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please help me
ok i am 14 almost 15 and i am seein this boy named tony and he is 13 almost 14 and he acts ignorant to me when he is around his friends and the last time i talked to him i told him we are done ad never talk to me again because i was just really mad!! and now we havnt talked him 2 almost 3 weeks and i am upset how do i get him to talk to me i just want to go crazy because i dotn have him with me well please tell me what i should do!! thanks for you advice anyone
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Well really you both should say sorry to each other because he wants to make you happy and you told him not to talk to u so he isnt and then he is being mean to u .... so ... you both should say sorry
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Talk to him about by calling him because its easier that way and you have his attention-trix
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talk to him and tell him why you acted they way you did and if things get mended ask him to try harder at being nicer when hes around his friends
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call him! explain to him that you still care and give him a good reason why you told him it was over... maybe you were just in a badmood and couldn't stand it anymore. just be straight forward.. all the guys i know hate it when ppl rnt just straight forward with them.. dont make up any bullshit, tell him why. once you explain to him your relationship can only become stronger! goodluck! if you need anymore advice you know where to find me!
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*What you should have done was tell him how you felt when he was around his friends. I think you should say an "I'm sorry" and tell him you didn't mean and then just explain everything*
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HE LIKES TO ACT IGNORANT TO YOU IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS . WELL ACT IGNORANT TOWARDS HIM IN FRONT OF HIS FRIENDS . CALL HIM AN " IGNORANT , SELF CENTERED JERK, GIT, AND @$$ HOLE " . OH AND IF U REALLY WANT THE TRICK U COULD SAY THAT THE $EX WAS
TERRIBLE AND THAT HE WAS HORRIBLE .
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YOU COULD COME OVER TO HIS HOUSE IN A MATURE ADULT WAY AND DISCUSS WHATEVER U WANT TO DISCUSS .
OR
YOU COULD TALK TO HIM AND YELL AT HIM .
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Yeah I agree it does sound pretty Imature. First you had sex with the guy now your like going Crazy. Your only 14 sweetie. And believe me everyone goes in and out of love. I can tell this is your first time!
-Stephanie
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Okay, well first of all, this whole situations seems kind of childish and immature. You are young, you have plenty of time to find and be with lots of other guys. You don't need to stay tied down at your age..and the fact that your bf or ex or w/e acts like he's too cool for you and acts all ignorant ONLY when he is around his friends really says a lot about who he is and his character..he obviously doesn't care for you as much as you thought he did or he wouldn't care who is around and he would always treat you like a princess. That's the kind of guy you need and want no matter how much you think this Tony means to you. To his defense, you can't really blame him..he is only 13 years old. A 13 year old isn't totally capable of being a good boyfriend at that age because they don't have enough life and/or relationship experience yet, you know? But still, it's not right that he treats you that way when he is around his friends because he wants to act cool..you deserve better than that. Have high expectations!! I know you think you shouldn't have ended things with him because at the time you were mad, but honestly you did what's best..you taught him a lesson that shows him that heneeds to treat you better. The bad part is, that obviously he didn't care too much if he hasn't made an attempt to talk to you and show you that he is learning and/or trying to change the way he acts. He has had plenty of time to do this. I wouldn't wait around for him. Like I said, you are young and there are tons of other guys that will treat you better and that will love to show you to his guy friends, no matter how mocho he is!! Stand your ground, and no matter how hard it is..don't or at least try not ot talk to Tony to sho him that you deserve respect and dignity..if you go calliong him he's just not gunna respect you and he's gunna think how he acted was right and he will do it again! Good luck, and stay strong and go get you a new older boy!! Hehe! :)
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