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okay katy...im 15 and im a female...so a few months ago i met this kid...and i was with him for quite a while and i really liked him so much...i might have evne loved him...but he was with another girl the whole time we were together and cheateed on me...and lied to me about it and everything...even when she called him i ansswered and he didnt care...and shit like he said they were done...but he cheated on me...and i was so devistated and i am so depressed since hes gone...i want to get over hnim but everytime i see something or hear something it reminds me of him...and when i see him on occasion i cry for like ever...i dont kno what to do to get myself over this kid...i mean can u help me because he has a g/f that hes been with for a while and loving him is pretty pointless....cuz he wont be with me...plus hes comin to my school nxt year and i need to be over him...HELP ME PLEASE...and another thing...sometime i call him just to talk too...and i think i should tell him how i feel...do you?? help!
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def. tell him how u feel and that u didnt appreciate being cheated on b/c neone who would do that is just a jerk, so b/4 skool starts try to find someone new and forget about this guy, i mean its obviously not worth crying over if he cheated on u, its more worth slapping the day lights outta him or kickin him wear tha sun dont shine...(lol) so jus try to move on and i hope everything works out and i hope i helped! XoXoXo
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yea tell him how u feel. but also ova tyme ull get over him... i kno it hurtz right now but over tyme emotionz heal. <3 xogiggles37xo.
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Dear Broken,
He obviously cheated on you which makes him a pig. And if you ask me the other girls an idiot for staying with him after he cheated on her w/you.. i think thats how you put it. If not he prob. did cheat on her anyways. There really is no EXACT way to get over him... but there are stratagies. For instance.. everytime you think about him and your thinking about fun times. think about a time he made you cry or how he cheated. And STOP calling him.. that akes you miss him more.. by hearing his voice. And why would you want to call him, this guys a jerk! hes a cheater and you can do better! trust me. Any guy who can direspect you like that is not a guy you would want to take home to mom ;) There are tons of way to get over this kid! Any items you have of his (jackets hats letters from him etc...) Either throw them away or put them sumwhere that you never look. like in a box in your closet. Another way is just hang out with your friends constantly.. and always be doing soething so your not bored and you don't have time to think! Trust me it works.Maybe you will find a cute new guy over the summer to occupy you anyways.. who knows there already could be one but you didn't know it cuz you were so hung up about this one. Although this will take some time.. hopefully by the time next year rolls around you will have your new hottie.. or you will just have forgotten about him and are able to look at him in the hall with a confident smile on your face that you DON'T need him ;)
hope i helped..
if you need any more advice just drop one in my inbox or im me :)
xoxo
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Well..sweetie! I'm really sorry that he cheated on you. I think what you need to do, is maybe write down all of the anger, but good feelings you have for him and compare them. I think you'll see how mad he made you, and how he hurt you...and that'll make you dislike him some more. What you have to do is stay strong and tell yourself you don't need him.
I'm here to listen..<3 hope I helped..Have a good day.
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Omg i was in this same situation, my bf cheated on me, and i was so mad whenever i was dating him, but when you let go, you want him back! The way i got over him is by thinking about how he cheated on you, and you can't fall madly in love with some one who will cheat on you!!
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Okay well you can tell him how you feel.. but if he is in a serious relationship w/ this other grl then he probably won't break up w/ her... well its worth a try and if he says that he doesnt feel the same.. then just try to forget about him.. become better friends w/ other guys.. meet new people.. just try to put him in the past and pretend you don't know him..well not 4-ever.. just until your over him and have moved on to someone new who actually cares about you!
hope i helped
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