so I went out witha guy who was too protective and , I broke up with him and went out with my bestfriends xboyfriend and when my x found out he gave my new boyfriend huge welps on his legs and back.....!!!!!!!!!! And he went to the docter . And my best friends made at me now and she's going out with my x , what should I do???? and soory so long
Kali7890 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 2:18 am: Hey, you're really in a tough situation. You need to talk to your ex and stick by your new boyfriend. You also need to talk to your best friend about what's going on. Just hang on and I'm sure things will get better. I hope everything works out for you and I hope I helped. ~*~KaLi~*~ [ Kali7890's advice column | Ask Kali7890 A Question ]
FrEe2bMe answered Sunday July 18 2004, 2:04 am: Wow, okay! Well this whole situation is a bad one and a dramatic one at that. First of all, you were right to have ended things with you're (ex) boyfriend if you felt he was being too protective or you and your rights. And that kinda okay to date your best friend ex as long as she's okay with it. Like, did you ask her if she was okay with it before it happened? That would have been the most respectable thing to do. But what's done is done. So, if you didn't talk to your best friend about it first (as well as the guy) then you both kind of needed to anticipate possible jealousy issues from your best friend. Your best friend and your boyfriend now may have already been broken up but there could have been emotions still there. What your ex boyfriend did is REALLY wrong. Violence is NEVER the answer to anything! He had no right to have done that to anyone!! You should tell an adult. Like have your boyfriend's mom and dad and your parents to talk to your ex boyfriends because that guy needs serious help!! About your best friend, she's just going out with your ex out of jealousy. If oyu want to make up with her, you and her ex (your boyfriend now) should talk to her and tell her you never meant to hurt her and you both respect and care for her. Nobody needs all this drama in their life. It's not healthy. Also, tell you best friend what your ex did, she needs to know. Her safety is at risk as well. Hope things work out! :) [ FrEe2bMe's advice column | Ask FrEe2bMe A Question ]
kevin1986 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:50 am: Wow,that's funny. That dude just let a girl beat up on him. Why is your best friend mad that you're going out with her ex-bf? She must still have feelings for him. Your friend and ex sounds like a jerk and your current guy sounds like a wimp. Bruises from a girl? You think Russell Crowe would've let that shit happen? If that girl had come at me throwin punches,I would've fought back. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
Ugahottie321 answered Sunday July 18 2004, 1:42 am: ok u gotta tough situation here and i pity u to death! but heres wat u gotta do about that jealous ex! if he doesnt stop u gotta make him either tell him to or get sum help and tell sum1 like a councilor cus thats a lil outa hand! he needs to get over it! about u best friend yall need to sit down and talk a guy is never NEVER worth losing a frend over! u hav to make sure ur frend nos ur feelings for the guy r sincere and that ur not jus going out with him to make her mad u guys jus need to have a big long talk and everything should b fine. good luck with ur fix and that ex! uck! write me sum time!
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