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i met this guy dan on halloween 2002 .. and i loved him ever since i layed my eyes on him .. we did go out 6 timez but he went out wif my best friend like 20 ! and i reely love him and she even knows that .. im soo confused .. i dont know how to get him bakk .. ;) plzz helpp mee
x0xO MayA x0xx
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u cant alwayz get wut u want... i kno that suks... but like shez ur friend u shouldnt get in the middle of anything, even if she says itz okay it might jus b cuz ur hur friend n it might hurt her. dont pass the feelingz around it makes it worse. <3 xogiggles37xo.
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Tell your best friend how much you REALLY love him...Tell her that you really need him and such. Then you need to tell all of your feelings to him. Maybe he'll break up with her, or she will. I know you don't want to break them up, and that's going to be hard...but, if it's love...Go for it sweetie. Hope I helped. <3 Have a good day!
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well.. you should either talk to your best friend about how you feel and if shes a good friend she'll end things with him.. if not then maybe you should just give up on him and find someone else.. guys arent worth any friendships!
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Six times? Twenty times? Holy crap. Anyways. Let the guy come to you instead of chasing him. Talk to him as a friend and perhaps it will become more... uhh again. If he isn't interested in taking you back then there isn't really much you can do but move on.
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Well, first of all love is an awesome thing if you know how to handle it. The fact that you went out with this guys 6 different times makes it sound suspicious to me. Is he scared of commitment? Can he not make up his mind? Does he not care as much as you do? Is his heart not in it? --Have you asked yourself any of these questions..if not, you need to. Also, the fact that he went out with your best friend is totally crappy. First of all it was crappy of your best friend to do that ESPECIALLY if she knew how you felt about him. Best friends don't do that! That's like a dagger to the heart. Also, he shouldn't of gone out with your best friend. Does he have no dignity? And it's not just ONCE 20 times you said. Ibviously this guy has issues. He seems immature and inexperienced to me and prbably know how he's got you two girls all into him and he's playing off of it and in a way taking advantage. First, you should talk to your friend and explain to her AGAIN how you feel/felt and straighten things out with her. Then, you need to talk to this guy. Tell him you are hurt and confused by what he did. If he is SINCERELY sorry then begin to work things out so MAYBE you will get him back. If he isn't then this guy has a lot of growing up to do and as hard as it may be you need to begin to move on. This is too much immaturity and drama. But if you think all of what I am saying is crap and you don't like it, and you want to stay with someone that obviously doesn't care about you as you thought he did and who disrespects you...then just be yourself. That's the best way to get a guy. Be HONEST and REAL and YOURSELF. You are in control. But if he passes you up, you need to move on, you deserve better and more mature and a guy that wouldn't dream of going for anyone but you. He's out there! :)
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Well 6 times? dont you think that did it? i would.. but that is just my opinion.. so go with what your heart tells ya!!-trix
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