also, if none of that helps you could see a shrink because talking to someone ALWAYS helps!! Even an animal or something!! Just need someone to listen! Feel better!! :)
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me and my mom fight alot but i try to b nice to her as much as i can cuz you never knoe wut will happen you knoe so i really do try my hardest when we get in fights to just let it go but it seems that she alwats gets her way! and i knoe shes the mom and shes older and knoes best but i really get upset when i have a very good reason to defend my self for but she never listens to me! but then again i never give up until i get my way! i knoe i sound like a total brat now and i guess thats wut yu get but i don't want to b a brat n e more! i really want to be a good person for the rest of my life so please help me
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Aww! Well, you seem to be really level headed and know what youy are talking about. What you are going this is 100% natural; it's something all girls go through with their mommies!! hehe!! Kinda like a part of life! To an extent, you are both right! I mean everyone alwyas wants their way..and it's okay to fight..I mean everyone does it..and it's really mature of you to be able to say that you know she is older and prolly knows best. A lot of the times kids have a hard time admitting that! I think just to make yourself feel better about all this you should try CIVILY and MATURLY talking to your mom alone. Like open up to her and tell her how you are feeling about all this! Chances are, she's totally going to understand and comfort you. As for the brat thing, you're not a brat..you're just a girl that knows what she wants! I think we are all guilty of that! But you should really try talking to your mom one-on-one and tell her how you feel like she never listens (don't yell at her though) and tell her you want to be a good person and you want to have a good relationship with each other. But like I said, it's natural to fight! Just hang in there, talk to your mom, have fun..and most of all have faith and love for something. I'm sure you will grow up to be exactly who you want t be! Good luck! :)
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ok i just asked a question about me and this boy before but i got another one ok i was over at this boy tonys house and we had sex and i dotn know what to do now because he is being ignorant to me now and i dotn know what to do!! what should i do? thankz
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Well, first of all..I'm not saying it was wrong of oyu to have sex with him because that's your choice, but you and him both are pretty young to be doing that kind of stuff just yet. Based on what you have told me from the previous question and this one, it seems like Tony only wants you when he WANTS you. It seems like he just used you. If he really loved you, respected you, and cared for you he wouldn't ignore you at all especially not after y'all did something to intimate. I think you are letting this go on because you nowfeel really attached to him, which you can't entirely help that..but what you can help is who you give a chance and who you let go..you really deserve to be treated better and you deserve someone that is not going to use you for anything and then treat you like a dog (especially after sex). Obviously, you are more mature than Tony and he is just thinking with his penis and not his head or heart. I really would suggest staying away from Tony, and as hard as it may be..you need to move on and find a better guy that wants more from you than just sex....a guy that wants you so y'all can have a REAL relationship. Don't give Tony the time of day, because it doesn't seem like he gives you his. Just stay strong and keep telling yourself you are better than that and you deserve better than that. Show him a lesson that he may have done this to you but you won't let him continue it and you're not gunna tolerate it! There's lots of guys out there..if it's meant to be it will happen! Don't force it..and even if Tony talks to you a month from now and says he's changed his way you put your foot down and you call all the shots!!! :)
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ok i am 14 almost 15 and i am seein this boy named tony and he is 13 almost 14 and he acts ignorant to me when he is around his friends and the last time i talked to him i told him we are done ad never talk to me again because i was just really mad!! and now we havnt talked him 2 almost 3 weeks and i am upset how do i get him to talk to me i just want to go crazy because i dotn have him with me well please tell me what i should do!! thanks for you advice anyone
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Okay, well first of all, this whole situations seems kind of childish and immature. You are young, you have plenty of time to find and be with lots of other guys. You don't need to stay tied down at your age..and the fact that your bf or ex or w/e acts like he's too cool for you and acts all ignorant ONLY when he is around his friends really says a lot about who he is and his character..he obviously doesn't care for you as much as you thought he did or he wouldn't care who is around and he would always treat you like a princess. That's the kind of guy you need and want no matter how much you think this Tony means to you. To his defense, you can't really blame him..he is only 13 years old. A 13 year old isn't totally capable of being a good boyfriend at that age because they don't have enough life and/or relationship experience yet, you know? But still, it's not right that he treats you that way when he is around his friends because he wants to act cool..you deserve better than that. Have high expectations!! I know you think you shouldn't have ended things with him because at the time you were mad, but honestly you did what's best..you taught him a lesson that shows him that heneeds to treat you better. The bad part is, that obviously he didn't care too much if he hasn't made an attempt to talk to you and show you that he is learning and/or trying to change the way he acts. He has had plenty of time to do this. I wouldn't wait around for him. Like I said, you are young and there are tons of other guys that will treat you better and that will love to show you to his guy friends, no matter how mocho he is!! Stand your ground, and no matter how hard it is..don't or at least try not ot talk to Tony to sho him that you deserve respect and dignity..if you go calliong him he's just not gunna respect you and he's gunna think how he acted was right and he will do it again! Good luck, and stay strong and go get you a new older boy!! Hehe! :)
