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I'm Ice, and I'm a senior in high school. I'm a product of divorce, so that's my area of specialty. If you've got questions about divorce, remarriage, stepparents or siblings, or the custody system, just ask.

But if you have questions about anything else, I'd be more than happy to answer them also.
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I only started my periods abouit a year ago, but recently they've been really heavy (like MASSES of blood), and I feel faint sometimes. Is it normal to be like this or is there something wrong with me? by the way, I'm 14. Please answer asap because I'm really worried (link)
Perfectly normal. Try eating more meat, or taking a multi-vitamen so you don't feel so faint.


Does anyone know any good recipes I can do with a Devil's food cake mix? (link)
Chocolate Pancakes. Devil's Food Cupcakes?


Lately I've been getting on my parents nerves. I can tell cause they're always mad at me. They say it's because I have a really bad attitude. Even though I really don't think I do. I usually have a great attitude about things. I've also been really into acting and every time I talk about it they just ignore me so I get mad. Just the other day he told me I did something when I knew I didn't so I calmly told him I didn't and he told me I was lying so I got mad. He told me to get rid of my attitude so I said no because he called me a liar. Then He got up in my face and just started screaming at me. I'm really confused right now and don't know what to do. Could any one give me some advive.
I'm 14 (link)
Around 14-15, things in the family start to get pretty funky. You'll say something and your parents will interperet it the wrong way. Or not hear you at all. Your parents could be under alot of stress at work. You could try talking to them when they're a bit calmer, or let the topic sit for a few days. Whatever you do, don't get mad and start yelling and calling names or anything.


I was the one who got kicked out and i saw the advice and they said to clean the house and stuff.. well i already do that and they dont apprciate it.I also watch my lil sis 24/7 and they are korean and i dont communicate with them well cuz they dont really lisen or try to understand.I try to understand where they come from but alot of times it doesnt make since.But i have tried talkin to them and they tell me to shut up. so i have no place to talk to them and they are barely ever home.I dont know what to do anymore. (link)
It sounds as if you live in an extended family with grandparents and other relatives. The way our grandparents were raised is very different than how we in this generation are raised. Try talking with only your mom or dad, whoever symphathises with you better, or even an older cousin or sibling. They might be able to understand your situation better.

Also, see if you can take your sister along when you visit your friends.


ok how do i get bigger boobs without having a boob job? i hwear a size 36A and im 13 but my my freshman yeari wantr at least a 38A or 40A so can someone please help me?? how do i get bigger boobs!!!!WITHOUT HAVING A BOOB JOB (link)
FYI, the number is how big around your chest is just below your bra. The letter is how big you actually are. So a 36B is smaller than a 36D, and someone with a 40C would be physically larger around the middle than a 34D.

You can't control how big they're going to get, and there's no way to make them bigger without surgery. Brests naturally grow larger when women have children, but that is NOT the way to make them grow.


If (without knowing) you sleep on sheets that may have semen on them, could you get pregnant? Like, if your brother was jacking off in your bed, and you never knew, is it...like, possible?????????PLZ PLZ tell me!! (link)
No.


Hi there,

I am trying to get hold of a CD Duplicator but make up my mind on which to buy since there are so many. The final question is:

Should I choose the 1-7 duplicator (www.esystor.com)?
But I would have to replace CD-Rs every 3 minutes.

Or choose the Automatic CD Duplicator from Telex (www.telex.com). You place 100 blanks CD-Rs and it automatically loads each blank when finished. Burns around 30 in half of an hour. However, I am scared about the durability of the loading arm but Telex is a popular brand. (link)
Either way, you're going to be replacing CDs, be it a few at a time or all at once. I'd go with whichever's cheaper.


Recently i got kicked out of my house for not wanted to stay home and i am claimed to not do much for my family.. I believe i help out a little bit but everything that i have ever done has never been enuff for them.But i dont wanna get "kicked out" again. I must also note that i am under age and not old enuff to get kicked out. I wanna be able to go out and have fun but my parents dont understand that and i wanna make a compromise.. i jus dont know what to do! (link)
Offer to trade. Vacuming the house or dishes for a week for a few hours out with friends. Then work up from there.


Who should I cosplay at next year's Animazement? Animazement 2004 just ended, and I know I'm going again next year, but who should I cosplay as? (I'm female, by the way, but that doesn't really make much of a difference, does it?) Please help. (link)
Robin! Or you could pick some male character and go as him. But I've always been a fan of WHR.

If you need ideas, pick up a copy of Newtype and look through it.


COULD BORING GET ANY MORE BORING!!! I'm stuck in the house with my little sister and it's sooo boring. The computer and tv and playstation are losing there fun...so any creative ideas on what i could do to when stuck in the house?? I'm 14 and a girl. (link)
- Watch a movie you used to love as a kid
- Take an egg outside and watch it fry on the sidewalk
- Write a fanfic
- bored.com
- *gasp* clean something in the house so mom doesn't have to yell at you to do it when she gets home
- tan in the backyard
- make a tent in the living room out of bedsheets
- read a book


I'm going into a High School program(i just got outta middle school) that is suppose to be sooo hard that students who go there get so much work you have to spend the night studing and don't have time for a real life. I even have to go to summer school to get in. My mom's making me go. Worse of all i never do my homework. I've started working already to get ready. But i'm scared stiff. Any advice to help me be inspired to do my homework will help because i'm not sure how long this 'studying' will last. (link)
Been there, done that! Most of this 'staying up studying all night' is from students who procrastinate, or put off work until the last minute. You can avoid that by doing homework right after you get it. Avoiding homework doesn't cut it. Set aside two hours a night to do homework, then spend an hour on break. Repeat as necessary. And don't say, "I'll just check my E-mail, then do the homework." Do the homework. Get it over with. Don't procrastinate.


Lately, my mom has been telling the most random people really personal stuff about me. For instance, I bought a thong the other day, and my mom went and told all of the people at her work. I also trusted her when I told her who I had a crush on. She told my whole entire family and a bunch of her customers at her work. She also tells people what grades I get (A's, B's, & C's), that I'm "way too thin", and all this personal stuff. I've told my mom to stop, but then it always gets worse. What should I do? (link)
Your mom is doing what all proud parents do, showing you off. She sounds like she's proud that you're growing up, and is playing the 'my kid is better than your kid' game at work. Try feeding her good things about what you're doing at school: "Hey, mom! I made a 94 on the Algebra test today!", and lay off telling her about crushes and such.




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