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is there any easy way by not doing flyers that you can find out from at home-because im dont have a lot of time to go out and make flyers.thanks-im kerri's friend-please answer-and no you didn't help..lol (link)
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Awww, I'm sorry I didn't help the first time. And sure, there are tons of other things you can do to get your name out there and get to babysitting! If you have a webpage you could post it on your webpage, or you could even leave a message on your home answering machine so that when people call they can not only leave a message for whomever they need but they will also hear that you are available to babysit! Like the message usually might say " Sorry we can't come to the phone right now, leave a message after the beep" and to that you could add...and if you are in need a babysitter leave a message for ___ or you could give your cell # or something! Also, if you have any other friends that can babysit you may want to ask if you could help them out, that way next time when they are unable to, you can babysit for the people. Another tip, if your mom or dad have friends or know people with small/younger children you could always ask them to get your name out there! But you just have to give it a lil' time..you'll build up some clients with time..if you do a good job then one family will tell another and they will ask you and so on and so forth! You'll have a huge clinetel in no time at all! I hope this helped more. Good luck! :)
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hi free2bme!!ive seen sum of ur answers to questions and let me start by telling u, hav u ever considered being a psycologist?.....lol. u really know how 2 a question.
the problem wit me iz im always bleeding(and this has nothing to do wit my period either)and theres jus always a whole rac of blood on my tissue after i go.wat should i do??
btw:im 17 and a female (link)
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Awww, well first off thanks a lot for the sweet comment! Okay, well it's not really normal that you are bleeding down there..but before you totally freak out, you need to think about soome questions: Do you have sex? Could this be your cherry popping? How long has it been bleeding down there? Do you masterbate? You need to first ask yourself these questions if you have sex and have been doing it too much you can cause bleeding, if you just had sex or maybe not even sex but done something very active recently, your cherry could of popped..if that is the case, it should stop soon.. Also, if you masterbate like a lot of are being touched down there A LOT it can become irrated thus causing the bleeding..If the answer to all these is NO then you need to see a doctor as soon as possible. It is not normal to be hemreging from down there. Chances are, the blood is a result of one of the above mentioned situations. I would suggest going to a gynocologist and if it's your first time (go to a women) because you'll be much more comfortable..and they may not even make you get examined down there they may just have you pee! Well, I hope I helped..if you need anything else, feel free to ask! :)
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well theres this friend i have and i always catch her in lies. a lot of my other friends do to, so we all know she lies. i never really wanted to confront her about it, but the other day she got mad at me, and we were fighting so i told her that i noticed that she lied ALL the time, and i even gave her examples, but she still says she didn't lie. well we all know she did, because she tells us all different things. well now we're in a big fight, so i don't even think i should have brought it up in the first place becasue i hate fighting,which is why i never brought it up before. so now what should i do? (link)
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Well, it seems like you (and most of your other friends) are definately the more mature ones in the situation. I can totally relate to your postion right now. First, you have to realize you can't change your friend, you know? I mean, she may really be addicted to lying..I know that sounds weird, but there are some people that like to lie about anything and everything because they enjoy getting all the attention and they get liek a rush from it. Sounds weird to me and you, but there are people like that. So, you and all your other freinds are great-good hearted people for still sticking by your friend through this. In time, she may grow out of it, because it's very childish, but there's a good chance she may not..or at least keep a part of her lying personality. In a way, you were totally right to have said something to her. But, in a fight wouldn't of been the best time to say something. When people fight, they say things they totally don't mean. If you still want to be this girls friend, which it seems like you do, I would try and talk to her civily. You know sit her down (1 on 1) not with all your other friends because they she may feel like y'all are attacking her, and you know explain to her that she's your friend nad you are gunna be there for her through thick and thin, and that you hate fighting and 1 little fight isn't gunna let you destroy the whole friendship. Tell her that, you were wrong to have yelled that she lied, but sometimes you really feel like she does lie to you. Make sure you make some kind of comment after that liek " But we all have our flaws". And just end the civil convo with something like " We all say things, and make up things, it's a part of human nature..but I just wanted to let you know how you make me feel when you do these things...but I want to make up and I'm sorry for fighting with you, Friends Always? I hope I Helped!! :)
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